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Archived questions from: June, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I was sexually inexperienced when we met, but it seems he's had more than his share of women...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7090 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - After a heart to heart with my boyfriend the other day he has confessed to me that he has slept with between 20-50 women, some while he has been in a relationship with other people. I was quite inexperienced when I met him, and am very insecure. ...

We're having sex and he doesn't want a "relationship", but I'm in love with him...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I'm a 19 year old girl and have been sleeping with this guy for nearly a year and half. My feelings are growing stronger for him but he doesn't want a relationship. I recently sent him a text telling him what I really for him but he didnt reply. I...

Both of us are disappointed that I can't seem to orgasm during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7060 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I've been with my bf for over 2 years now and I have never orgasmed during sex. He has given me orgasms in other ways and he knows what I like. I do enjoy the sex, well especially at the beginning, but sometimes after a while I just think "just ...

My husband masturbates and he thinks it's perfectly normal...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Is it normal for a happily married man to masturbate? My husband recently admitted that he still masturbates and thinks this is perfectly normal behaviour we have a good sex life, is it normal for happily married men to masturbate? ...

I feel sexually unequal to my girlfriend, ever since I found out that she's slept with a lot of men...

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - Hi this may seem strange. My girlfriend recently revealed to me that she has been with a large number of men and has had a large number of one night stands (between 20 and 30 of them - I didn't pry for too much info). I am having a truly hard tim...

Masturbation, yes. Foreplay, yes. But when we go to have sex, it goes floppy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6983 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I am a 20 year old male. I am can mastburbate in the normal way, but when it comes to having sex with my girlfriend everything goes limp. When we are messing around and foreplay it's rock hard, but as soon as a I take my trousers down it all goes...

I'm afraid that I won't last long enough when it comes to real sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6913 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I'm a 19 year-old virgin and am afraid I will suffer from premature ejaculation. I feel that I just won't be able to control it once the time comes. Is there any way to tell before I've had sex? ...

I'm not gay, but I'm getting interested in my bisexual friend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7092 days ago

26 June 2005 (?) - Hi, I have a problem, I'm a 17 yr old male and I've got a male friend who is 18. He is bisexual but he is going out with a girl who I know and she is bisexual as well. I spoke to him about it and he says he likes girls 70% and boys 30%. Someti...

It wasn't full-on sex, but since then, I don't know if I've wrecked our friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7094 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - I've become pretty good friends with a girl that I have worked with the last six years and I have had a crush on her for a while. We've gone out together a few times but never alone, always with other friends. She had a party at her house and af...

My last bf sort of discouraged me from performing fellatio on him, now I think I'll be terrible at it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - Im having an issue with fellatio. I'm in a new relationship and i know pretty soon he's going to wonder why i havent performed oral sex on him since he's been doing so on me. My issue is that im really insecure about this. I've been told by ...

I'm only 30 and I seem to have lost my libido!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7095 days ago

24 June 2005 (?) - I am a 30 year old wife and mother of two, eldest 2.5 years and youngest 7 mths. I have lost all interest in sex. My husband goes out of his way to try to pleasure me and I can orgasim after a time but find I have lost my libido and don't really ...

I love my boyfriend even though I never have an orgasm during sex with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7097 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 yrs now and I am very happy except for one thing, I can't have an orgasm. I was so happy with him that I just dealt with it. I told myself it's okay, you can handle this, he can please you in other ways... ...

Nine months apart and it's like we can't remember how to have good sex together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7097 days ago

22 June 2005 (?) - My hubby and I have been married for only three weeks. We lived together before we were married and had amazing sex all the time. Then, we were away from each other for 9 months. Since we've been reunited and married, the sex has been terribl...

My bf seemed fine with us not having sex, but now he touches me in places I don't want him to!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7060 days ago

21 June 2005 (?) - Hi I'm 15yrs. I've been going out with my boyfriend for about two months. told him that I didn't want sex when he asked me, he seemed very understanding and we spoke no more of it. But since then he has become very touchy feely. He touches place...

The sex is amazing, except my boyfriend sometimes goes too hard, or too fast...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7097 days ago

21 June 2005 (?) - I just started dating this guy three months ago, and he's the first boyfriend I've had after ending a six-year relationship a little over a fifteen months ago. When I hooked up with him, I hadn't had sex in over a year--lots of life issues. ...

We're both 15 and we're ready for sex... I think...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7092 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now. We are both teenagers and are 15. We have talked about sex and feel we are both ready for it, but she says that sometimes after we do things together i.e 'heavy petting' or foreplay etc it ...

Does the 7-year itch cover visits to prostitutes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - My partner of 7 years recently visited a prostitute. They didn't have full sex and he admitted to me what he had done the day after. He said that his reason for going was that as I had been the only woman he had ever been with he had got curious ...

My boyfriend's fantasies are all about me and other guys... and he wants me to talk about the ones in porn mags!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7097 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - Advice please, need opinion: My b/f & I watch porn. He says he's not interested in the women. He wants me to see other men, then asks my opinion on them bodywise(?). He buys magazines with men in them. He looks at them even when I'm not there, a...

My man loses his erection every time we try to have full sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

19 June 2005 (?) - Question: involved an in love w wonderful man who is leaving his wife-everything between us perfect except sex...kissing, cuddling, etc all perfect-but he loses his erection each time we try to have full sex. He says it is emotional and I believe it ...

I'm willing to go down on her, but she doesn't return the favour!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7089 days ago

19 June 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for a few years now. I am more than willing to, and do, go down on her pretty often. The problem is that she refuses to give me head. I've tried talking to her about it, but she hasn't ever really given me an ...

Remaining a virgin is seriously important to me, but how can I find a partner who shares this feeling?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

18 June 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid: I started going to college late, but now I am attending UCLA, a famous university. I want to remain a virgin until I find my one and true love, but she must also be a virgin. No one that I know is a virgin, and if I tell someone,...

After she told me that we have sex "wrong", I was at a total loss...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

18 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. Recently though, she has told me that I have sex wrong. Maybe not "wrong" but that it's just sex to me. I love the girl to death. To be honest, I feel I love her more than she me, but this is ...

She seduced me... and now we keep having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

17 June 2005 (?) - Hi , Me and another lad are the only 15 year olds around our area and the girls are all 12-13. So we only see them. We both fell in love with the same 13 year old but she goes out with my mate. But now her best mate (12) wanted to date him and keep...

Sex is fantastic with my mate's mum. But what if my mate finds out about us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

17 June 2005 (?) - I am faced with a real problem. I am a 18 year old who is seeing a 47 year old woman. The problem is she has a son who is one of my best friends. She used to be married to a very successful businessman but they got divorced five years ago. She has ...

I shouted a name during sex, but it wasn't HIS name!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

17 June 2005 (?) - Tonight I was at my ex-boyfriend's house. Even though we're technically no longer together, we still feel strongly about each other. We were having the best time together. We never have as much fun as we did tonight. We just really hit it off. ...

Sex will get boring if we don't try new things, he says. But what new things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

16 June 2005 (?) - I think I'll never be good in bed.My boyfriend says to me that I have to make new things and If I don't it will be boring but I don't know what to do.what new can i make.something sexy?I get really confused every time that we have sex,his words ...

Does Mum need to know I'm sleeping with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and we've just recently started sleeping together. I am on the pill but haven't told my mum. I keep feeling guilty that i haven't told her, should I tell her?...

Help! I leak semen whenevery my girlfriend and I kiss...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7103 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - Every time im with my girlfriend I always seem to release semen. This happens when we are kissing and is really putting me off. She don't know yet but I'm sure she will when she wants to take it further. Please help and save me from embarrassment!! ...

My girlfriend is losing interest in the sexual "stuff"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7104 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - I'm 18 and my girlfriend is almost 17. We've been together over 2 years. We're both still virgins, which to be honest doesn't bother me all that much, but she never wants to 'do stuff' (ie. masturbation etc) anymore. The last time we did stuff wa...

My bf wanted to learn to satisfy women, so he started with our landlord!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I haven't ever been able to have an orgasm during sex. But, this has been the case for all of my life. I didn't think it was that big of a deal, but my BF did. He said that before w...

We're comfortable with each other in every way... except when it comes to sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7106 days ago

14 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and have been living together for a very long time. We are completely comfortable with each other in every way except sexually. I enjoy trying new things, and watching porns, and even ...

I feel rejected because my partner "just doesn't like" having sex during my periods...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

14 June 2005 (?) - I'm wondering whether I'm making a fuss over nothing, as it's hard to get men's honest opinions on this: should I be bothered that my partner "just doesn't like" making love during my periods. For the record, he is not squeamish about anything else ...

My bf doesn't know I slept with someone else and I don't know if I should tell him, 'cause I suspect he cheated too!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

14 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is really good to me. He has never pressured me into doing anything i dont want to do.I did something terrible to him i would think. The story begans like this when i first started talking to my boyfrien...

I cheated and now I'm pregnant. Don't know whether the baby is my boyfriend's or my one-night-stand's!

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

13 June 2005 (?) - Hi, my name is Rebecca. I have a huge problem that could wreck my life. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year and we have been trying for a baby for the past 7 months. I went on holiday about 4 weeks ago and on my last ...

Lately my partner is just "too tired" for sex and I can't help but wonder why...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7103 days ago

13 June 2005 (?) - Hello, I'm 24 my partner is 26. We have a 2 year old. We havent made contact with each other for 3 weeks. We usually kiss and cuddle every night and have sex about twice a week, but my partner says he's too tired. Sometimes it's just a cuddle I want ...

I secretly crave a big, busty woman, but my fiancee has the body of a model!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7098 days ago

12 June 2005 (?) - "My fiance's body doesn't sexually interest me, but i truly love her." Ok, I've got a very interesting question for everyone. I'm 26 years old, and I'm engaged to a woman that I've been with for near 10 years. We're not legally married yet. She...

Something happens when we're in the bedroom... he loses his erection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

11 June 2005 (?) - My guy says he loves me and does show it at times. We're both affectionate and have fun together but in the bedroom just before we have sex, his erection goes away. Why?...

The sex seemed normal, but... what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

10 June 2005 (?) - Okay, I might be sounding a bit stupid here, but here goes anyway. I took my fiance on holiday last week, and as normal people do, we had sex. I have had a fair share of sexual partners in my life, but something odd happened that has never happen...

Why does he say he "doesn't deserve" me? Is he going to drop me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

9 June 2005 (?) - I have been friends with this guy for about 4 years now and I know that I love him, as more than a friend. Recently we have crossed the line and have slept together twice. He says that he doesn't deserve me, but I think he is trying to blow me off. ...

Could I have had an orgasm and not known it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7112 days ago

8 June 2005 (?) - I have great sex with my boyfriend and I love it; I become super wet, horny, and tittilated, but I don't know if I have ever had an orgasm. Is it possible that I have had one and I don't know it?...

She offered me a threesome, but I'd rather sleep with her one-on-one...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

7 June 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. I'm a male guy who has a female friend who is going out with my mate, however tonight I was talking to her online and she asked me to have a threesome with her (she is bisexual) so I said to her I prefer ...

I feel like I can't compete with the sexual endurance of my guy's ex-partners!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7112 days ago

7 June 2005 (?) - I love sex with my man but I feel threatened because him and his exes could go on for hours but after an hour I'm exhausted. what can I do or how can I go for longer?... ...

Why do I find so much excitement in the idea of sex with men who are below my standards?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7113 days ago

7 June 2005 (?) - I am a 31 year old good looking woman (quite a lot of people have adivsed I go for modelling), intelligent, fun and so forth.I orgasm with men I either don't love, quite below my standards or men I don't care for but not with men I find attractive ...

I don't know whether to believe him when he says he's just not a sexual person...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7101 days ago

6 June 2005 (?) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years, and we are for the most part happy with our relationship. We get along great and look forward to seeing each other, but we don't really have sex that much. I would say once a week, maybe twice.. ...

There's almost no sex any more, but when she's in the mood, she loves it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7111 days ago

5 June 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8-9 months and in the beginning we were very romantic and haivng sex daily. For the past month or so things slowed down and now they are at a complete stand still. She has no drive at all and has ...

She's a special girl to me, but she's a virgin... and wants to stay that way!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

5 June 2005 (?) - I used to be a guy that dates lots of girls till I met this girl. We have been dating for a while now and I really love her. But she is a virgin and has refused to make love to me. I have tried to be faithful but I am at my ends. What do I do? ...

He lied to me about everything. Now we're split up...and I'm pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

5 June 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have no idea where to start. Well, I am an 18 year old deeply in need of advice. I got myself involved with this man for 6 1/2 months now, knowing he is bisexual. What I didn't know is that he has a problem... he is whore with men as m...

I can't last five minutes during sex. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7100 days ago

4 June 2005 (?) - Im a 21 year old male who suffers from premature ejaculations. I dont know what is wrong, I lost my last relationship because of it! Take masturbation as an example, I dont enjaculate quickly but if I have sex I don't last 5 minutes! How do I ...

I think he needs to shower more than he has been. How can I tell him without hurting his feelings?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7089 days ago

3 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now. He is the first uncircumcised guy I've ever been with and I have had more yeast infections than normal over the past year (which I've heard is common with uncircumcised guys). My question...

We've been married for 4 years, but we can't have sex because it hurts too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7089 days ago

3 June 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I am 27, and I've been married for 4 years. I have tried to have sex with my partner but had no luck. Every time my partner tries to insert his penis it does not go in, we tried everything, I be in so much pain as though someone is cutti...