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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Break up or stay with her? She's warned me that she may want to sleep with another guy, just randomly, in the future.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has told me that she thinks there will come a time when she wants to sleep with another guy just randomly. She said she doesn't know when. She said that she now considered us to be only slightly more than friends but wants to stil...

How can I get out of this confused mess that's happened since I split up with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - im in a right mess split up with my ex. A few months back we occasionally slept together i recently found out he was dating this girl. I felt really hurt as he had slept with me two days before i found out. I went mad and messaged her to tell her ...

Some basic rules that will help you to have better dating experiences. Can you add to the list?

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31 October 2012 (M) - It's been a while since I was last here, and I've changed A LOT since then. I'm currently in college, single, and looking into a lot of things I haven't thought about before, until I made the friends I have in college. Haha. Well, I'm learni...

Disturbed by his actions in bed

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - When a guy is giving you oral sex and he holds his breath, does it mean you smell down there? And in the middle of sex, he gives a disgusted look, does it mean he IS disgusted with you? ...

Is it really about the size?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - My girl friend has had only one partner in the past and that is who she lost her virginity to. We both are sexually active and she says she is happy. The problem is that most of the time when we have sexuall intercourse she doesn't orgasm. She told ...

My fiance said her ex was a better lover.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, sorry for the long post,this is the first time asking a question, although I have been reading many posts here trying to come to terms with something that happened to me recently. I have just recently come back from Europe where I a...

After sex I feel like I have used my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - everytime i make love to my girlfriend after i climax i feel really bad like i have used her a sense of failure and disgust, does every guy feel that ??...

Boyfriend won't do the things I need to make me climax. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - The only way I can cum is with penetration and breast stimulation at the same time. Time and time I've asked him to touch me and to suck on me, but my boyfriend of 9 years won't do it for more than ten seconds. He gets to cum, but I never can be...

Random girls? no problem. So why do I have semi-ED with girls I really like ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, i have this lil problem thats driving me crazy :( here is the situation, its about premature ejaculation but the thing is , it never happens to me with random girls that i randomly pick up at clubs and bars. i can last as long as ...

Still single and sick of it. How do I put the Zippity Do Dah into my life and Spice things up enough, to learn how to successfully date and become a partner to a nice girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - I posted here before 4 years ago. I imagine you probably receive hundreds of messages like this regularly. I thought long and hard about whether to actually send it. I actually wrote something sinilar to this at the beginning of the year ju...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

Guys please: Considering that I'm a 20 year old virgin, the question is, am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I should also start by pointing out that I'm not fat or ugly, in fact I'm blonde with big boobs (both of which are real), a small waist and really good skin (I swear I'm not super up myself). I've dated (bu...

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she w...

The problem here is that we can't do certain positions when we make love. Would this problem be the result of the size of my penis? (4 inches)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Ok so me and my gf are living a pretty good sex life.. even though I am young we are sexually active.. Ok so the problem here is that we can't do certain positions and I was wondering if it had anything to do with my penis size.. I am only 4 inches...

What are some of the things I could try to encourage my bi-sexual Significant Other to be more demonstrative and verbally expressive during love making?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4386 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - So here is the situation my SO and I have a great relationship and he is bisexual and I'm ok with that we have a good time talking about different things and I'll admit it makes watching chick flicks and going clothes shopping a lot easier lol Bu...

Am I bad for faking orgasms with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - I am a 26(F) with my boyfriend 25(M). We haven't been dating a super long time, but we fell in love and got very close very fast. He is wonderful, and I love the shit out of him and would do most anything for him. I can totally picture myself being ...

I can't stay wet during sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - I have a problem, I can't stay wet when I have sex. I get really wet before hand then after 5 minutes I get really dry. Help?!...

My boyfriend said I smelled bad during oral sex. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend went to eat me out and he said that I "smelled bad" he didn't say it was fishy, just smelled bad. What can I do to fix this? I know I don't have any infections. Is there any soaps, cleansing pads, etc. I could use to fix this? Thanks!...

Is 5 sex partners by age 21 ok?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

29 October 2012 (?) - Hi. I am curious whether it is ok/normal for a 21 year old boy to have slept with 5 girls. I am a 20 year old virgin and my boyfriend admitted he slept with 5 girls previously. I shouldn't have asked about his past, but I was curious and didn't want ...

My boyfriend couldn't keep his erection. Is it because he doesn't find me attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 months now and this weekend we finally got some us time. Things began to get physical between us ( it wasn't planned jut felt right at the time) after some foreplay we decided it was time to take our...

Did I ruin things before they could even begin?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles. Please help me. I have totally muucked things up with a guy who I really like and who I think was perfect for more. I feel sick at what I have done, or more importantly how stupid I have acted. I am 31 and can't beleive...

My man has no sex drive! what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - This is driving me nuts. I guess it's unusual for a girl to have this problem, but here goes... my boyfriend of six months has NO sex drive. He's on a very strong antidepressant which causes his sex drive to diminish. I, myself, am also on ...

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice ab...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

FWB problems. Do I keep waiting for him or just stop seeing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that. We had sex last week and I texted him today and asked him to come over, clearly this ^^^^e want a piece of ^^^ but that was what I wanted tonight. He asked ...

Why do I not feel aroused anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Right this is probably the strangest thing i've ever had to ask a stranger but basically i lost my virginity to my previous partner, when i was with him we had sexual intercourse nearly everyday and i got horny and wanted to have sex but since ...

Why do I always bleed after having sex with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I have kids and havent been with the dad for a few years..so I started seeing this one guy for a while and when we had sex, I would bleed. Not too heavy, but enough to notice. After I stopped seeing that guy, I started to date the father of my kids ...

Does he find my lack of experience a turn off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a lovely guy for a few months - we've known each other for ages and we get on really well and there is that "spark" between us. We've started to have sex and its seems to be really good for both of us (well it is for me, he seems...

Is she hinting to me that she wants a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid! I'm really needing some help here?! I met a lady back in February. She's a really, really nice lady. She's older than me. She's 39. I'm 34 in a few days. Anyway, it was one of those 'The minute we laid eyes upon one another we fe...

Contraceptive ideas???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I've been with my bf for close to 3 years now and we've used condoms as a contraceptive. We got tested together and we're both sti free. Im really tired of using condoms, I'd like a different kind of contraceptive. I'm not a fan of the pill either ...

What can I do? My love has faded. I don't know how to break up with him. And I cry just thinking about breaking up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I need help..I've fallen out of love with my boyfriend. Been together for six months..i thought he couldn't handle commitment, and that he only wanted sex but he seems to put more effort into the relationship and i can see that he's really changing ...

If I play out this fantasy will is ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I am single, not been seeing anyone lately and I have a friend (a boy) who i spend lots of time with, he is younger than me about 2 years, I am 25 and he is 23 and I knew since i met him and he wanted to f*** me and I didn't think of him in any way ...

She is not demonstrative. Am I unreasonable being irked that she will not initiate any hugging nor kisssing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

27 October 2012 (M) - Hey everyone, I've been a relationship for the past 2.5 years now. I'm 18 and my girlfriend is also 18 and we are each others first boyfriend and girlfriend. We have chosen not to have sex until marriage however there is always one thing that bu...

Do you think he wants me just for sex? He admits he had a STD test recently. Could he be a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy and we've been on three dates. He initiated everything from asking me for my number, to arranging for our dates, to paying for each one of them. Yesterday he invited me for drinks with his friends. They were mostly ...

I have the hots for my sister's husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I am 36 F. I know what I think is wrong. but it is difficult for me to stand this. I think it is due to I am Pisces and he is Scorpio by Sun sign. I am interested in my younger sister's husband. We flirts and he calls me to talk personally. I feel h...

He is a player and a liar, and I had sex with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I met this guy on a dating app. He came over in the weekend we drank some ciroc the biggest bottle between me and him we finished it, we was in my kitchen and he was trying to take my pants off and I looked at him and I said no, so he let me be. I ...

My wife has been keeping secrets from me. What did she do in Vegas?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - My wife and I were in Venice sitting on a hotel balcony overlooking the Grand Canal. We were joined by 2 girls in their mid 20s and a boy about the same age. Conversation let to what our favorite city was. When my wife's turn came she stated h...

I get too wet during sex and it worries me that he can't feel me properly. Is there a solution possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone... Okay this is a kind of embarrassing problem and i'm really paranoid about it , its starting to affect my confidence and my sex life. So iv'e got 2 children 7 and 8 and im a good weight, healthy etc, thing is though, quite a lot late...

Would it be best to wait? New relationship: Is there really anytime where sex is to soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - after having my daughter 5 months ago, and her father leaving me while i was pregnant .. I Finally met someone amazing . He Makes me laugh , has a great personality , extreamly attractive , has a lot of things going for himself There's nothi...

He's looking at Porn every night. Is this what men do or is this unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Mondote: Please provide your age next time you ask a question to help people who answer your question/s. Been with C for 8years, lived together for 5years and have an 8month old baby. Always had arguments about porn with empty promises about not wa...

He makes racist inappropriate comments. Now it seems he may have been seeing a local prostitute of the same race he vilifies. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is nearly 40. He makes comments all the time if we are out and see an oriental woman with a man he immediately says "oh look it's bought your wife". He even said that my friend who was 27 and going out with a 42 year old was going ou...

Should I choose a different Doctor? When I met the new Doctor I realised that I've slept with him and his wife. He was professional when I saw him recently.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Okay this is an odd thing that happened to me, I went to the doctors because I have been having some bad neck pains so I just randomly picked a doctor and when I finally meet the doctor I actually know him and have slept with him and his wife when I ...

Internet Online Dating and serious relationships - isn't it just truly a waste of time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I am so disillusioned with internet dating. Over the past few years I have joined a few dating websites hoping that at some point I will meet a man, who I get along with, have similar interests/humour, share the same values in life,...

She's not just curvy anymore. I love my wife and she means a lot to me but why does she ignore my request that she please keep in shape? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - I have an issue. My wife and I have been together for 9 and a half year and married for 8. When we first started dating she was always trying to stay in shape. All the way up to our 4th year of being together. Then she decided to get too relax...

Why can't I ever orgasm? I have to fake it every time, even though I want to orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - So, I don't know much about other women's experiences, but everyone knows that guys sometimes (out of nervousness or shyness etc) can't get it up, if you know what I mean. I know that women don't have 'ahem's' ...but can they get the same sort of ...

Twelve years together. But now his porn addiction has taken a nasty turn for the worse. Should I dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My man friend (been together 12 years) has a porn addiction. In the last 6 months..he's given out his phone number so these nasty ladies can contact him by text. He say's it's just a game. The other day I looked at his history and discover...

I'm scared for my best friend. How can I stop her boy friend from pressuring her to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My best friend is being convinced by her boyfriend to have sex. I have cried every day trying to convince her the consequences. Her boyfriend says he knows what he is doing but he is only 13. I really need help to try to convince her boyfriend no...

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use ...

When I mention forplay he cringes. How do I encourage him to try to provide more foreplay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am puzzled how to ask my boyfriend for a foreplay and give him hints on what I want. I am trying to be delicate and not sure if my ways are working. We used to have had great sex, he would always listen to my suggestions and try...

I'm losing hope in the existence of true love. Does true love still exist in this modern world?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, Well I am 23 years old now,but since I was 16 when I knew what 'love' was. I always believed that I would find true love and no I haven't till date.. I am a hopeless romantic,like literally 'hopeless'..I love reading nicholos spa...