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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

In the 5 years of our relationship, we've only ever had 30-second sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6936 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - I am 25 and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. I have been avoiding bringing up our issues with him cos I think it will make the problem worse and I felt that there were more important aspects of our relationship that mattered more. ...

My wife was molested as a child and is suffering depression. Now...she hardly wants sex anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - My wife was touched by her dad as a child and has suffered from depression. She is on medication.She hardly wants sex anymore and I like to have sex. Every time I ask I get turned down. Whenever I try to talk to her about sex she gets very ...

She prefers sex after alcohol...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6937 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend prefers to have sex after she has drunk alcohol. she is then quite adventurous. we occasionally have it in the morning when she is sober. she tells me i'm the first person that she has had sober sex with in a long time. I am concerned ...

I'm only 22 years old and I lose my erections! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6937 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I am a 22 year old man and really afraid to have sex with girls as anytime, i tried it i lose my erection. I try to keep girls at a distance because of this. I enjoy cuddling more than anything else but don't want to take it further . I always ...

My sexual stamina is waning and it's taking a toll on my relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6938 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - Lately I haven't been lasting very long in bed. It's starting to take a toll on my relationship. I think she's getting frustrated. It seems like it's happening at least half of the times we've had sex. Is there anyway I can last longer?...

At 13, I was traumatized by two men who attempted to rape me! I'm having nightmares now...please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - I was almost rapped by two men when I was 13, and I dont know how to get over it? I cant sleep, so how can I get some sleep without having nightmares?...

She thinks her vagina is icky-so how do I convince my girl, to let me perform oral sex on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6937 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - i want to please my girlfriend, but she thinks that i wouldn't like going down on her because she thinks that its slimy and therefore icky... is there any way i can convince her that i would enjoy it and that she would too?...

Is it right for me to want to get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6713 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Hi there, recently my ex, who i had a 2 year relationship with, came back into my life after a year without talking because his girlfriend had ended with him. We had a lovely time and we got on very well, ive offered to be his shoulder to cry on and ...

I kissed a girl and now my boyfriend wants a threesome!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6907 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My partner of 3 years has been living in america for work over the past 18 months. I've seen him 3 times in that time and we talk everyday. At a party me and my best friend (girl) were very drunk and kiss and fooled around when we realised what was ...

My girlfriend has been sleeping with my grandfather!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am 18 and my girlfriend is 16. Recently I found out she has been sleeping with my grandfather, and I feel so disgusted. What should I do?? Jason...

Our sex life has all but disappeared! How can we improve the intimacy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6938 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months and our sex life has all but disappeared. I am very troubled by this because we were friends before we started dating and she used to tell me openly about her sex life with former boyfriends. ...

Is masturbating quicker than sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Is masterbating quicker than sex?...

I smasturbating bad for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6929 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - Somebody please tell me the truth, is masturbating good, or bad for you? Is it healthy? If you do it to often do you waste your cum? Does your penis become skew? I'm hearing so many different stories, i'm lost. Thanks...

Why are some men not afraid to have sex during a women's menstrual cycle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - This is a weird question, but I am very curious about it. Why is is that some men are not afraid to have sex during the girlfriends cycle, while some guys won't get near you? I know it is a very personnel matter. I just don't understand it. ...

My boyfriend went too far...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Okay I went to a sleepover at my mates house and i started getting off with my boyfriend... we started doing "stuff"... afta a while i tried 2 back off but he just kept followin me and forcing me...well it felt like that... now i look back and feel ...

I'm not enjoying sex with my girlfriend...but I can't tell her that or it will hurt her feelings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend are having some problems in our sex life.. when we're really in the mood and about to do it the mood somtimes just gets ruined. Theres a number of different things that can spoil it. When we start off it hurts her and i have ...

Is it normal that someone can get real drunk and still orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - For the guys out there. I know an alchoholic that can drink for days get very horny go for hours and hours and can still come. Is this normal? I thought that if you were drunk you wouldn't come?...

My 35 year old boyfriend doesn't want sex with me, anymore..does this just happen to older men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi,my name is rebelgirl1801. I am 18 years old and I am currently in a relationship with a 35 year old man. He never wants to have sex anymore with me. What can i do to make him want me more? Is it me? Or ...

My boyfriend's small penis keeps coming out during sex..any advice on how we can keep it in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I have a serious problem My boyfrieds penis is so small it keeps comming out during sex. (its less than 8cm!) How can we keep it in?...

My wife refuses to do oral sex...what can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - My wife refuses to do oral on me and does not like me doing it on her. What can I do?...

My boyfriend is having erection problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is 19 and having erection problems and we very strongly feel it is due to marijuana usage. He has a strong desire to have sexual intercourse and gets 'turned on'. He is now getting scared when it comes to trying sex thinking he will not ...

I love him but how can I get him to want sex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6941 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - We dont seem to have sex anymore and it really upsets me. I have been with a my man for a little over 2 years. Things were always fab with us, sex, laughs so much in common and we are madly in love. We have a great relationship except for the ...

I think I'm in love with a guy I had sex with, just last week!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6941 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Last week I had sex with a guy I hardly knew but I believe I am in love with him. How can I tell if I really do. Oh I am only 17....

Afraid that guys will be turned off by my pubic hair!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I am so afraid that guys will be turned-off by my pubic hair. I don't know what I am supposed to do. Should I shave? Should I wax? Or just let it grow into a horrible looking bush? What do most women do? Does this really gross out guys?...

They have an energetic sex life, but he has never reached an orgasm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6932 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - A friend's new partner is about 23 stone and binge drinks rather too regularly. They have very energetic and regular sex life, yet he has not achieved orgasm as yet (3 months). He told her that he had been badly hurt in relationships in the past...

Lonely and so horny..does anyone have tips to share?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - I am completly misunderstood by everyone. I am a female but I have male instincts I always want sex it is the best thing in the world to me. But since I am in high school I dont sleep with many guys. Vibrators dont give me any good feelings. I like ...

what is the best age to have one night stands?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6831 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - When I ask this I mean an age. What age is proper for sex like 1 night stands? I think 18. But my freinds seem to think differently....

She wants a 'no strings attached' relationship but I want a committment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - dear cupid i have been in a relationship for the past year. i am 18 and she is 17. we went on a break recently which lasted 7 weeks. we got back with each other and then she told me she wasn't sure what she wanted. she say's that she still wants to ...

My wife doesn't want sex. Do I look elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6942 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - My wife does not want to make love any more. She does not like sex - totally uninterested and refuses help. She is happy this way. Do I look elsewhere?...

Help! How Can I Achieve an Orgasm without a Vibrator

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - Although having regular sex and enjoying it very much, I seem to have a problem of actually achieving an orgasm, I get to the point of almost having one but dont quite get to the over the edge feeling. What is wrong with me and how do I sort my ...

What's wrong with condoms?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - I have recently found out that guys dont like to wear condoms by experience. Why is this?...

He never gives me compliments and our sex life just depresses me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - Hi I hope you can help. I've been with this guy for years now - almost 9, to be exact. We went through hell to get to where we are now; that's why I feel so hurt and rejected now. I do really love him ,not just love, but really 'in love' with him...

I'm not ready for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6944 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - ok, i am 18 years old and my boyfriend is constanly pressuring me into having sex. i really love him and we have been together for 3 years, but im just not ready to become that intiment. what should i do?...

Can I change the way my testicles look?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6932 days ago

23 November 2005 (M) - I am a man of 24 years of age but i am scared to get naked,never mind have sex with women. The problem is im embarrased by the size of my testicles,they are so small and tight u can barely see them.i think girls will laugh when they see them. I...

My lover can't even cuddle me without it becoming sexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Me and my lover of 2 years are happy except when it comes to one thing ... He wants sex all the time. He can't cuddle or be next to me with out touching or being sexual, even when other people are around. I think he has sex with me in my sleep! H...

One orgasm and I want to be left alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Hello i am a 21 year old girl and have had trouble with sex all my life. i can only have one orgasm and that is just by fore play and then after that i completely go off everything and just want to be left alone. i have had sex with my of my ...

Will I ever have an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I hope this isn't too explicit, but i have to be honest. I'm very passionate and have a very high sex drive. when im single i can somehow go without sex for ages, but when im with someone all i want to do is have sex. and it's been like that sin...

Do I suffer from premature ejaculation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6946 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - firstly i have 2 questions, is masturbateing quicker than sex? and, i think i suffer from premature ejaculation as when ever i pull a girl or even try to do dtuff with them i always seem to cum (a little bit) in my underwear? if this is premature ...

No foreplay, very little oral, and he lasts about a minute... Do I keep working on sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I wonder if anyone can help me here. I've been with a guy for over two and a half years. The sex I have with him is not too good. He is in his early 40s but he doesn't do much foreplay. He gets funny if I try to kiss him all over, he never explores ...

Sex is off the menu with my girlfriend, at least until we get married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Religion has ruined my sex life. My girlfriend and I have had a pretty great sex life until one day she just decided her priorities in life were different. Now she insists on us waiting until marriage to do "it" again. I plan on marrying her and she ...

The idea that my boyfriend looks at porn before having sex with me is a big turn off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6947 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - When my boyfriend looks at porn I feel really betrayed and unsexy. I just had a baby and still have a lot of work to do on my body so I am very sensitive anyway, and it just hurts to think that I am not enough for him after what I have been through ...

How do you start a conversation about being ready for sex, when you're a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - How do you bring up the topic of sex with your partner, when you are still a virgin? I have not been in a sexual relationship before and I do not know how to start, or how to ask? What's the best way, if both are ready? If both are comfortable with ...

Is there anything more to our relationship than just fantastic sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6948 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I really hope someone out there can help me with this. It's quite long, so please bear with me. x.x I’m a bit of a commitment phobic, as I’ve been hurt before and petrified of being hurt again, even though deep down I want to settle. ...

My husband can only get off on oral!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6948 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My husband cannot reach orgasm through intercourse, only oral sex. The problem is I hate having to give him a blowjob every time we have sex. It feels like work, and it hurts my back, neck, jaw. He says he tries to reach orgasm during intercourse, ...

My girl will have sex with me, but she hates to touch my penis!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - My GF has a problem with the texture of penises and finds touching mine revolting. She was badly abused as a kid and won't talk to me about it and, to my mind, clear the gremlins by bringing them out into the open. I suspect this "touching" problem ...

If I can't get oral from my girlfriend, can I get it somewhere else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6936 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - My girl doesn't want to give me oral sex anymore. But there is this other woman who told me she she wants to give me oral sex. Is there a way I can get my girl to give me oral or do I go to the other woman?...

Love the guy, but not crazy about the sex. How do we improve it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6949 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I love the guy but the sex is bad. Im almost positive it isnt me thats making it bad. How should I go about making it better without telling him he's a bad lover?...

We live 120 miles apart so when we get together and have sex... well, it goes too fast.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months and we live 120 miles apart. When we have sex which is once or twice a week, if that, he has this problem. He can't go very long and he says it's not my fault. He's had this problem before ...

What could we have done to make sex so uncomfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6949 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend where having sex and it was all good. Then I must have moved wrong and I jabbed her the wrong way or too hard. She got me to stop right away and she looked like she was in a lot of pain. I stopped right away and after that ...

I was dumped because I don't have enough sexual or emotional "experience"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - I have been dumped because my partner was my first person that I got involved with, and slept with. Now he tells me that I have no previous relationships, sexually and emotionally. I was told that I have nothing to rate this relationship on. I'm 22...