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writes:I have fallen in love with my wife's sister. I love and care for my wife but not the way I feel for her sister. I want so bad to sleep with her, I want to make love to her and tell her that I am in love with her. If she asked me to sleep with her I would. I wish she would. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Dont sweat the fundies man. Go for it! If you don't you will always be wondering what happened. Nail the sister! It's the best way to go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): u r awful dont even mention the word love.. just masturbate thinking about her and keep it to urself.
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Hi there,
I don't think you're in love with your sister-in-law more in lust!
All I can say is don't go there unless you want to turn your life upside down.... if you tell your sister-in-law how you feel about her she may feel duty bound to inform her sister what sort of man she's married to, and you may find yourself out on your ear!
Be careful, your family life is at stake here!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Hi Hun,
YOU NEED HELP!
Put your wife in your shoes and imagine you had a tasty brother she fantasised about shagging, As thats all you want! I feel sorry for both of them, your sister is the one person you love and trust unconditionally, Imagine the heartache...
Ive seen this happen and ive seen the heartache and ive also seen the husband left alone with out anyone, crying and wishing he could go back in time as he missed and loved his partner so much...No going back after that one, as the other aunts say be very carefull what you wish for love....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): It sounds like you are thinking with your penis, rather than your brain. If you love and care for your wife then her welfare should ideally come before your sexual temptations. Surely?
All people have inappropriate sexual thoughts, but having a thought doesn't mean you have to act on it. Especially if it is going to result in the ultimate pain in someone you supposedly care about.
Perhaps this situation has suggested that you aren't actually in love with your wife any more? It might explain why the feelings towards the sister have gone from a fantasy to what seems like a conscious decision to act it out?
It seems like you either need to tackle what is missing in the marriage, or accept that perhaps the marriage isn't working. I'd suggest to try everything you can in your marriage before becoming unfaithful to your wife as once you've been unfaithful there is no going back!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (23 August 2007):
So you're in love with her sister hey? Then why does it seem that you basicaly just mentioend wanting to have sex with her. If you loved her, wouldnt u want a relationship? Or do you think thats not possible so you will just 'settle' for sex and do it on the side? Well having sex with her and staying with your wife shoudlnt even be an option your considering.
You care about your wife dont you? Well before making any moves on her sister think really hardly about how hurt she would be and how embarased you may get if her sister rejects you...then what will hapen? Her sister will go to her and tell her all about it...and you will be dumped most liekly. Then how will you feel? Will that sex that you wanted be worth all that lost?
Think about this more. think about who you truly love, not just who you want sex with. What do you want in life? Do you still want to be in relationship or do you just want to go around having sex with females? if so, then leave this relationship.
But whatver the case may be, if you do love the sister then why even consider staying with your wife? if thats how u truly feel...
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reader, happytochat +, writes (23 August 2007):
So you're in love with her sister hey? Then why does it seem that you basicaly just mentioend wanting to have sex with her. If you loved her, wouldnt u want a relationship? Or do you think thats not possible so you will just 'settle' for sex and do it on the side? Well having sex with her and staying with your wife shoudlnt even be an option your considering.
You care about your wife dont you? Well before making any moves on her sister think really hardly about how hurt she would be and how embarased you may get if her sister rejects you...then what will hapen? Her sister will go to her and tell her all about it...and you will be dumped most liekly. Then how will you feel? Will that sex that you wanted be worth all that lost?
Think about this more. think about who you truly love, not just who you want sex with. What do you want in life? Do you still want to be in relationship or do you just want to go around having sex with females? if so, then leave this relationship.
But whatver the case may be, if you do love the sister then why even consider staying with your wife? if thats how u truly feel...
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reader, smeedle +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Oh dear, what a mess you have got your self in, not going to preach and tell you how wrong this would be if you slept with her but going to tell you that it is possible the wishing is all in your head and maybe it is totally one sided, you must have some problems in your marriage and this is the root of it all.
You need to look into your heart and ask your self the question about why you want this woman so much when it is so wrong on so many levels.
Please try to be objectional and step back, think about what is wrong with the woman you have and who loves you and try if possible to put that right or if you decide that you really love her no more then cut her loose, before you do anything with the sister that may or may not want you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): I think you are simply lusting after your wife's sister. All you said is "i want to sleep with her, make love to her" etc, it just means that you want sex and nothing else! Think for a while whether you would still feel the same way for her if she gained a 100 pounds and caught an awful skin disease? You wouldn't. So just stay away from her, and stay true to your wife. If you want further motivation, just imagine how you would like it if your wife wanted to sleep with your brother.. Stop being so immature and give your wife the love she deserves!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Be very careful what you wish for. Do you think that your wife will magically disappear? What happens if your wishes come true? You will be in the deepest pile of cow manure! Picture your life afterwards! Seriously, no good can come of this. Some things are meant to remain fantasies, that's life.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Is she single? If she is, divorce your wife and marry her sister. Better yet, just have sex with her sister and wait and see what happens. I want the video. Imagine what would happen in her family and your family and the neighbors and friends and everybody got to talking... You are one horned up guy, anyways, I suggest the divorce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): for god's sake, get a grip on yourself,you can't sleep with your wife's sister, ever!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Good lord, guy--are you seeking validation? No one here, can give you the go-ahead and cheat with your wife's sister. Keep this a unattainable fantasy or whatever you like, but don't do it. Adultery can cut like a knife, but to want to do this with your wife's sister - that's as low as it gets, mister. This is serious, because if you do this-not only will you have betrayed your wife but your wife's family. Your poor wife-she picked a winner, didn't she? The highest degree of betrayal from two people that she probably loves and believes love her....her husband and her sister. If this sister has any character and I highly doubt this sister will ever give you the time of day, anyways. You are a self-involved, rather sad man and you need some bigtime, professional help. Your poor wife. Sheesh!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): please you are telling me that you would cheat with your wife for her sister that is low profile!You need to think this over and how this will afect you
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reader, lildeesbg +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Well lets be real here... its not practical at all! It is one thing to fall out of love for your wife and divorce but its another thing to be with her sister. That is double/triple the pain for your wife... You cant be selfish! This is a line you can not cross. Even if you could be with her think of all the problems that would cause. Hopefully you cant bring yourself to be the man to cause all the pain and trouble.
Why dont you find out why all of a sudden your feelings for the sister are like this? Could it be something thats lacking in your marriage? Is it purely sexual attraction to the sister?
Maybe you should start thinking differently about your wife and your marriage. Things happen for a reason and for whatever the reason you didnt marry the sister! You found something in your wife that made you happy and that shouldnt be ignored because you want to sleep with your wifes sister.
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