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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Can anyone give me some guidance to improve my marriage please? We seldom chat or have sex anymore..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I got married for 5 years. i got 2 sons, 1 is 5 yrs and another is 16 mths .my relationship with my husband seem ok on first 2 years. but recently everything has changed. We seldom chatting or have sex,and he hates his sons for making noise and ...

Two months after marriage and we already have problems. Is this marriage already over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am wondering what to do about my marriage. I am in my early 20's and I just got married 2 months ago. I am in Germany with my husband because he is in the army. So he works for the army here and I left everything from the States to come be with ...

She insisted I am the one for her, now we're married but I found her messages to other men with sexual implications!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - i am a saved man, who is married to a womam who just can't seem to break a way from her lovers in the past. Before we married i told her that maybe God had someone else for her. She has persude me for 1 1/2 years telling me that i am the only man ...

How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...

My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...

I don't want my increased desire for sex to ruin my marriage, my husband says I'm an addict!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I am 25 and married. my husband in the begining of our courtship was able to keep up and now he says i want it all the time and i am a sex addict and he is 26. I do want it everyday many times and that is how i was since 14 as well and have not ...

My married life: lacking romance, lacking friendship and just plain lonely.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ive been married 2 years and have a child who is nearly 1.My problem is that my husband doesnt want to spend time with me to take me out,He just stays at home,eats and uses the computer to do stupid research.He doesnt do anything romantic like bring ...

I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I have a problem. I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill. We have a daughter together and we are expecting another one. I just cant take this marriage any longer there is no respect, ...

Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome? I have had the fantasy of seeing my wife with another man for 2-years now. I have asked her about it and she always said no. I make little comments and suggestions all the time. Finall...

Is it fair that this little girl doesn't know the truth of why her Mom and Dad broke up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's daughter who is 7 years old told me she wants to know why her mom and my boyfriend got separated. She doesn't understand why everyone keep telling her they will explain to her when she is 17-18. The truth is her mom had an affair with ...

My husband left for no reason! He's very thin and I'm worried about his health. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - hi i am in quiet a dilemma. i have been happily married for 13 years. Three months ago, my husband walked out for no reason. We had had no argument,disagreement or anything. All his clothes, underwear and everything is still at the house. He is st...

I have been with a married man for 6 years, am I wasting my time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married man for six years now. He and his wife were having probs when we met. Eventually he told her about us and she moved out of the house. After a year though she has now moved back in as the kids live...

Is it normal to not be able to orgasm with penetration only?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I have been married a month but have known my husband for 2 years. I cant orgasm with penetration on when he fingers me, is this normal? I have always assumed it is but then he gets upset with me and says its because all i want him to do is finger ...

We dont have sex, he's got a small manhood, but everything else is perfect. Should i have an affair?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm in the same boat. Well, I haven't met anyone else but I married my husband in April of this year. We've had sex once in 12 months. We have a brilliant friendship, we have fun together, can talk about everything and he loves me like no one ...

My husband always puts me down, and now ive had enough, need some advice please..

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Can't get past it.... Recently I told my husband about his constant pointing out my "faults". Over the last three years he has repeated the same sentiments or arguements have started that began with something that he felt I should be doing ...

My husband is deployed and I'm all mixed up! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

26 August 2007 (?) - I'll try to keep this short. I feel like the most selfish person in the world for even asking this question, but it's really been bothering me. I'm just looking for people's opinions on this, even if what you think isn't all that nice. Thanks for...

I am married and dont want to jeapordize that, but I think I met my soulmate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I'm wondering if anyone else is in my situation. I'm a happily married woman. I still love my husband dearly and we have never had any problems. A few months ago, I was blown away when I met another man. We were introduced through work and were ...

My wife treats sex as a reward, as its the only bargainig tool she has... would an affair be the answer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - I am married to my wife for 5 years now, after dating her for 4-5 years. She is good looking and sexy and I love her. We have a 1+ old baby and another one on its way. I work from home and my business is good, so we have no financial problems at all ...

I have stayed with my husband because my daughter can't bare another divorce, but he is not treating me right

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I don't know if anyone is in the same position! I'm 37 and have a daughter of 10. I married a man 3 years ago after much stress on both sides. Both our previous partners had, had affairs and left us with a child. So we are now married with a ...

Not sure if I've ever been in love with my wife, now I love her sister...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - I have the same dilemma as a couple of guys who say they're attracted to their wife's sister. I find myself in the same perdicament. The difference with me is that I am not in love with my wife, and I have fallen in love with her sister. I did not ...

My husband doesnt want to spend time with us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - My hubby seems to be miserable at the moment (not sure if he is depressed). I don't what to do, or how to help him anymore. He's very good round the house and helps with tidying etc because he did all this when he lived on his own before met m...

I am way too attracted to my wifes sister!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - I have been a happily married man for several years now and I very much love my wife. Her sister has also been living with us for years and I have known her for as long as I've known my wife. The problem is, her sister has gotten hotter and hotter ...

His abuse is getting worse, he's tried to strangle me 5 times!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my husband for 3 years and I don't know what to do. I have a six year old boy who adores him and a one year old baby girl. The problem is he has become physically abusive. He has tried to strangle me five times but generally just ...

Is he just confused with seeing us again or does he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - My ex fiance is now back in touch with me and our two daughters after years of abscence. He started off with good intentions, but now only seems to call me. (not the girls). He always promises the girls things, and time to spend with them, but ...

Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

24 August 2007 (?) - Hey everyone, thanks for reading. Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it. I went to my home state to visit my family for two weeks, but it went by so fast and just made me miss both my family and my ...

I don't want to be "that girl," but I really like a married man

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - Two years ago, I met a guy who I ended up falling for. He had literally just got into a relationship, so I didn't try anything, and I certainly didn't say anything about how I felt about him. His girlfriend ended up getting pregnant- so they ended ...

After breaking up with my girlfriend, I seem to notice my parents having problems. Am I just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - Hi everybody, I'm starting to experience stress. My girlfriend split up with me back in June after 2 years of being in a long distance relationship (we met up on 13 different occaisions in that time). She was my first love. I've just began to tr...

My husband cheated on me and now I can't get the image of this other woman out of my head!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

23 August 2007 (?) - How can I get over intimacy difficulties, after my husband had an affair with someone I know, 4 months ago. I am finding it increadibly hard not to be effected by thoughts of him with this other woman, even when he kisses me! I freak out when he ...

I found out my wife gave oral to her male friend, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - Hi, not sure what to do about this. My wife (and now me over the years) has a friend Brian that she was friends with before me. I don't think I've actually specifically asked, but it was always assumed that they were just friends. My wife was a ...

I'm married but i have a crush, and he knows my husband.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - Hi. I am married to a guy, who I have been going out with for 8 years. He did cheat on me and got a child out of wedlock. I was bitter but managed to work on my emotions especially for the children's sake. However at the moment I have developed a ...

I have no desire for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - i am 49,male, have no desire for sex, my wife has been patient but for how long. i am not unhappy with my wife, am just happy with everyday life. i do not look elsewhere either. ...

Married 10 years with 4 kids. Hubby complains my 'heart isn't in it' when we have sex! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - I'm new and ran across the site while looking for relationship help. Here is my issue: I've been married for 10 years. My husband and I have a good relationship, but the problem is that we're both very busy. We have 4 kids which I care for...

He has subjected me to mental abuse.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for 13 years. I am 32 and he is 42. About a year ago we decided we were in a good position in our lives to have a family. We always said if we had children we would get married so we also decided we would do this as well. ...

I'm really worried about my wife.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - Right where to start my question isn't about me its about my wife, I'm very worried about her. Well we have been married for nearly 7 yrs and have a 17 yr old daughter. We also have a 2 month old daughter as well. We have someone to come to the ...

I want so bad to sleep with her, I want to make love to her and tell her that I am in love with her but she's MY WIFE'S SISTER!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - I have fallen in love with my wife's sister. I love and care for my wife but not the way I feel for her sister. I want so bad to sleep with her, I want to make love to her and tell her that I am in love with her. If she asked me to sleep with her I ...

How can I learn to like giving blow jobs and how can I develop a healthy libido again?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I am 18 and I have been married for a little more than a year. We have a baby boy who is almost one years old. I got pregnant the first time I had sex and I think that maybe that really damaged my libido. It's really hard for me to get in the ...

Do you think my wife's past is correct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - My wife and I are open and honest about our past, however talking about our first time she said she was fingered for 3 or 4 years by an older boy but never had intercourse with him. Although this does not really matter could this be true or is she ...

Do I go back to my husband who I still have feelings for or continue with this other man I've met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I have seperated from my husband and met someone else who I fell in love with. My husband and I are now getting on well and he still loves me, I do have feelings for him but also this other man. I have two children with my husband, what should I do? ...

My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I have been happily married for almost 17 years. My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker. I feel terrible, but I can't help how I feel. We have been having ...

The problem is that I have changed and I no longer want to be married.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I have been with my wife since I was 17 years old. She is 18 years older than me and we have been married for the past 7 years. The problem is that I have changed and I no longer want to be married. I've made alot of promises that I can no longer ...

What can I do for my 11th anniversary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I wonder if anyone has advice on what I can do for my eleventh anniversary, I know its not a big anniversary, but I kinda dropped the ball last year and it would help fix that if I did something pretty big this year. ...

Don't enjoy sex with my husband so should I meet this online guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

21 August 2007 (F) - I got married 8 months ago even though i knew i didn't really want to as i no i'm not totally in love with him. He's such a good man who is descent and loyal and adores me. I love his family and love being part of it, but since i got married i knew ...

I want to leave my husband, but dont have a clue how to get started

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F) - hi there.. i am in deep trouble again...i want to leave my husband but i do not know where to start or where to get help. i also have a child to consider as i am not willing to leave her with my husband. i want to start a new life possible far away...

What do I do to make my husband pursue me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6333 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - Well... my husband and I have been together for 5 years and we have been married for 1 year. We just recently had a baby boy (May 22, 2007). OK now for the question.... it seems as though I am ALWAYS the one that wants to be intimate. I am ALWAYS ...

Will I gain his trust, what should I do, I love my husband and want things to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - My husband has been using sex lines, we haven't even been married a year! but have been together 9 years. I feel so betrayed. I'm not unadventurous and we have always had a good sex life. Like I said I just feel so hurt, Not by the act itself but ...

She is worried about leaving him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6333 days ago

20 August 2007 (M) - I am in a relationship with a married woman, S, who is deeply unhappy, we have been seeing each other for 18months when time and family allow. I am seperated with two children and she has two children. Her husband has had three affairs prior to our ...

We have split up because of my son.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

20 August 2007 (M) - Hi All, New to the site. I have a problem. Basically I love my wife very very much we have been married about 5 years and it is my second marriage. Everything was great until xmas. My first wife threw my eldest son out [aged 14] and I agreed he ...

Having serious marriage problems. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

20 August 2007 (M) - I have been married for 9 years, and me and my wife have lost connection physically and emotionally. We have tried professional help, but it doesn't seem to work. We have 2 children and I don't want to leave them behind, but I have been trying t...

Has he pulled me back towards him to try and hurt me because I pulled him through he courts so he'd leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F) - I've been married for 7 years and just gone through the courts to get my husband to leave me alone, now he has left the city I feel like I've made a huge mistake, he's still puts the words there he wants me back but when I responded positively he's ...

I think i got married too young.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F) - I am married really young. I am now 24, and have been married for a year. When I first met my wife, we really hit it off. I was actually looking for a roommate at the same time, and decided she would be a perfect fit. She ended up moving in within 2 ...