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writes:I have the same dilemma as a couple of guys who say they're attracted to their wife's sister. I find myself in the same perdicament. The difference with me is that I am not in love with my wife, and I have fallen in love with her sister. I did not set out to fall in love with her, in fact I never really thought much about her. But we have been spending a lot of time with her lately, and after getting to know her better, I have fallen in love with her. I can't stop thinking about her, and when we don't go and see her I find myself missing her. I love her, she does not know the way i feel about her, and somehow I get the feeling she may feel the same way about me. I wish I could tell her how I feel, but I know I can't since I'm married to her sister. The thing is I'm not in love with my wife, and not sure if I have ever really been. If I had i magic wand I would not be with my wife I would be with her sister. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): thanks tray lou for your reply. i hope you are right that love will find a way.
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reader, Tray-Lou  +, writes (25 August 2007):
when love is real it will happen no matter what but you need to have some respect for your wife as well and realise that if you went with her sister their relationship would be destroyed and your wifes sister could end blaming you for losing her family but if your love is real first you need to tell your wife that you both shouldn't be together but do not tell her it is because of her sister at least give your wifes sister some time to comfort her own sister as your wife will be devasted but if you stay with your wife you will clearly be miserable so you need to do something soon before alot of people get hurt
if it is true love between you and your wifes sister then it will find a way but the consequences will be bad no matter what you do but thats what always happens when you break up with someone so you have to be brave and be strong
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): Divorce your wife. I don't think your wife's sister would be with you b/c that would be betraying her sister & not many women are willing to do that to family. Men may be different, but I know I would never do that to my sisters.
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reader, penta +, writes (24 August 2007):
 If you're not in love with your wife, then you need to end the relationship. But DO NOT go chasing after her sister. You would trash their relationship, too, and that's not fair to either one of them.
The position you find yourself in doesn't have a happy ending. I'm sorry.
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