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writes:Me and my other half have been together for 5 years we have only just got married about 4 weeks ago. Our relationship is amazing we get on great, but I have noticed a few times that our sex life has changed. When we first got together it was amazing lasted all day with forplay and experimenting could go three or four times a day. Then when we moved in together it didn't last nearly as long and we hardly ever experimented. When we got engaged I was lucky to get it once a month. Now we are married its got to the point where it's a quick squeeze of my boobs a little rub and then he bangs it in and off he goes, i dont even get wet any more. Then when he's done he rolls over and goes sleep. I have to finish the job off my self. Now I have tried talking to him loads of time and told him I want to try new things but its just not happening. Any advice or help to get us back on track to how we used to be would be amazing. I'd at least like to get wet before he penetrates.
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reader, spicegirl719  +, writes (20 November 2014):
 Being married for going on seven years, I can say the spark was lost as well. But we tried something new. I starte dressing up more (in lingerie and costumes). We spoke about it as well, which I believe communication is key. My suggestion is, before he gets on top of you and wam bang thank you mams you; try being dressed up. maybe a little dance? Whisper in his ear what you like?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYup I've spoken to him about it and he was ok at first but now he's back to his old ways x
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (14 November 2014):
 Have you tried saying to him, "hey, babe, I love the feel of you inside me but I'm not ready yet. Let's play a bit more.'? If not, why not?
If you have and he's ignoring it, then you have a bigger problem.
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