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writes:I'm recently divorced. I was at a party in which a former woman friend of my x wife and I was there. This woman became drunk. I drove her home and helped her to the front door of her house. She started kissing and groping me. I told her she was too drunk and to stop. She said she didn't care and that she wanted to kiss me. I let her kiss me a little at the front door and I went home. I didn't want to take advantage of her, not yet anyway.I've always been attracted to her, and not from her drunken kisses. Do you think her inner feelings were coming onto me from the booze or was she just too loose from the booze? She has come on to me in the past but I never let my attraction be known to her or anyone else.
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reader, pixiegirls +, writes (28 November 2010):
 You state that the woman is a “former” friend of your ex-wife. Was there a falling out between the two? Could she be trying to be spiteful towards your ex-wife by hitting on you?
Coming on to you when she’s intoxicated to the point of needing a ride home, will not give you much of an idea of what she truly may feel about you. The idea that people show their true emotions when they are drunk isn’t always necessarily true. There may be many other things going on in their mind at the time.
If you are truly interested in her, try to see her when it’s a comfortable, yet sober time. You will be able to gauge much better whether or not she’s attracted and interested in you. It may turn out that she really does want to get together with you, but has been shy or uncomfortable about letting you know. In the right setting, you can decide without reservations if this is a true attraction. Good luck!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Since her judgement was impaired you can't really conclude that she's into you. If she has come on to you when she is sober, then yes I would say she's interested.
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