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Am I being foolish by letting this upset me? Why the secrecy?

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Question - (23 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

About 2 years ago my live in boyfriend told me a girl he had gone to school with (20 years ago) had contacted him. When I asked a few months later how she was, he said he hadn't talked with her for some time. I recently found out he has a secret email account. Not only have they been in touch the whole time, but he is in contact with several other women.

His reunion was recently and he told me he was not going, then went without me! This old friend convinced him to start a facebook page, and when I requested him as a friend, he blocked me!

We have lived together for 6 years and this is killing me. I tried talking to him about how it makes me feel but he laughs and says I am overreacting.

Should I just let this go? Am I being foolish by letting this upset me?

Thanks~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

Facebook makes it easy to get caught up with old flings. I know. I am not married, but living with a man for about 6 years. I recently caught up with an old boyfriend via facebook and it's turned my world upside down. You have every right to be suspicious.

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A male reader, justadvise United States +, writes (23 February 2009):

i'm sorry to hear about your situation. you probably don't want to hear this but that sounds like a one way street to cheating. You definitely need to find out what's going on and prepare for the worst. good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

DON'T put up with this! You demand what is right, he is the one in the wrong!

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