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anonymous
writes: So I have this issue and I do not know who to go to because im REALLLLLLYYYY embarrassed. my boyfriend and I are seventeen and I have had sex before but I know that im still really "tight" because we have a hard time getting it in, and I dont know if this could be the reason but hes big really big (if u know what I mean) and why im so embarrassed is he finally decided to loose his virginity to me about 3 days ago and since then we have sex a lot, I dont know if he notices cuz when it happens I distract him, anyways I queef a lot during sex and after so sometimes ill say lets take a break and ill run to the bathroom and wipe it really good then he doesnt really notice that im not wet anymore, anyways people, im SO embarrased especially since he doesnt know a whole lot about sex an i dont want him to think im weird. Hellllpppp pleeeaaassseee im CRYING IN MISERY.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (2 December 2010):
It could be the angles at which he is entering you that is causing so much air to get in. My only suggestion to lessen it is to find positions to avoid it which may not be very fun to do. Maybe he has to stay in you more and not enter and exit so much, either way it would be better just to go about it however you want to and not worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, but I dont think he notices cuz its not tht bad or loud but I just want a way to prevent it anf stop it from happening lol any ideas?
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reader, The Realist +, writes (1 December 2010):
It's perfectly normal for this to happen. I doubt he will be grossed out or turned off by it. Just try to make a joke about it when it does happen like "you know it's your fault lol". That way he'll laugh and you two can carry on without you having to worry about what he is thinking about. Trust me it happens to my gf and we just laugh about it and keep going. Sometimes it's just a funny way to break the seriousness.
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