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writes: Hi,I have a problem, I'm a 17 yr old male and I've got a male friend who is 18. He is bisexual but he is going out with a girl who I know and she is bisexual as well. I spoke to him about it and he says he likes girls 70% and boys 30%. Sometimes when we are on the bus he puts his hand on my leg (I'm not gay) and he's done quite a few times. When I found out he was bisexual I was kinda suprised about it, but now I want him and me to sleep together. I'm finding myself attracted to him and I haven't a clue what to do? Please helpthanks,confuseddddd Reply to this Question
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (28 June 2005):
 Tell him how you feel otherwise you are going to feel agitated by the way he feels your leg!! He said he likes guys 30% thats still something it is still a percentage perhaps he likes you.Tell him how you feel he may feel the same!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2005): Go Ahead, Do it !!! We all have a part of homosexuality inside us... Just accept the fact and do it with your friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2005): There is nothing wrong with wanting to try new things sexually. I think you shoulg go fot it. Labels such as gay or bisexual are so out dated. Sex is sex. Tell your friend that you are interested and take things from there.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (26 June 2005):
 Gay is great and so is bi... I have no issues with that, but do take your time, and don't hop straight into the sack with this guy. If he's your friend, you don't want to throw that away if the sex turns out not to be quite as you imagined.
To be truthful, if you want to get him into bed you'd probably need not to say much more than "Would you be interested in getting together sometime, just us two?" But that sidesteps the issue, which is that at 17 you may not be 100% sure of your own sexuality yet.
Sometimes the urge to be loved and held by ANYONE is so overpowering that you might fixate on just about any person who appears interested. That's a normal human response. And it can be a mistake, because your affection and love and your sexual self are worth more than that.
Take your time deciding what your next step is, enjoy your fantasies, but think about all the possible outcomes... Including that this guy might not be what you need. Also consider that he seems to be in a relationship with a woman, and she won't be happy to discover that you're... ah... "the other woman" in this guy's life.
If you decide to go for it, don't forget those condoms, will you?
Hope this is some help.
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (26 June 2005):
Being bisexual is fine and exploring that option is fine...but think hard about doing that with a friend..if it turns out it is NOT something you want it can seriuously screw up a friendship.
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