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writes: I hope this isn't too explicit, but i have to be honest.I'm very passionate and have a very high sex drive. when im single i can somehow go without sex for ages, but when im with someone all i want to do is have sex. and it's been like that since i started having serious boyfriends. The problem is , is that ive never had an internal orgasm. The only time is seem to orgasm is through external stimulation. My current partner and i have absoutly amazing sex, the best yet to be honest, but i still havnt had an internal orgasm. Ive been honest with him and told him ive never been able to have one. Now hes set this to be his mission. Is the fact that ive never had a multipul orgasm or ever found my G spot normal. Ive tried with every partner ive had. I love most positions and im always relaxed during sex and never think during sex that i have to orgasm. I would never fake it as i think thats not fair on me or my partner. dont get me wrong, i absoutly love sex but i feel like im missing out. All my female friends have said they have managed it through various positions and still no luck for me, is it possible ill never achieve it?
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (23 November 2005):
 Maybe your not doing it long enough,i had the same problems, until my bf found my g spot , you have to explore heaps of different positions to get the correct spot for you. it is possible to achieve it, i have been dating my guy for 2 years and it was only 6 months ago before we found my g spot, so dont worry your not alone.
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reader, XxFitKittenxX +, writes (22 November 2005):
you will achieve it at some point bt that day is not today. it will happen when it is right. it will proberly happen when you least expect it to. keep trying it will happen one day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): If you really want to orgasm, you can. The secret is to stop trying so hard. Stress is the big O killer, for both men and women. Your own stress is stopping you. Sex should be play for adults, and you should be laughing with your lovers, and talking to them about they feel in you. You can massage your clitoris with a finger or hand during intercourse, or learn to rub your pubic arch, and clit against him ( his cock, or pubic arch) while having sex. Most women can do this by laying on top of the man, and rubbing their clit on his arch as they rock and roll their hips back and forth on his erection. By being on top, you can control the rhythm and take yourself to your orgasm. YOu should also work on having lots of orgasms during foreplay, so that when you do have intercourse, you are sensitized excited, relaxed, and ready to climax as soon as you feel him in you. I like to play a game with my lovers where I enter them and then just stay still. We kiss, and tease each other, but I don't move. In less than 5 minutes, her vagina begins involuntary contractions on my cock, but I still don't move. She begins to get excited as she can feel everything when she couldn't really feel much at all before. She tells me it feels like her vagina is trying to pull my cock deeper inside her. It does not take long for her to climax, and all that squeezing has me going to my own climax either with her , or shortly after she does. Relax, and take your time. Enjoy the fun of all of it, and the orgasms will come. You do have to train your brain to want that orgasm, and there is no better way than to teach your lover to give you orgasms during foreplay, manually, and orally.
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