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writes:My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex. Neither of us have done anything sexual. So she doesn't know how to, and I don't know how to help her. She said she wasent sure she would do a good job. So I told her I would help her, but I don't know how to. So id really like a lot of feedback on how to help her, what to have her try ect.So for guys, what do u like, what don't you like?For girls, when you are giving oral, what do you like, what don't you like?Thanks all
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Well, establish a few things...is she going to spit or swallow? That can take a girl by surprise. And tell her not to bite and no teeth. She will get the hang of it. Its really a suck job....no blowing involved!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 November 2010):
 There is really no secret, it's mostly trial and error. Before you start, talk things out. Tell her to try whatever she can think of and you'll let her know what feels good.
One thing, don't push her head down. That can make her gag and is something you should never do unless you're told it's ok. Holding her hair back can be helpful though.
Check this out:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-give-a-great-blow-job.html
There are others, just search. Trial and error and communication are your best bets though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Dude, it's all about practice. If this is your first time and hers. Practice. Tell each other what you like and what you don't like when actually doing it. This is the best way. Then slowly, but surely you will both get better and better at it. Take your time. One thing I have learned in my time is always listen to the what the lady has to say. Remember it's about 2 people satisfying one another and not just about the male. She will respect you so much for this. Go for it dude. Practice, practice, practice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Im a guy, and, well, its really just up to your own preferance. So dont be afraid - both of you - to "get in the mood" if you know what i mean, and experiment a little. I mean, thats what the first times all about no?
(oh but be sure to tell her to be careful of her teeth)
Hope this helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Tell her to go to the library and get a few issues of Cosmo magazine... seems like they have oral sex advice articles every few months.
I gave my first blow job yesterday. It went okay, it wasn't perfect by any means but it's okay. It's all a learning experience. :)
I will say that the guy gave me some advice while it was happening, do this, watch your teeth, that feels good, etc... which was somewhat helpful. But the most important this is that both of you are comfortable with each other, and it will be fine. As long as you both are having fun, it will be good. :)
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reader, Outspoken1016 +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Have you ever watched porn before?
My advice watch a porn together naked...start there
but everyone is different dear and learning what you like and dont is all part of the fun. I think it's great that you both are open and honest with one another.
Biggest thing to know is start out slow and be gental
work your way from there dear.
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