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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I'd appreciate some advice. I've been exclusively dating my bf for 3 months. He is an amazing kisser and great in bed. He has lots of stamina, though, and sometimes seems to kinda hold himself back from orgasming. So the other night, he was a little tipsy, and was asking me about my sexual fantasies. I don't really feel ready to share that kinda stuff with him. Didn't talk to my ex bf about that kinda stuff until I'd be going out with him for years, so I kinda shrugged off his question, and asked him what his are. He said his fantasy is to see me fully sexually satisfied by him, and then said he wanted to buy me a toy, and that he and his ex-gf used a toy together. I've never used toys and he was surprised by this. I guess I want to keep him interested in me, and to satisfy him sexually, but don't quite feel ready to be going wild in bed...what should I do? I don't want him to think I am unimaginative sexually, as I'm not. I also want to blow his mind sexually! Any tips on how to satisfy him would be great.
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reader, sarahlynn +, writes (30 November 2010):
 wow, I hate it when guys say that their ex's did this and that. It makes us women feel like we have to live up to what he has already had. First of all, he should respect you enough to ask you if you feel comfortable with him buying you a toy, not saying that him and his ex used one. That is just rude and insensitive. Secondly, you should strongly consider that if he is more interested in moving along so quickly sexually, that maybe he isn't as interested in moving along emotionally into a real relationship. Just remember, to be in a relationship with somebody, you gotta prove to be a good friend first: honest, considerate, kind, gentle, sensitive, caring, and courteous.
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