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writes: Although having regular sex and enjoying it very much, I seem to have a problem of actually achieving an orgasm, I get to the point of almost having one but dont quite get to the over the edge feeling. What is wrong with me and how do I sort my problem. My husband is now starting to comment on the fact that i dont quite get there. The only way I seem to get to the point just before orgasm is by using my rampant rabbit vibrator!
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reader, Comrade_Terry +, writes (25 November 2005):
The most powerful sexual organ we possess is our brains. Maybe thinking that you need to reach orgasm during sex is too much pressure and is affecting you during love-making. Maybe try experimenting with setting the mood to relax you before you engage in sex (maybe a lovely bath with scented candles followed by a massage?) or learning how to bring yourself to climax (without your vibrator) to better understand your own body before trying to instruct someone else in doing so. Most importantly, you and your husband should share your feelings about your love-making and work towards resolving your issue together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2005): Have you tried getting rid of your rampant rabbit and then you and you husband can work out together how you can both orgasm.Try new things,ask him to touch you softly down there, this can help a lot.You could also try to spice up your sex life,by maybe role play, this to is a great help.Good luck
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (25 November 2005):
Hello, using a vibrator to pleasure yourself is much the same as sex. You need to be turned on before you can have an orgasm. The best way to achieve this is to dim the lights and touch yourself to start with, push it in and out slowly but deeply and while you are doing this use your other hand to caress you breasts and your clitoris, take your time, just like sex. Think of things that turn you on. Be patient and it will happen.
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