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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Should we wait until we have sex for the first time to try anything or should we find out our likes/dislikes now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Our school did a sex ed talk with our form yesterday and we answered loads of questions and talked about stuff as a class. I found it really interesting. I discovered lots of things about my ...

My boyfriend has started holding my head and staring at me during sex. It's weird and makes me uncomfortable, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - This is a bit embarrassing but... My boyfriend of four years has started doing something really strange when we have sex. He started doing that close to six months ago and I don't know why he started. When we are...in the act...he holds my head i...

I don't want to lose her, but we have some trust issues. But could it be that I don't satisfy her sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm 45 shes 31 - dating a month. On every other level we have a blast - we click, but when it comes to sex lately I think there are some trust issues that arise. I'm use to doing the pleasing but I'm not seeing that in her, its more shes trying t...

He's my ex and now he's married. So is he just looking for a booty call with me? Based on his actions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My ex dumped me a few years back. We were together a long time. It got really bad at the end. He ended up getting a restraining order against me because i would follow him, (not proud of that). Anyway, we bumped into each other last year. It was n...

Should I feel guilt or shame? I am having a relationship with a guy who used to be best friends with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (?) - I am having secret relationship with my ex-husband no longer former best friend's, is this trouble or what? Here is the background of how and why this developed. It started eight months after I left and filed for divorce. That is NOT why I left a...

Are these signs that my sex buddy is falling for me? I don't want her to get hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - So here is the deal: I met this really hot girl, she happened to like me back. She told me straight up she has no interest in relationship and so we started meeting to have some amazing (and I mean it) sex. Now, I should be happy with this arra...

He broke it off. But he still hangs around us a lot. I know he get depressed. But could he be having second thoughts about the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi things came to a sudden end in august we were together for 6 years we have children and he sees them regular, we have slept with eachother a few times, he seems to be hanging round a lot one min and not as much the next he says hes not interested ...

What would you do if you got home from work with a woman wanting to take control and knowing you will have a good night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - okay Gentlemen this is for you? and I want an honest answer. I recently ordered handcuffs and a spanker for my lover and I to enjoy, I didn't realise it would come so soon. And I like the whole 50 shades of grey idea and my love does too! I sent...

Just started dating but very little sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have started seeing this girl (28 I am 34) a 2 months ago. We liked each other right away and after a few times we made love. We where both traveling the first month so we only got together briefly 3 times and made love. She then came to my city ...

How do I deal with this? My Bf is constantly implying how much better things would be when we go all the way

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hello everybody. i'm in a great relationship for about eight months now - thing is, i'm a virgin, and my boyfriend, who is older and more experienced is not exactly sensitive about it. i mean, he doesn't do anything i'm uncomfortable with, but he's...

Is he using me? We never date, just have sex in the woods!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Iv been seeing this guy for 2 months now and we meet up once a week, he seems nice but he never takes me out on a proper date. We only meet up for sex or heavy petting. He doesn't book a room up, we do it in the woods, Im feeling a bit used. He does ...

I always have to prompt b/f to wear a condom. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi, Hope you can help. I have recently started a new relationship with a guy. Now I am not very sexually experienced but know we have to be careful, so am on the pill. Everytime we slept together I have had to prompt my boyfriend to wear a condom...

Is it because she has already done it all? She's been wild sexually in the past with others. Now she is happy with if fortnightly.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have a question and I was hoping I could get some insight from the females on here. I will try to keep it short, but I feel I have to give a little background so you guys know the full story. Both my girlfriend and I are pretty close to getting...

What is right? My wife is saying she has no problem if one of our unmarried daughters chooses to have sex in our home with a Bf. The thought bothers me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have kids. In particular, I have daughters. And in particular I have a daughter who is 19. She took a year off after high school and travelled the world. Now she's back home and is trying her hand at university. OK, so she's "of age", so if ...

How long do I wait? He had an affair. Now he's returned to me, his wife of 40 years. But claims he no longer has any sex drive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My husband has had an affair with a woman at his work for the last 8 months. I found out throught his text messages. He confessed everything(almost). He won't give me the details.)he thinks they will only hurt me more). He has ended it but he ...

I walked in on my 17 year old cousin masturbating. Do I need to set some boundaries, considering my freaked out reaction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hey, sonething happened to me this morning and its been freaking me out all day and ive been really confused. i totally forgot about you guys and i would really appreciate some help. I'm 18 years old and my cousin,17, has been living with me t...

I cheated on my workaholic wife -- now what?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have been married for 10 years and have two kids under the age of 10. My wife recently was made an executive at her fortune 200 firm and has not been home much since. She leaves for work around 7 AM and most evenings she gets home after 10 PM. ...