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writes: Religion has ruined my sex life. My girlfriend and I have had a pretty great sex life until one day she just decided her priorities in life were different. Now she insists on us waiting until marriage to do "it" again. I plan on marrying her and she knows that. We've talked about it and even planned around what time we would. Is she just trying to get me to marry her earlier? I mean she won't do anything with me now other than kiss. wtf. I'm sort of feeling shut out, and it's bugging me. I love her with all my heart and don't won't to lose her, but at the same time I don't think I can wait a couple of years for us to get married. How can I get some loving? At least more than a kiss...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2005):
March down with her to the appropriate reglious official and discuss how much you are allowed to get under her sect.
I am guess that it is way more than she is thinking.
So with that out of the way you will be able to evaluate if this is just a pressure tactic or sincere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2005): my boyfriend of a few months just pulled that crap with me. we had sex one time and it was great and now he won't even touch me supposedly because of religion all though he will go out and drink every weekend! I really don't understand the cut off either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): If your mot getting any now, you won't be getting any after you say I DO. expecially if she is religious
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): what's more important to you: a good relationship or sex?
if you care more about the relationship, then you should respect her religous choices. this does not mean that you should have to survive on kisses alone. ask her if it's ok to hug or cuddle. ask her what she defines as sex, and what isn't (oral, anal, fingering, etc.), and maybe ask her to come up with things she is comfortable with you doing now. while she may be using this to get you to marry her sooner, chances are she's not. if you're convinced she is, then you might want to move on to someone else who's more compatable with you and who isn't going to try 'sly' ways into getting you to do things.
and if it's just sex you're after, dude, you're screwed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2005): Talk to her explain how your feeling and how you feel about her .. get her to explain how she is feeling and her reasons behind all this change and see if maybe talking to her might help either one of you to see it from the other persons way of thinking and come to some sort of compromise in your relationship.
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