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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'd love some advice from guys and girls about keeping my more experienced boyfriend interested in me sexually. We're the same age, and have both been in long-term relationships before, having been single for around a year before getting together with each other. So anyway, he told me he's been to a strip club before, playing strip poker with his friends (male and female) before, used to use sex toys with his ex, etc etc. He wants me to tell him my fantasies and says I must have a "sordid" past, otherwise if I'm innocent and sweet, he thinks I'm too good to be true. This has knocked my confidence a little. Is it a bad thing to be sweet and innocent and "too good to be true"? I have always enjoyed sex and experimenting with dressing up, tying up, different places, different positions. But I've never been to a strip club or used toys. So now I'm worried he might be getting bored with me sexually. Otherwise, things are going great between us. So I guess I'm looking for some advice on how to keep him interested sexually. Any tips on how to give an amazing blowjob/handjob/other sexual experience would be welcome. I'm planning to strip for him, but knowing he's been to a strip club last year has put me off this idea. I'd also like to know if guys really aren't attracted to sweet and innocent girls...is it true all guys want to be with a girl who is slutty in the bedroom? Thanks for reading :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): Every guy in the world wants a girl who's pure, trust me it's true we want to be your first, when I do things with girls and it's their first I feel good because I was involed in one of their first's and it was awesome. Be honest about your past tell him straight up and he should believe you but tell him your fantasies and things you've always wanted to do but was too scared to do tehm or too embarresed i mean anything even public things and things you never knew you liked
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Sweet and innocent to an extent. At the right amount, sweet and innocent can be a huge turn on but if you are too sweet and innocent, it may put him off a little. It will feel as though he is tainting something a little too pure and it will feel wrong. Although, by what you have written, what with the experimenting, I would say you are just interesting enough for him. Toys are a little overrated sometimes and (at least in my opinion) it does not help much when you are trying to keep a fantastic mood going. Keep experimenting with him, keep being adventurous and just enjoy it.
I hope that helps.
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