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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Is he playing head games and should he be ignored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Color me confused here, but here is the situation. I met a guy online, we hit it off great. He was funny, intelligent, compassionate...all of the things women like. We have been chatting via phone and IM for a long time and then boom out of the ...

My long term b/f has caught me on several dating sites and left. Shall I forgive him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My long term bf has caught me in chat rooms and several dating sites over the last 9 months. We argue,like a child he walks out and doesnt come back for a week or so. All i do is harmless flirting and the odd guy i text. We broke up and this time i ...

Should I wait? Or make the next move myself?

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26 February 2009 (F) - okay, so ive known this guy for around a year, he randonly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and ...

How would she of gotten his email address if he wasn't a member?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - i found a email from a girl in my husbands email box that had her email address. she claims to be from adult friend finder and it read this. hey its been like a month or something since we last chatted and I was thinking about you and decided to s...

Should I just try to get to know her more on Facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - I need some help with a woman i like. She is still in highschool. this is her last year. And i really don't ever talk to her that much. the only time i do is on facebook. But we have known each other when we were little kids and i know a lot of her ...

He must like me.... but am I just being bit too keen wanting him to call??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hi all cupids... Quick question, I decided to sign up to a dating agancy 2 weeks ago and was amazed at the amount of interest I got. But within 2 hours of joining this guys literally made me laugh so much. He begged me for a date and after a ...

I met the man who said he loved me and now I havent heard from him in days....has he changed his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - so i met this guy through a friend...i say met but we only ever spoke on msn and then over the phone. tbh i never had the guts to meet him in real life because i'll be honest i'm not the prettiest girl. so cut to a whole year later, i still h...

He doesn't get it! I don't feel the same way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - So I met someone online (in an online game), we had talked for almost a month as friends and then we decided to just hang out. Come to find out, he left his girlfriend of 5 years, whom he was living with, for me. I was not happy to hear that, we ...

Is it logical to assume someone can do a 180 transformation on how they control their temper and resolve issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - A few months ago I met a girl via the internet. We talked quite a bit and found a very good connection from the get go. After about a month and change I took a trip to meet here. Overall things were great. Sex, chemistry, time spent together. I ...

Online dating for 6 months, I will see him in person soon but I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - mkkay here goes ive been dating this guy over the internet. we been dating for 6 months now! he is going to come see me soon well so he says! but anyway i love him so much i beleive i have totally fallen for him but im a little scared, he is my ...

Another game to him? Or could he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i really like this guy he lives in milwakee and i live in az so we dont really see each other which is hard cuz i have alot of feelings for him.i met him at a wedding which was last year and a few weeks ago we finally talked over facebook and he was ...

I'm not sure what his intentions are

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I met this guy online about two weeks ago. I hope I won’t sound stuck up when I say this but I've been bombarded with emails from guys so I’m being very picky. This guy stood out because he was nice, not suggestive, and didn’t blab on about himself ...

He says he wants me to stop texting him for "a while..." How long is a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Met a guy on online dating site... we got together, and then he kept blowing me out, about a month ago. I started texting again last week, and he said he really wanted to see me, and seemed really into me again, but on Thu, he wasn't able to s...

Am I being foolish by letting this upset me? Why the secrecy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - About 2 years ago my live in boyfriend told me a girl he had gone to school with (20 years ago) had contacted him. When I asked a few months later how she was, he said he hadn't talked with her for some time. I recently found out he has a secret ...

I want to be with him but I feel unhappy about our secret relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for a year and change. His whole family is not fond of me especially his mother. This is because I dated her other son prior to this one for about half a year. I found out that he cheated on me so I broke it...

He bought me a couch at our second date!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - So i just broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago. I met a guy online shortly after and we met one time and he seemed great. Said hes new to the area but we didnt do anything - no kiss or anything we agreed that we'd, if anything, be friends. he ...

I tried to save my marriage after my wife cheated but now I think it is time to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Today is Monday .. saturday we got a big fight with my wife and she took my two children ( 5 and 11 yrs ) to a friend's house, now I dont know what to do, mainly the fight is for always the same,for money, I work she does not, she and my kids just ...

My wife is chatting to hundreds of men online even though I have asked her to stop!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I've been married to my wife now for almost 5 years now. We met online in an animated avatar chat room called Habbohotel, and things on the whole are great. but... Basically, i have an issue with her talking to men online. When i knew her...

Want to try online dating but worried about ID theft and stalkers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I want to try online dating but I'm really worried about identity theft and stalkers. The idea is very appealing to me but I don't like giving out all that info for the world to see or worse have someone not take no for an answer and follow me. I ...

Isn't it too soon to find it weird that he's seeing other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - i've recently started dating a man, just 2 months ago. i met him on a dating site. he says he's very interested in me but he's still on the dating site. he says he isn't in a 'monogamous' relationship with me yet and we haven't consumated that yet, ...

Is he really that into me or was I just serving a purpose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I joined a dating site back in Sept and after a few weeks I met someone. We went out on a date and met up a few times before christmas but with conflicting schedules we kept in touch casually. Im suppose I was old fashioned at teh begining and I ...

My online man's advances are so sexual, how do I tell him that he's turning me off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i've been chatting to this guy over the last 3-4 months, he seems really nice, we just talk about school, family, parting the future.... recently he's started asking to see me on webcam (i havn't let in, yet) i kinda wanna do it because i feel like ...

Should I text him? Or will he contact me again about his rudeness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I met a guy on Oasis the free Internet dating site who lives in NSW. I live in Perth. We seemed to get along really well. He then started sending me pics of his lower private parts and wanted to know what I was wearing etc and wanted intimate pics ...

If he really wanted to get rid of me why wouldn't he have just left it at that and be pleased that I had said goodbye. Why re-contact me again.

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Have I turned a gay guy straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hello, so i've been on chemistry.com for 3 months and i keep getting matches that have everything i want in a guy but the best match was a gay guy. i dont have anything wrong with that now that i've gotten to know him (over facebook) and he wants to ...

What is his game plan??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Help. I met a guy over the internet who lives in NSW. I live in Perth. We seemed to get along really well. He then started sending me pics of his lower private parts and wanted to know what I was wearing etc and wanted intimate pics of me. At first ...

We met online, he says he wants to have sex and then marry me in 3 years, do I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - me and this guy met on orkut (Social networking and discussion site )and we have been knowin each other by communicating by phone since last year..havent seen each other bfore.. he says he likes me and i also like him..he says he love me 60% but as f...

Am I right to be concerned about my boyfriend's strange behaviour???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Do you guys think im over reacting an should just forget it or do I have cause for concern? My boyfriend of 6 months is very loving but a few things are really worrying me. 1- he hsa no problem with looking at my phone but snatches his off me if I ...

Is the online dating a scam?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I have a question about online dating. If you are against this form of dating or think it’s wrong or whatever, please don’t lecture me on that, I only want thoughts on this situation. I stumbled on eHarmony a few weeks ago by pure chance and befor...

I'm obsessed with trying to find someone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Please help as i going mad. I seem to be obsessed with trying to find someone. Im on a few dating web site and im constantly looking to see if i have any messages and get so dispointed if i dont. I just am so lonely and my life feels so boring. I ...

I am feeling very hurt, upset and anxious and don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Help. I met a guy over the internet who lives in NSW. I live in Perth. We seemed to get along really well. He then started sending me pics of his lower private parts and wanted to know what I was wearing etc and wanted intimate pics of me. At first ...

Please help on how to find closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (?) - Please help me before I go mad. I’ve been involved in a text relationship with a man for almost 3 months. This man happens to be my driving instructor. I am in my early thirties and he is 52. I know cliché! Anyway the story is this........ we have ...

Should I encourage him to ask me to meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago I spent a fabulous night with a guy that I met through a mutual friend. I have not been able to put him out of my mind since. I didn’t expect to keep in contact with him however, we have been chatting online ever since. Most...

I'm not sure about these occurences with my g/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I met a girl online when she was dating another guy, we talked for months and had undeniable chemistry. We met 5 months after we first started talking, it was an unbelievable night, culminating in our sleeping together. At the time she had not ...

Should I stay or go?? I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) - Hi All! I am more used to giving advice than asking for it. I need some opinions on this. I'm very confused! I have been in a LDR for almost a year. We have been together only twice, but both times it was wonderful and we were both very hap...

Shall I dump my b/f and get back with Bryan or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - A few months ago i started goin into a chatroom for the first time. I met a guy in there(Bryan)and he was very kind and caring. After a few weeks of just being frends i started to develop emotions for him. I didnt want to tell Bryan how i felt ...

Online dating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Has anyone had any good outcomes from online dating? I started online dating in September 2008 and met someone in November, it didn't work out and shes put me off for life :(. She was very insecure and has major ex boyfriend issues, I didn't find ...

Why is phone sex all he wants from me????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Ok me and this guy have been talkin for awhile but the thing is we never met before because we met online..i'm 18 and he is also 18. We'll be meeting pretty soon.The things that i love about him is his personality and he is good looking, and he ...

Why would a guy initiate contact with you via text, and then just not respond to you after that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Why would a guy initiate contact with you via text, and then just not respond to you after that? This guy that I've kind of seen a couple times called me after not talking in a while, but I didn't pick up because I didn't want to seem too availab...

How to act after rejection, so he'll come running back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that seemed so into me, like majorly. (hes dead nice, and i think its unlikley hes speaking to other girls the same) he mentioned going to the cinema with me and hanging out , etc etc. we bumped into each other twice since weve...

Can you get the spark back between you & a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - Theres this guy who ive known for about a month, ive bumped into him twice and we got along really well. We speak on facebook and text and weve been speaking so much, flirting, he mentioned going to the cinema with me. etc etc. Just obvisley ...

What does his actions sound like to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, This is a little long but im going to try and keep it simple... Okay so 6 months ago i met a guy online (yeah its one of those stories lol).Really hit it off,talked for hours,talked for hours on the phone,webcam etc-basically we...

Odd choices

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I have been using certain sociel networking sites sinse christmas, trying to meet new people and networking for similar interests, im a goodlooking guy, im a bodybuilder, i dont talk about anything sexual and i dont rub my assets in peoples faces. ...

Husband cheated so I fell in love with a picture on the Internet in return, what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Ok here's the problem .............. been married 22 yrs. Husband cheats with ex then drug whore in these 22yrs . Says he has stopped ! Ok I have been faithful this whole time . But because I had been hurt so much thru this I had to find an e...

He said he'll change but will he really? SHOULD he really?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Okay so here's the deal, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, and it's online but we were pretty much inseperable. I know I love him but when I finally went to see him in person I realized some things. I realized what I really want in a ...

My BF chats with my friend on MSN... alot. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My bf often chats with my friend on msn but he doesn't tell me. i always thought they seldom contact but they actually chat quite alot on msn. my bf will tell her things that i may not even know. i'm sad and disappointed. What should i do?...

We're dating but both still have profiles on dating sites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5792 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so my bf and I met on an online dating site. The thing is we both still have the profiles up! He brought it up a few times and said, "I'm thinking about deleting the profile." But he never did. I know that he's logging on every day. I haven't...

What kind of questions should I ask to find out more about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - anyone plwease help!i am 24years old and meet a man through internet,i think he is the one i have been looking for around the world and now i have found him.The problem is,i am staying in Lesotho and he is in JHB.He keeps on telling me that he ...

My online friend suddenly disappeared leaving me worried for weeks, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I have a really good friend who lives right outside NYC, about an hour and a half away from where I am at. We used to chat online through AIM/Skype/etc (almost) every single day, and we both really liked each other, and we were very close to ...

Why doesn't he ever text first, does he even like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Ive met this guy recentley. long story cut short, i dont see him often, and we dont have any mutal friends. Ive been speaking to him online for like the past 3/4 weeks and ive spoke to him in real life 2 times. The last time we spoke we got on ...