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writes:my boyfriend is 36 and im only 24. the other night we kinda hit a bump in our sex life and since i have never dated anyone this much older than me im not sure if what happened is normal and Idk what to think. we were having sex and everything was great. we were both really enjoying it, but then out of nowhere he asked me to stop before he finished. he said it was because he is stressed out and couldn't focus. i know he has a lot on his mind with work being slow and rent being due in a couple days. Is this normal for a guy to not be able to finish? he swears i wasn't doing anything wrong but i can't help but feel like its me and not stress. also if this is normal is there anything i can do to help? it doesn't seem fair that im the only one that gets to finish?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your answers. i now understand it was just stress. like i said i hate never been with anyone that much older than myself, and also never been with anyone with that much responsibility. now i can see that just like stress can make it hard for me to finish it also can have the same effect on him. again thank you.
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reader, happy140 +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Young woman worry about that-older woman do not -why, they have come to understand a mans body and his stress-there are times we ar like a woman sexually-we want to be inside you, cuddle but we don't need an orgasm. It dosen't mean we don't want or need one it mens at this time we can'y have one. It has NOTHING to do with our partner but ourselves. Thats just how it is. Never worry just because he dosen't cum it just as hard for us to cum sometimes as it is for you to cum!
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reader, ilikejeeps +, writes (30 November 2010):
yes its normal. it can be anything on a guys mind and we cant finish. the littlest thing can make us not finish. its jsut sometimes random things jsut pop up in our minds and it jsut kills the mood right in the middle of it.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (30 November 2010):
Its stress and he's just going through the motion. I bet he's really worrying about all of this to the point that he needs space to sort it out.
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