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writes:Theres this guy that seemed so into me, like majorly. (hes dead nice, and i think its unlikley hes speaking to other girls the same)he mentioned going to the cinema with me and hanging out , etc etc.we bumped into each other twice since weve been speaking online and on text and we got on SO well :)But the past couple of days hes been less flirty, and more untalkative. :( Its not like hes blanking me or anything but hes just turned it more friendly.Its really strange, because for the past few weeks weve been really into each other Im going to text him today and ask him if he wants to hang out.If he says no, or doesnt text back.What should i do?should i leave it for a week and see if he speaks to me, and if he doesnt just tell him how i feel.But how should i act if he sort of rejects me or feeds me a really pathetic line?make him feel abit guilty for acting like he liked me ?upset?angry?act like i dont care?He might not , but whats the best way for him to realise 'dam, i want her back'
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reader, MaiterikumiDearest  +, writes (14 September 2010):
Hang out with him in that friendly and not desperate way. Hang out with his friends as "one of the guys".
Don't be all up in his grill about what you want to be for him. he'll get the clue that you're desperate. If he once was an outcast from a popular group and is now back in the group. It'd be wise to recheck your rank if he suspects you're out of his league. Don't take it the wrong way if he smirks away. He secretly likes you with his noncholant attitude and is clearly trying to get you back. Let this go on for about a week then continue on with the buddy-buddy system until he asks you out again.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 February 2009):
Perhaps he's had a headache? It's only been a couple of days.
Just be really casual... "So are we going to hang out soon then?"
and then if he says no just ask why not. If he's been friendly and flirty then at the very least he should have reasons not to want to be your friend, even if he's not interested in you as a boyfriend.
Don't get angry or anything if he says no, just act like he's being strange for not wanting to meet up, then cut contact since he obviously doesn't want to be mates.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): well i think he was only leading you on.alot of guys do it. pretend there really into you. but are really just not.or maybe he didnt even realize he was flirting with you. some people flirt naturally and when he saw that you started getting into him he tryed pushing you back so he doesnt hurt you.
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