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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Desperate to have sex with older guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - i am dating this 21 year old man. we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc. they also said that he was to good for me. wel...

How can I overcompensate for my size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I'm a virgin stressing about the size of my penis. It's around 5.5 inchs long with 4.5 girth. I truly want to make love, show my affection, and give my first gf (she's not a virgin) the time of her life, but I feel that my penis may hold me back. ...

Sex toys: what is a dolphin ring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey, my bf said he'd like to use a dolphin ring? (i think) sex toy when we're in bed sometime...what is one of these?? he said he broke his last one!!...

I like bigger women and am having trouble dealing with it.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I have a thing for bigger women and i dont know how to deal with it. While Im not into the deal of larger women getting larger or "gaining" and not into the feeding thing, i definitely have an appreciation for plus-sized women, and am unsure if my ...

I really want to have sex, but I don't want to rush into things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I've been going out with this guy a month now, and he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. he is lovely, caring and he is just a sweetheart. to celebrate our 1 month anniversary, we gave each hand jobs. it was great! but now i real...

My wife won't have sex with me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - No sex anymore My wife and I are in our early 60's and we are on really good terms but for some reason she will not indulge in any sexual activity with me. This has been going on for several years now and I am becoming more and more frustrated ...

I am not satisfied with my wife...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - hi i am 34 years of age married man from amravati, india. we have been together since 3 years. Why i dont know i am not happy with my married life. I alway think some thing is missing in my life. My wife doesn't understand my feeling and my fantasy ...

He'd rather touch himself than touch me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I dont know where to start or if my marriage is too far gone. He has informed me that he would rather masterbate to porn than to touch me. We do not have a very active sex life and he has always stated it was because of his depression. I find out ...

I couldn't have got pregnant from this, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I'm really worried... Last night, my boyfriend and I were messing around. While he was fingering me, I touched his penis... but as far as i can remember, I didn't felt anything wet on his package. after touching his penis, i touched his body and his ...

How do I get her to slow down in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So I'm with this gorgeous woman for a little over a year. We are both very sexual, but she is the first new partner I've been with in a while. The problem I am having is I don't orgasm quickly with her, and in fact, I don't feel like sex with her ...

Is it right to have sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Im 17 years old male!my girlfriend live in my country but im studying in Canada.i wanna have sex with my girlfriend in this year when i wanna go back to my country but my girlfriend is virgin and I dont know that is it right to have sex with her or ...

I feel doomed to a very lonely sex life at 36!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have the most thoughtful and loving partner i've ever had (Except in the bedroom). We've been together 2 years now and it's gotten worse. He's 34 and does a very physical job for a living, has a long drive there and back and does get up very ...

I have an issue with cum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I honestly do not like cum. If i look at it, taste, feel or even think about it too much, i gag and feel like i'm going to vomit. I've always pushed past this feeling of nausea, and just dealt with it, i've pretended that it didn't bother me. But it ...

Why has our sex life become so bad? I know he isnt cheating, so what could it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Help! I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and our sex life has become non-existant. It started a year ago when I realized he was never going to go down on me, despite the fact that I give him fanastic BJs everytime. (Really - I could suck ...

He only seems to talk about sex and forgets important dates, am I right to doubt him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i am in wierd situation i am in an affair from past 2 years but we are not been on any date together from 2 years as my boyfriend stays abroad and nowhe is coming to india .he has a plan to meet but still i am not sure he love me or not because h...

Is it really that bad to explore someone's sexuality even if its only been 2 months and considering my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello, Im a 24 year old woman, Im still a virgin. Ive been with a 29 yr old boyfriend for two months, hes been good to me so far. Ive had already had other boyfriends before, we made out but never went far 'cuz I didnt want to. I love making out ...

Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...

Feelings or no feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Me and my ex split up over 2 months ago due to some BS. I love this guy so much and would do anything to have him back, but i told my self to just let him go if he comes back its ment to be. Well i was doing so good not contacting him or anything. ...

I want to surprise him with some risque photos...just worried he won't find me hot! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok so recently I have been seeing this guy..who I really like :) which is awesome and finally I think Im ready for the serious relationship, etc. He's more experienced then me, he's older.. expected. I have been taking it slow but the other night he ...

Majorly confused with my sexual orientation! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm sure you get these questions alot...but I'm really confused with what my sexual orientation is! I know I am bisexual..I came out at 13 years old..and my parents said they already knew..years have passed, and I am now 18...and more confused ...

Why are some teenagers so promiscuous???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - Just out of curiousity... Why are there so many young teens out having sex with what seems every person they are with? Isnt there parents doing anything? or caring what their kids are doing these day? y'know getting stoned, completely drunk...

Can you catch chlamydia or HIV if you have sex with another person who has never had sex before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I thought I'd combine two into one so here goes my first worrie is really a question. Can you catch chlamydia or HIV if you have sex with another person who has never had sex before? stupidly I did it unprotected when i was very young and this ...

Feel 'dirty' after sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So, me and my boyfriend are sexually active. We have been for a couple of months now but the thing is everytime after sex, I feel just really dirty. I mean like disgusted with myself. I'm 19 and he's 20 and I don't get. He's the sweetest guy I've ...

How do you know when it's just sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Their is this guy I've been friends with for years. We dated a year and it just didn't work out, but we continued to stay in touch off and on over the years. About a three months ago we slept together for the first time. The problem is he lives ...

Is this normal for a guy to not be able to finish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 36 and im only 24. the other night we kinda hit a bump in our sex life and since i have never dated anyone this much older than me im not sure if what happened is normal and Idk what to think. we were having sex and everything was ...

I think I fancy my step brother!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Well, its a long story; He isnt my full brother; he is my step brother; Well, my mum and his dad started dating. Now they have fallen out but they still love each other.. Me and my step brother have a really good bond... But one night we st...

Should I tell my boyfriend I'm not a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together just over a month. he's told me he loves me but it seems like whenever we're together all we're doing is making out and every time it goes a little bit futher. i'm kind of apprehensive to let him get too far ...

My bf has to masturbate everynight before bed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - my bf has to masturbate everynight before bed even after we do it is there something wrong...

I think my boyfriend is bipolar and he stresses me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend is bipolar and he stresses me out. I have to give him attention 24/7 and if i don't its you dont care your distant. if he doesnt get what he wants he throws temper tantrums like a kid. or if im like i dont want to do anything...

That dreaded queefing!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So I have this issue and I do not know who to go to because im REALLLLLLYYYY embarrassed. my boyfriend and I are seventeen and I have had sex before but I know that im still really "tight" because we have a hard time getting it in, and I dont know ...

How can we make our first attempt at oral sex go great?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex. Neither of us have done anything sexual. So she doesn't know how to, and I don't know how to help her. She said she wasent sure she would do a good job. So I told her I would help her, but I don't know how ...

Is there anything else we can use for protection that I wont be allergic to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - hi ok ive been thinking about my first time a lot lately, my boyfriend is very patient and said whenever im ready its ok with him.. now one of the reasons i havnt is because im allergic to medicine specially cortizones and steroids, is there ...

I had sex with my ex and I regret it so much!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I had sex with my ex bf 3 days ago and i felt extremely guilty for myself.I don't know what the hell am i doing after i left his house. Here is the story : Me and my ex went for a movie after 4 months of break up. He hug me,kiss me in the cinema...

My boyfriend would rather masturbate then have sex with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Please i need some answers mainly from men... Iv been with my boyfriend for 10months now and from the start we had sex quite a lot, not as much as id like to because he worked a lot running his own business. anyway we moved into a new house a few ...

When is verbal abuse too much verbal abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a lot to ask, but it all leads up to, "When has the verbal abuse gone "too" far? My husband and I have been together for 8 years, we just recently got married this year. 8/2010. We are both mid 30's, and we each have 2 children. This is his ...

If she was sexually abused, is she still a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend was sexually abused at the age of 13. Anyway, her and I were thinking of taking things to the next level. She says that she feels bad cuz she isn't a virgin cuz of what happened to her. I was just wondering if she is still conside...

Little guy, big girl need advise on positions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - okay, well my gf is a little taller than i am and she is also a bit heavier than i am and i've come to realize that is beacause of this that we find our self doing the same position in bed over and over. any tips for a better sexlife? I have be...

No oral sex because I'm afraid I don't taste good

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - i feel like i cant let a man give me oral sex because i am afraid i might not taste good. or something bad. how do i get comfortable with my body? and is there anything that can help cum taste good?...

I feel like my penis is dead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - hi people ... im 20 and i feel as if my penis is dead ...my penis not getting erection and without erection i was able to masturbate ( ie sperm came out without the erection itself ) ... now i feel as if it wont erect again ..... im really worried ...

Is sweet & innocent going to be a problem here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'd love some advice from guys and girls about keeping my more experienced boyfriend interested in me sexually. We're the same age, and have both been in long-term relationships before, having been single for around a year before getting together ...

Not ready to let loose sexually with him, but I want to keep him interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd appreciate some advice. I've been exclusively dating my bf for 3 months. He is an amazing kisser and great in bed. He has lots of stamina, though, and sometimes seems to kinda hold himself back from orgasming. So the other night, h...

Is he just lying to me to make me feel better about my skills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - So here it is, sorry if it comes across as a bit graphic but it seems better to be clear about what I'm asking. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3months and in general the sex is great. He's only my second sexual partner and there was over a...

Does nothing turn him on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for around 9 month and everything is good with us. I was lay in bed with him the other day and we was talking about what turns us on and gets us going. So I told him everything he already knows like kissing my neck, nibbling...

He says he's not emotionally there but when it comes to the sexual part of a relationship then it's fine!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I have known this guy now since i was 7 and now were both 17, we have always been really good friends but things started changing 2 years ago when he fell for me. i didnt feel the same towards him but just wanted a little fun so we kissed etc, he ...

Was she too loose from the booze?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I'm recently divorced. I was at a party in which a former woman friend of my x wife and I was there. This woman became drunk. I drove her home and helped her to the front door of her house. She started kissing and groping me. I told her she was too ...

Is this the stress from exams the reason why he cannot ejaculate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I have been together with my bf for about 10 months for now. We have done everything except for sex. Which means we have go all out for oral and stuff... But yesterday, it is the first time he did not manage to cum from the hand jobs and blow jobs i ...

I can't make him cum by hand stimulation, I feel guilty, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. Completely happy with him and like things how they are. But there is just one thing, when I am giving him a handjob I can't make him cum. He takes ages and my arm ends up aching before he does so he gets ...

I'm 18 and never done it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - What is masterbating i'm 18 and i have never done it before and all my friends talk about it....

Didn't know it at the time, but I had sex with my future teacher

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Sorry, guys, this is kinda long. STORY TIME When I was 17, my boss held a huge Christmas party at a hotel. There, a friend of mine introduced me to his single friend who was very charming and sexy. Long story short, we ended up having a one ni...

My girlfriend wants my baby to remember me by

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - ok im going out with this girl in new york but im moving to florida and were in love and she wants to have a baby that she can keep so it like a piece of me i cant even tell my parents anything how would i tell them how would i tell her mom i dont ...