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writes: Hello i am a 21 year old girl and have had trouble with sex all my life. i can only have one orgasm and that is just by fore play and then after that i completely go off everything and just want to be left alone. i have had sex with my of my partners but only sept with him twice i had to force my self to go it as i thought it would get better. any help on this would be great as it is runing my life. i have not seeked doctors advice should i? many thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): Bounce21: Since you are so young, don't give up yet. First, learn about your own body and what turns you on. If you don't have a vibrator, get one. Its high time you learned how to pleasure yourself, and how to have many orgasms in a row. The current problem is between your ears, and not between your legs. If you will read materials on-line on masturbation, and sex, you will learn how everything works. When you have that first orgasms, that is not the time to stop. You need to go on for the next one. You may be fighting your own orgasm, if you are as inexperienced as you sound. Don't take short, shallow breaths as you are get-ting excited. Instead, take long slow inhales, and slow exhales, and when you bottom out, count to 5 slowly before taking that next inhale. You will lose control sometime during the five count sooner or later, and the deep breathing will relax you so that you can enjoy the orgasm . That congestion you feel in your clitoris is normal, and does not " hurt" so much as it aches to be released by another orgasm. Follow through and have fun.
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