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anonymous
writes: ok, i am 18 years old and my boyfriend is constanly pressuring me into having sex. i really love him and we have been together for 3 years, but im just not ready to become that intiment. what should i do?
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reader, beenthere +, writes (23 November 2005):
don't do it if your not ready. tell him it's no good pushing you because then if you go along with it, it will be because you felt you had to and that doesn't usually make for good sex. if he loves you, he'll wait. the more he pressures you, the less you will want to do it. make it clear that it will only happen when you are ready. if he can't accept that, leave him
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