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anonymous
writes: I love the guy but the sex is bad. Im almost positive it isnt me thats making it bad. How should I go about making it better without telling him he's a bad lover? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, sexseahot +, writes (18 November 2005):
Just while you're doing the deed, direct him to what makes you feel good. Some men you just have to teach how to please you. It may take some time, but practice always makes perfect. Maybe you could get on top and do what you want. There's many ways to teach him to be better. You just have to show him what you like and how to do it and he should get the hang of it in time. You don't have to tell him he's a bad lover, just let him know you like this position better, or you want to try something new with him. He should be up for something new or wanting to please you more. You never have to be rude about, just know how to trick him into thinking he's great, but you want things much greater:)
Good Luck!
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