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writes: Hi,my name is rebelgirl1801.I am 18 years old and I am currently in a relationship with a 35 year old man.He never wants to have sex anymore with me.What can i do to make him want me more?Is it me?Or does this just happen to older men?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): I agree with anonymous, he's either cheating on you or has just lost interest since your novelty has worn off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Hi,I'm having the same problem so I can totally understand. My boyfriend is 37 and I have known him for a lot of years but I wasn't actaully with him just sleeping with him which was great he wanted it all the time. Now we are together it was nice at first but now since i have moved in he just seems to tired all the time im beginnning to wonder if he is going off me.
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reader, allyourspots  +, writes (27 January 2008):
Oh my goodness, he is only 35 and he has lost his sex drive??? 3 years ago I was dating a 27 yr old woman, she was a self proclaimed nyphomaniac she told me she could have sex 6 times a day. Hmmm 6 times a day, well I know I cannot have sex 6 times a day....... not because I can't but because I think anything under 3 hours is a rush job. After the first 2 weeks she asked to see my drivers license to make sure that I was 44 because not even her last bf 12 yrs. younger then me could not have kept up with me. Unfortunately we had to scale back, even though there was huge puddles we were getting raw from all the love making. Unfortunately for me she had commitment issues, never date a woman that has recently divorced. Oh by the way I take a pill that is suppose to kill my sex drive, right now I would be happy if that would happen as I have not dated anyone for the last 9 mths. not into casual or sex buddies
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): Well, Im 18 and I have a 38 year old boyfriend. Have you asked your boyfriend what's wrong? That always works with mine. Have you got a good communication with your boyfriend? Why don't you try going back to the beginning of your relationship? As in, do all the things you used to do. For example: Cinema, going for a meal. Being a romantic. Well, personnaly I ain't going through this at the mo, But it has happened to me with mine. We just started speding more time together. Well, I hope that tiny little bit will help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): im 18 and i've been with my 35 year old boyfriend for 9 months now. When we fisrt started dating we were all over eachother. about 7 months into it. we just did have sex as much. Everything else is fine. He kisses me, touches me, we live together. Even talked about getting married. For us being 18 we havent done the fair share as they have. they have had more realtionships than us. And mostly at 35 they want to be in settled mode instead of haveing sex every 10 mins. We have sex 2 to 3 times a week. Not so bad. So if he's with you alot and he still kisses and touches you. and you can tell that he loves you. then dont worry untill he doesnt want to have sex with you anymore. it depends on how you guys do in your realtionship. So good luck, Im sure everything is okay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): Omg..I am also 18, and I date this 35 year old. Do you think it's possible that he has no more interest? like..he just wanted you because you wee younger, and now he wants some other younger chick, or maybe it was just a fad? that he's done with younger women?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): i am in the same situation a s you are, except my husband is fifty we had a great sex life and like in one day it stopped i believe either they are cheating on you or they have just lost interest in you or perhaps in sex period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): my question to you is... what on earth are you doing with a 35 yr old man, in the first place? at 18 yrs old, you shouldnt even be having sex in the first place... he is obviously into someone more experienced now, and this is the reason for the lack of interest he is showing... dont even try to make him want you, it aint gonna happen... he's a chancer and most likely a pervert too.
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reader, shania  +, writes (27 November 2005):
 Ok,you havent said much about the relationship.Is everything else alright,or does he seem to be somewhere else? At 35 your fella isnt a old man and so that wouldnt be the issue.Have you tried talking to him? He might be having doubts about the relationship or he is suffering from stress or depression.Ask yourself this,does he seem distant towards you? does he still show you affection? Can you see any other signs that he might be cooling towards you.Communication is the key word here.You will have to ask him out right,does he still want to be with you/ Only then will you get to the bottom of it.Good luck.
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