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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Wife wants more sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - In a long term marriage and find that husband's sex drive is declining while mine is escalating. I masturbate more frequently then we have sex. Is there anything I can do about this? Wish we had both felt like this when we were in our 20s and 30s!! ...

We don't want to go all the way, so what else is there besides plain old oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - My bf's birthday is coming up and i want to do something special for him... Both of us are virgins...we both agreed to wait for the wedding night; however i wanna get a bit dirty with him without ...u know...losing my virginity...so w...

Do you have to have sex to be lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - Why must you have to have sex to be someone's lover? Don't you just need to be in love with your partner to be lovers?...

Why do women get freaky on guys they don't love, but not with guys they do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I found out in cleaning out some old files on a unused computer that my GF had a much wilder and mind blowing sex life with her ex before me than she previously described. This mate was mainly a fuck buddy, but they were friends for a few years ...

Am I involved in some kind of affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I think I may be involved in an online affair. He is 40, I am 18. We have been talking for over a year now on the internet. Our conversations were strictly about things other than sex in the beginning, but now they are mainly about sex. When we ...

Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I was just wondering if its normal to have to spread your labia before intercourse? Sometimes if I am not very moist I will have to seperate my labia for my boyfriend and I to have intercourse. I would appreciate any answers. Thankyou!...

Do single men really think all women want to trap them with a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - ok, so about 6 weeks ago I fooled around with a guy 10 years younger than me. It was just for fun and we did not have sex. I just needed a little something to make me feel alive since my life has been chaos and tragedy since March (husband killed ...

Is it possible for a woman to think a guy is very attractive yet not be sexually attracted to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I've been seeing my girfriend for a little over a year. (I'm 46 and she's 34) The sex was great at first, and she couldn't keep her hands off me. But, she's gradually lost interest over the past 3-4 months, and does't want to do much of anything ...

Should I put up with my feelings or get out of the marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my husband for many years but graduallyI've got less and less attracted to him physically. I haven't actually fancied him for ages and now I don't feel right when he touches me, I just tense up.We have kids so I'm having real trouble ...

Need advice on intimacy and getting pregnant, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been trying for a while now to get pregnant, but it just hasn't happened yet, I was just wondering what is the best tips for being intimate? Can you please help us, we want a family but it hasn't happened yet, and just hoping ...

I don't feel I should have to ask for oral sex, especially when I give him oral 2-3 times a week!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost one year and I give him oral 2-3 times per week without him asking but he has only given to me maybe once a month or less. I don't feel like I should have to ask-am I doing something wrong?...

No physical relationship - what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - My wife is emotionally dead towards me. We have been married for 9 years and have a four year old child. We used to be very affectionate together, but now our sex life is non existent, she won't hug or hold me and we never kiss. If I try to, I a...

I feel she has had sex with so many people in the past that she no longer has a sex drive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I've been with this girl on and off for 12 years. We never have been together for 2yrs without breaking up until she got pregnant with my 2 yr old son. She had at least 40+ sex partners before me and during our break ups. She now change her views ...

Do guys like it when girls get really wet during sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Hi. This is my first time on this site, and I can't believe how helpful it has been! My question is: Do guys like it when girls get really wet before/while having sex? I ask this because I tend to get very turned on during sex, and get really ...

How to get into his pants without freaking him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now and there has been no below the belt action. My boyfriend is very religious and is waiting for marriage to lose his virginity. While I am okay with not having sex with him, I do not plan on ...

Oral sex pointers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - i just started giving blowjobs. Is it a good thing if they can have an orgasm in less than 5 minutes or is that too long? I'm really starting to enjoy doing it so pointers would be appreciated. How do I know if he enjoys them..are there signs? Also, ...

It hurts when he cums inside me. What can we do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I'm 31 and dating a 56 year old male. He tends to have strong ejaculations to the point that he goes too deep and hard inside of me. Ive told him this is painful. The sex is great up until he ejaculates. I've asked him to pull out, but for some ...