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writes: My husband cannot reach orgasm through intercourse, only oral sex. The problem is I hate having to give him a blowjob every time we have sex. It feels like work, and it hurts my back, neck, jaw. He says he tries to reach orgasm during intercourse, but it's just not enough stimulation for him, and if we go on too long he gets numb. I don't know what to do, we've tried all sorts of positions, but nothing except my mouth and hand seem to do it for him. We want to have a child, and while we've tried the "hop and pop" (I jump on at the last minute) it's hardly satisfying for me...Please advise, this can't possibly be normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2005): It could be that he wants to come too quick. Have you tried making yourself quite mosit with lube or cream, then only doing 'norm' sex as the 2nd best option. I would imagine if he has waited long enough and is desperate enough, he will come. It is a matter of not giving in too soon, and both of you being prepared for a bit of frustration that may be fullfilled if you both put off the main event of ejaculation. Men who provide a semen sample have to abstain for about 3-5 days so their testicles are full and about to burst. He will be glad of 'normal' sex by then!
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