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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing a lovely guy for a few months - we've known each other for ages and we get on really well and there is that "spark" between us. We've started to have sex and its seems to be really good for both of us (well it is for me, he seems to enjoy it lol). The only thing that concerns me is my lack of experience compared to his and whether this is a turn off for him.We are both in our late twenties and I've only slept wit a couple of people whereas he had some "wild years" in his teens/early twenties and has slept with ALOT (we're talking far above 100 people - he said he lost count). This doesnt bother me as hes not like that anymore and hasnt been for about 5 years. However I worry if he finds my lack of experience a turn off? Hes been with so many women that are experienced like him and know what they are doing and were probably amazing whereas Im quite shy and dont really know what Im doing but Id like to learn with him.Would other guys find this a problem??
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2012): Nope, not a problem. I was quite promiscuous too and my current partner of 7 years was a virgin when we got together. If you're enjoying the sex then so is he, you'll pick up all the little tricks and things as you go along. Inexperience is only really a turn off for a one night stand, a painfully insecure woman or a selfish partner. If you're none of those then you're fine.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (28 October 2012):
 If'n you told me that you were inexperienced, then it would affect me for about - say - 5 seconds.... THEN, we could resume from where we were when you squealed on yourself....
OF COURSE NOT!!!!......
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (28 October 2012):
 HI
I think quite the opposit hun, knowing that his your one and only will be the BIGGEST turn on for him, the thought of only his hands have touched your most intimte places, and only HE has made love to you will be the cream of the cake for any man. Just continue to be yourself and it will all happen naturally. xx
Mandy x
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