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writes:Well, its a long story;He isnt my full brother; he is my step brother;Well, my mum and his dad started dating. Now they have fallen out but they still love each other.. Me and my step brother have a really good bond... But one night we started snogging and we ended up in bed... What shall i do? I fancy him and i know he fancies me but im confused about what i should do? Can someone help please? ThankYou (: Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): hi i dont have a answer but maybe a question that answers the question has any girl/or woman fell in love with their brother or family member. and hold your boyfriend up to the standard of your brother as a higher point. for a lover ,example to acheive and how do you get over this .
but you know its wrong and what should you do to change it.that you know he can never match that.has any woman have this happen to them.
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93 +, writes (2 December 2010):
AgonyAuntiee93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have broke up with him, and i told my mum and she was cool with it, thanks for the advice... and the judgemently people... x
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reader, ArsenalFC87  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 whoa whoa whoa people, come on! yes there isnt anything that legally prohibits this, but lets look at the ethical boundaries here.
think about the emotional baggage youre going to put your parents through if they ever found out about this. yeh they may not be together anymore but it still doesnt make it ok. they would be completely creeped out ya know? engaging in this relationship would be completely selfish on your part.
and think about the emtional turmoil you'll put yourself through if you do carry on with this. nine times out of ten, if you have to ask if its wrong, then its wrong.
i dont mean to sound pretentious but i think the two of you enjoy the taboo aspect of this relationship or are just flat out horny and want a good bang and dont know where else to get it. maybe you do really like him, but im going to go out on a limb here and say that your step-brother just really wants to get laid.
whatever the case may be. its wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): Okay, for some reason my answer wasn't posted. This seems to happen on this site more and more.
Anyway.. I think even if your parents are together if your not blood it's okay, wired and people will judge, but okay
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93 +, writes (1 December 2010):
AgonyAuntiee93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, you two have helped, but i dont know if you realise, my mum and his dad are together, not married, just dating? xx
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 If your Mum and his Dad are not married then there is no reason you too can't have a relationship since no legalities bind you.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Well technically your not related. And you say your parents arn't together now?
Its still unorthadox, I know my step brother is very much a brother figure to me, but I don't know your whole situation.
If you both like each other, go for it, your doing nothing wrong, but prepare for some people to find it strange
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