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Does a blow job require this in order to feel good?

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Question - (17 November 2014) 12 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Guys when a girl gives you a blow job, does a girl have to deep throat for it to feel good for you.

Answers from guys only please.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2014):

They say Nixon saw deep throat 8 times before he got it down Pat.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2014):

I don't deep throat because my gag reflex is sensitive. And my guy loves my bj's ... I use my hands and I've taken note of how he pleasures him self. So using his technique but with my hands and combined with my mouth... He's in heaven! He too likes finger in the butt or perineum massage combined with hand/blow job - it makes for talented multi tasking :-)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (18 November 2014):

eyeswideopen agony auntAhh Watergate...quite a story

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (18 November 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntIf I can get a girl to come back to my house.... she's pretty-much covered all my s*xual requirements.

Anything beyond that - removing her clothes, for example - is like me getting a hole-in-one, a 300 string in bowling, and hitting a grand-slam homer in my Senior's softball game, ALL IN THE SAME DAY!!!!!!

P.S. Last girl who tried to "deep throat" me, found that it wasn't possible.... couldn't GET "deep".....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2014):

And girls and boys still keep posting your opinions if u like, its nice to hear peoples opinions

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2014):

Thank you very much for all your advise, girls too lol

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (18 November 2014):

Honeypie agony auntDeep throat is part of the porn ideals - like facials. For those FEMALES who CAN do it, and enjoy it (with out gagging) it's not something that comes overnight. It takes trust and well, PRACTICE.

Having a guy almost choke you on his penis is just NOT for everyone. Some guys are TOO big to do it for, some to wide.

BLOW job is about PLEASURE, for the guy AND the girl (in case you didn't know that last part) it's not about a guy screwing a girl's mouth/face. THAT... is pure porn.

With my husband, he have always loved BJ's, but before me couldn't get off on them, they were always part of foreplay not an "ending". Yet I have gotten him off MANY times without deep throat.

And I agree with C. Grant - if a guy tells you that is the ONLY right way to do it, he is full of crap.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 November 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI'm with Chigirl...

I've been giving GOOD blow jobs for 40 years and I have never had a complaint and I have NEVER deep throated.

IN fact, I have had SEVERAL men tell me over the years that I was the ONLY woman to be able to bring them to orgasm from a blow job.

I am a goddess on my knees... I do not deep throat. EVER.

NO ONE COMPLAINS.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (18 November 2014):

chigirl agony auntWhy answers from guys only? I think Ive given enough blowjobs to enough men to be able to say that: no, you do not need to deep throat. I rarely do, and yet they ALWAYS experience great pleasure. How do I know? Because you see, when a man is really turned on, he loses his poker face and it becomes quite clear.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (18 November 2014):

BrownWolf agony aunt

No, No, and uummmm...NO :) The difference between a good blow job and a great one...The women's effort...If a woman does it be because she knows guys like it but she herself is not into it..then it will suck...hehe :)

But if he plans to "blow my brains out" and make damn sure she tries...then you get the clouds parting and sunshine :)

It all about the work put into it.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (18 November 2014):

No but it's nice. Keep in mind what feels good is in the mind too.

I had a friend who liked a finger up his but when getting a bj too. No thanks.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (17 November 2014):

C. Grant agony auntAbsolutely not. If he's telling you that it's a load of rubbish.

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