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writes: dear cupid i have been in a relationship for the past year. i am 18 and she is 17. we went on a break recently which lasted 7 weeks. we got back with each other and then she told me she wasn't sure what she wanted. she say's that she still wants to meet up and have a no strings attached relationship. i don't want this but yet i don't want to lose her either. she has said just be friends but i know this won't work as my feelings are much to strong for her just to be friends. she tells me she loves me and wants to be with me but just can't commit. please give me some advice thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): I'mma let you know right up you need to find yo self anothoer woman... Yeah you don't want to loose her but you kinda have to.. and yeah move on wit your life slowly she'll notcie you leave her life and if she's really felling the same way about you then stay but if she don't want to commit she's not good enough
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reader, sarah1975uk +, writes (25 November 2005):
Without comming across as patronising which isnt my intention, you are both still very young, if you both still love eachother then i would say have fun together and sex if you want too, but to push her for the commitment you are wanting could push her further away, if you take things slowly and at her pace hopefully she will come around to your way of thinking and the commitment will happen naturally. If it doesnt then its her loss and you will one day find your true love and get the love and commitment you desire.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2005): dYou can't always have your cake, and eat it too. What you want is nice, but totally irrelevant. If she does not want to date only you, that is her right. If you don't like that, then find someone else. That is your right. This is not the stone ages, when you get to whack a girl on the head and drag her to your cave. Women have the right to pick and choose, now, if you hadn't noticed before, and this woman doesn't want to pick you. If your humongous ego can stand it, you might benefit from asking her what she is looking for in a man, and then ask her why you don't measure up? You might learn something about yourself you can improve on.
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