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Sex: Help and advice

Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first ...

A guy told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend and while I know it's a lie, it's still bothering me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - A bloke came up to me in my local the other night and told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend for the past 4 months. He explained that she was waiting for the right time to tell me it's over.I just burst out laughing at the thought of my ...

Did the text mean that he was looking to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - So this guy was flirting with me. We were texting and talking about the movie I just watched. Then he said "If you're free we can do something maybe... ;)" Did he mean sex? And how should I react to it? This msg just kinda popped out of nowhere. ...

I feel like I am not part of my boyfriend's life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating a guy for around 6 months. During this time we have seen each other at weekends and once during the week. To begin with this was fine, but now I am starting to feel this relationship is stalling. We have a great sex...

How to stop thinking about sex with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - After my boyfriend and I broke up, I sought out a rebound, and the guy that presented himself to me was a 32 year old unemployed cocaine addict with a kid. I am 20 years old, from an upper-middle class professional family, in college, working ...

Is this possible in this day and age for a guy to concentrate on one woman and be sexually obsessed with her? Because I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me... My ex boyfriend was a porn addict who told me I couldn't be a model as I'm just an ordinary person. These words haunt me, he's made me believe I'm a lesser. It's let to me having...

Be careful of predators and perverts online

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

27 November 2013 (?) - I have been doing the online dating for a while now and there are a lot of predators who are waiting to take advantage of gullible women. I have been a victim and you think I would know better by now. When you are lonely and vulnerable you will keep ...

I'm dating again haven't had sex in a year and am feeling insecure about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Hi folks, So I've just recently boarded the dating plane once again. I've been single for a year and a half (after coming out of a messy 3 year relationship) and I've starting casually seeing this guy from my work. We only started seeing e...

I can't remember all of the women I have slept with. Is this a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I was sitting here, alone in my basement feeling bad for myself, and decided I would write a list of all of the women I have slept with. I can't remember all of them that I have been with. Should this be concerning in my eyes? What is you all's ...

I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got t...

Relationship lacks intimcy, fiance wont let me get close.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - Hi ladies and Gents, My fiance is 22 and i'm 26 in a couple of weeks. my relationship lacks intimacy, I am feeling frustrated and rejected by her. we have sex once a week, if that. the times between sex are becomming further and further ap...

Can a woman orgasm too hard?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - Can a woman orgasm too hard? I really want to push my girlfriend to the limit but I don't want to hurt her, if I kept stimulating her past her usual limit will it give her more pleasure (more orgasms) or is there only so far a woman can go? ...

How do I move past this mistake?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm a Christian lady I made a mistake and had sex with a guy that I had just met I knew it was wrong but I was totally attracted him and plus he made it seen like he really liked me now he doesn't call or text anymore I feel so ashamed and used,how ...

I want to watch my wife give oral...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - Let me start by saying my relationship with my wife is AWESOME. Sure we have had some ups and downs, but overall it has been AWESOME. When we dated we were active like rabbits and it didn't really matter where we were, we would find a place to ...

Is it sexual frustration or overwhelming chemistry? Should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Hey everyone!!!! I have been single for a couple of months now. Me and my ex broke up mutually (i wanted to break up for a while before we actually did). Since we broke up though i made the decision to stay single for a while (i have had 3...

My boyfriend tells his best female friend that she is pretty and they talk about graphic sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for around six months now and we are very happy. He has a female best friend that he is very close to and says how much he loves her. He openly admits they talk about sex quite grafically and tell eachother when they ...

I would like more sex from my partner!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - I am a 45 year old male who is engaged to a disabled 57 year old lady. I am also a carer as a look after her a lot during the day. We also have professional carers that come in most of the week. We have been engaged since 10 October 2009. ...

Sex issue, possibly? Want some reassuring words I guess.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I need some advice as to whether I overreacted or if he was throwing hints because I'm feeling kind of stupid and inadequate. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We're both in our early 30's. Our sex life has been generally good ...

Tiny sand-like scabs in my bed after sleeping with a guy...what is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I've been sleeping with this guy for a while, and tonight he came over to visit me before he goes on a trip for 6 weeks. So we slept together. But after he left, I noticed my bed was full of what looked like sand at first. I picked up one of the ...

We're having some problems in the bedroom and I'm afraid it's my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hello! I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now, I was a virgin before him so I'm kind of lost regarding sex issues. The problem is he has problems getting an erection or sometimes he loses it half way through sex. He says it never ...

Am I about to be used in revenge sex with a longtime friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - This is a long and complex story of infidelity and revenge sex. So here's the short version. My friend had been cheating on his wife unknown to me. I've know them both since childhood. I kept our friendship at a respectful distance because I could ...

He thinks of me as something that I'm not and I can't stand the thought of seeing disappointment on his face

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - I have met a great guy and we have been dating for a while now. The next step on the cards for us is sex but im terrified of him seeing me naked. See I used to be extremely over weight and I lost it all naturally a few years ago but my body still ...

I think my boyfriend is still using porn, and it's affecting our sex life. How should I behave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Hello 2 Everyone! Two days ago I discovered my fiancee still uses porn. It was so disgusting and frustrating for me, still he lies. The problem is that is impossible for him to ejaculate when we have sex, even though is always horny. He says h...

Am I not good enough? Boyfriend didn't get turned having a shower with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I just showered together and through out that whole time he didn't get hard. He didn't even touch me (which is unusual). And then like 2 hours later I was fully dressed and he cracked a boner and when I asked what over he replied ...

Advice With Long Distance Relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (M) - To make a long story short, I met this girl, She's just about one of the hottest girls I've met, and we started talking about 4 weeks ago when she added me and we have been talking on the phone a lot lately. Yesterday was the day we got in a ...

Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me...

How do I approach the topic of sex without hurting his feelings/pride?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - Am I putting too much pressure on us both? Dear Cupid, After a long distressing relationship and a painful break up with a dead-beat guy about half a year ago now, I finally met someone wonderful who I adore. He's kind, funny and so sweet. He ...

Mom found out I'm no longer a virgin and all hell has broken loose! I don't regard myself as a sl*t, but she now certainly makes me feel like one.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I'm a 27yr female, a doctor in her fellowship in Mexico. I was virgin till I turned 25, I decided to have sex with my then 6month boyfriend who's still withe me (three years now). We are in a steady and serious relationship, even considering ...

Is there still a chance for us? Should I contact him again within a few months? Or should I just forget about him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I'll keep it short since our 'relationship' was short too. I met this guy at a party 3 weeks ago. We had an instant click and an amazing evening. He told me he came just out of a long relationship and was single for just 1 month. He's 23, i'm 26 ...

I feel I need to warn other women on the dating website about this aggressive jerk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I need help dealing with a situation. About 18 months ago I met a guy. He was fine and gentlemanly. On the fourth date, he got quite intimidating and clearly wanted sex. He got lairy. I was scared and intimidated but luckily as he did not have ...

My husband won't have sex with me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - My husband won't have sex with me. Been together 8 years, married for almost 1, he's 9 years older than me (I'm in my 20s, he's in his 30s). Our lives and relationship is pretty good EXCEPT this damn problem. About a year before the marriage our...

Questions on sex and HIV...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I've just read the stats about HIV and I'm shocked as too how many people were diagnosed in 2012. I have a few questions.. 1. How does a man get HIV off a woman? It seems there wouldn't be enough fluid exchanging. 2. How common is it to ge...

Does anyone else think it's silly that a lot of chicks still think they're virgins after giving bjs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - I just think it's really silly. I mean, I guess they'd be technical virgins, but to say you're pure after having a d--k in your mouth is just absolutely ridiculous to me. But I've heard A LOT of girls say they're still virgins after. Am I the only ...

Tips for making out and making a guy cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - I really need tips for how to make a guy cum during a makeout session. Of course we can grind top and bottom, but I'm specifically looking for tips on how to make him cum just using my hands (through his pants), or grinding in different ...

Am I being overly concerned -- he wanted to have sex without protection

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - After waiting a fair amount of time, the guy I'm dating and I decided to have sex. I had needed to take it slow, and he had respected that, then last night we took things further. It got to the point where he was about to go inside me, but he tried ...

Why is wife hiding her past from me, and has lied about it

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

18 November 2013 (M) - why is my wife hiding her past from me? she tells me its my problem, and not hers. she has lied to me over the years about it. we have been married for several years now 31 , while dating she said she was in love with her first, but a ye...

Why can't I stay away from trouble or settle down with a man who truly loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Have to ask myself why I am incapable of having a proper healthy relationship? Ever since I started dating about 3 years ago my whole relationship catalogue is a disaster (all my fault), so what is wrong with me? It started with a guy I dated for ...

Please tell me it's possible -- genuine love and good sex together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - So the kinkiest, hottest and most bullshit free sex I have ever had, is not in a a serious relationship. I am having it right now, but as I get past 10 years of monogamy (including 2 of marriage) in which sexstarted with co-ersion (as a teen) ...

Married 41 years. Any tips to spice up our sex lives please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 41 years, i'm 65 and she's 64. We used to have a great sex life but we haven't had sex for a couple of years now and it can get frustrating. Has anyone got any tips to spice up our sex lives? Thanks...

He deceived and cheated. I have regrets. Do you have any tips on how I can forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - About 6 months ago, I discovered a man I was seeing was not all he said he was. He was cheating on me with multiple women and deceived me on a level I never imagined possible. He broke my spirit and my heart. I had never felt so low. With lots...

What can a single guy with a high sex drive do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - I really don't like masturbating that much, but because I've got such a high sex drive i have to do it for relief. I can masturbate up to 3/4 times a day, and i get horny very quickly - for example i was sitting at the back of the bus behind a girl ...

I ended the relationship because my boyfriend called me another woman's name

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now but i now have a problem that has really upset me. While we were having sex and my boyfriend was about to cum he said "Michelle"...but that isn't my name...i got really upset but he said he ...

Girlfriend loves me but isnt physically attracted to me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - Girlfriend just told me she doesn't find me physically attractive? Said she loves me and is emotionally connected to me, therefore she is into me physically. Said she sees her life with me. But just that it's not a sexual thing. I'm really confused ...

Fiance has a hard time reaching orgasm. How can I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, My fiance and I have a great relationship, but there is something troubling me in the sex department. We have sex fairly often and it is very good, passionate, etc. The strange thing is that he has a hard time reaching orgasm a...

Just diagnosed with herpes who gave it to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - So i have just been diagnosed with genital herpes ! Very shocking too as im female and have just turned 22 However im in a slight dilema i am with my partner for nearly five months we never used protection he never mentioned anything about holding ...

We had an argument because he wanted sex and I wanted to sleep. Should I call him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - i had a fall out with my new boyfriend the other day, he basically said to me, i don't understand how can you girls know a guy has a hard on and not do anything about it!... he was saying that because i slept at his and we had sex the night before...

Out of sight out of mind? Anyone else stop caring about sex when they've been without for a while?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - Hi so I have this problem...well I dont know if it is so much a huge issue but just curious if other people feel the same way. I have been noticing that my sex drive isnt all that high. It isn't all that low but not super high if I compare it to ...

Don't want drama. Have not talked to FWB since condom broke. So how do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - Soo I feel really stupid here but I don't know what to do.... I was in this FWB things for a couple months we used condoms but had an incident when one broke and 9 weeks later here I am pregnant. Problem is I haven't talked to him since the condom b...

My partner is very good looking but I have no sexual attraction to him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - My partner is the male version of me. Before I met him, I was fully convinced there was no one else like me out there, and that I was doomed to spend my life alone. I'm "different", always have been. I'm extremely introverted, to the point where ...

His track record of one-night-stands really showed when we finally got intimate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - Hi aunts, Some advice would be great! Around 8 months ago I walked away from my 4 year relationship after not being happy for a long time. It was the right decision for myself and the relationship I feel. Around 5 months ago I met anoth...