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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I want my wife to understand that I think she's loveable and beautiful, but she has terrible self-esteem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - My wife has such esteem issues from her ex-husband. They were married 15 years, 3 kids. She was a beautiful athletic build, a hottie when she was young. He broke her down so bad she feels all men are the same. She feels like she is being judged and ...

I still have feelings for my married ex bf? Help me understand-why we see each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I have seen my ex boyfriend after 20 years hes still the same and we have had fun togther hes married though I dont know whats going to happen between us both.He has a small child also and hes doing well for himself too so why do we see each other ...

My husband told me he's "not in love" with me...how do I help us find that spark again? Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6899 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 3. He has recently announced he's not 'in love' with me anymore, he has just seen me as a best mate for the past few months. We are still living together, but in seperate rooms. ...

I witnessed him flirting with a woman at his workplace-he saw me too and ignored me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married over 5 years with 2 young children. Need advice. I thought our relationship was very good, excellent in fact. We communicate, we're honest, and respectful to each other. Except for something I witnessed today. ...

My husband refuses to stand up for me after his cousin and I argued. I am heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I love my husband dearly we have been married for only 3 months, but recently his cousin and I got into an argument. I had asked my husband not to bring him to my home until he apologizes to me for going too far. I will not do it and he told me ...

I still have feelings for my ex who is the Mother of my sons. But I'm married now to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6899 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My Xwife and i were married at a young age. We were married for six years and together maybe 2 yrs of the six.Currently we have been divorced for 9 years and I am currently married to another for 8yrs.I am not happy in my marriage and find that I ...

I feel terrible about my past bad choices, and thinking about what I've done hurts my wife, too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6892 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - I hope we can get some help here. I am married about 6 months. We are in our fortys and in our second marriages. We are sure we are perfect for each other in all ways. Our problems stem from my past before marriage about 20 years ago. I lived fo...

Should I leave him as he doesn't want sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for one and a half years now, and for the past 3 months he has refused to have sex with me. He is pleasant and cuddles and sleeps in the same bed. But no sex? I am confused and very very sad. Should I leave him? ...

I left my wife and kids...and now they won't talk to me! How do I sort this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I am leaving a very unhappy marriage after many years which was very unemotional. I moved out of the family home a few months ago, but have not had the kids staying at my house. I spend all weekend and many nights at the old martial home. I am try...

My wife sleeps on the couch and we haven't had sex in a year..what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 3 years,she sleeps on the couch or with the grandson instead of with me, we haven't had sex in about a year,and before that average was every six months after first year. We don't do anything outside of the h...

The other woman showed me his love letters to her..to prove the affair and he still denied it! How do I get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - My partner had an affair about 2 years ago. Even when she gave me all the letters my partner had written to her he still denied it saying that she had written them to get him into trouble and used to get really annoyed if I questioned him. Even ...

Why do some people treat a divorced woman differently? I get bad vibes around other married woman. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - hi, i'm going through a divorce and have met a man whom i got very strong body laguage signs that he was interested in me. i just moved into the same neighborhood as him, he's single with a kid he's raising. i guess i'm not sure if i feel like i s...

My husband chooses his friends over me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been with my husband for 6 years and married for one year. I love my husband and he loves me. We have lots of friends and everyone gets along really well. However my husband seems to have four other guy friends, that I can't get along ...

Neither my wife nor I can stand the idea that each of us was once with other people!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6902 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - I need help. My wife and I are in our forties. We are both in our 2nd marriages. Just the mention of her telling me she was at the same resturant as when she dated someone gives me this sick feeling inside. I was married for a long time before b...

We are back together and my life is a living hell! Not sure how much longer I can take this..help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

27 January 2006 (?) - My husband and I were separated because I cheated on him but now we're back together. My life is a living hell, he has talked to other people and we have no trust in each other. We have 2 children and I don't want to hurt them, but I don't know ...

She doesn't look as good as I first thought so what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - Hi..! I got married around one year ago. We had an arranged marraige. I met my wife just once and she looked very impressive and gud looking to me. Good looks were always a priority for me over anything else. We met around 3 times before formally ...

He said he will leave with my son...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6904 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - what do you do when your husband tells you that you cant go out and if you do, he will leave and take your son?...

Husband warned me it was low but not "zero" low.. ! Is a f*** buddy the answer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - My husband doesn't want sex, he warned me when we first met he had a low sex drive but I really didn't think he actually meant non-existant! I am suprised I ever managed to concieve our child. I have tried everything sexy undies, romance,...

Visions of her past sexual history haunt me..it's a serious problem and I need specific advice.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - How do I get over my wife's sexual history? Please be specific. I don't need any comments stating to "just get over it," or the "past is the past." I'm well aware of these things, but I just can't. I made the mistake of asking about her past, and ...

My husband had an "email affair" (maybe more?) and not sure I'll ever get over it...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - This happened a few years ago but there are times it comes back to haunt me. My husband had an 'emotional' affair. This all started happening when our kids were 6 and 2. He always talked about "Kim" at work...she's so nice, blah, blah. I always ...

I'd really rather not discuss my sexual past with my wife, but she insists on details and it's hurting both of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - I am married 8 mounths to a great woman. She is truly a great wife. We are in our second marriages, mine a 20 year and hers was 15. She has 3 children, I have 3 and we have one on the way between us both. Great life, right? But when it comes to...

I love my husband but I can't stop thinking about this girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6907 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I am a 31 year old female married with a 5 year old daughter. I am only married because I wanted a child and because of family pressure. I love my husband very much but more as a friend and not a lover. I have known for a very long time that I am ...

An eye for an eye... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I'm having heavy petting sessions with a married associate of my ex-husband's. They are okay associates. My ex and I are working on reconciliation in regards to our relationship. What troubles me is that I enjoy the other guy's company both ...

My husband isn't attracted to me any more. What can I do to improve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6907 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - I really need advice as to what I could do to make myself more attractive to my husband as he is no longer as attracted to me. I have asked him but he seems to be too embarrassed to tell me....or thinks he will upset me. Any ideas?...

My husband regularly looks at pornographic images of women being tortured! Is there something wrong with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - My husband uses scary s and m porn daily, has sex with me a couple of times a month. He's always had porn stashes. A couple of years ago I installed a "spy" type of software, checking up on my teenager. What I found was that my husband daily looks ...

What should I do if I think my husband is cheating? Any signs to look out for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I think my husband may be having an affair. How can I tell, or what should I do?...

My wife and I had a wild fight on New Year's Eve and ended up in court. Will things ever be the same between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6908 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - on new years eve i had a wild fight with my wife and we both ended up in court. we have only spoken tywice since and she blames me for everything. Will we get back together ? Or should struggle against the pain and let her go....

I've fallen in love with my married co-worker. I don't think she'll leave her husband, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

19 January 2006 (M) - I have fallen in love with the woman i work with. We chat a lot and we can tell each other anything. She knows things about me that i've never told anyone else. Problem is she's married. Things are not that rosy between her and her husband, but i ...

He cheated and we worked through it. Then I cheated too and my husband walked out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I really need your advice. My life is such a mess. I'm married to the man of my dreams but we have been seperated for about two months. The seperation was hard for me to take and still is, to the extent where I tried to take my own life. I even saw ...

My husband is cold, tetchy and always has to have the last word. I'm so unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6904 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - I am very unhappy in my marriage. My husband is cold and we have no physical contact, not even a hug from him. He is hardly ever in the wrong. He seems to take great delight in outwitting me in conversations and always has to have the last word. ...

Hubby's not attracted to me, and he's not shy about telling me what I lack!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - My husband doesn't find me phyically attractive but says hes attracted to me because of the person I am and that he loves me. Should I not worry about this? I have done evrything I can think of to be attractive to him but he prefers a woman in her ...

The man my parents chose to be my husband won't show any respect to them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6909 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I had an arranged marriage. I got married about 4 years ago. We have been living together for 2.5 years since he was in school when we got married. My problem is hurting me. My husband does not like my parents. My parents gave us...

My husband still calls the mother of his adult children (I'm not talking about myself!), and they exchange "I love you's." Is this appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6912 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - Hello! I've been married just three years (2nd marriage), his first marriage. However, he has had numerous lovers before me. Those affairs produce 2 children by 1 woman. They are adult children. Every time he calls each one of them, they alw...

I feel so betrayed and hurt after my pregnant wife of 4 months left me on the day after Xmas...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6912 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been betrayed by my wife. I have only been married for 4 months, of which my wife left me the day after Christmas. The reason she give me was I was too affectionate and "in her face"; always wanting close intimate (you know what I m...

Her insecurity is driving me out of my mind...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6913 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Please help , I am in desperate need of some advice, my wife is very in-secure and refuses to get help. We have been married for 6 months and there have been always been issues and problems, even 4 months before getting married. I have known my wi...

My husband does not show that he cares and I'm lonely...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I am 26 years old. I have been married for 6 years with 2 beautiful daughters aged 5 and 2. My husband does not show any signs of affection, he is not communicating with me even though I attempt to talk to him. I have been interested in having ...

I am having sex with the new CEO of my company...and loving it! But I'm married, and I think my husband has caught on...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6830 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 45 y/o white married female. Six months ago my company hired a new CFO who is African American. After one month of working with him we have some type of sex almost every day. I love it from him and can not get enough of IT from ...

I've tried buying condoms and sexy underwear, but my husband just isn't interested in sex! He says that cuddling and making love are nasty... Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6913 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - i am living in a sexless marriage. my husband doesnt seem to have a sex drive at all. the last time we had sex was last august and then he went limp after a couple of minutes after we tried. the time before that was february - ive tried buying ...

We moved to Florida because we thought it would help, but my wife now hates everything about her life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6914 days ago

16 January 2006 (M) - We have been married for 6 years and we have a 5 year old daughter. This is my 2nd marriage and my wife's 3rd marriage. Our ages are 42 for myself and my wife is 38. The first 5 years of our marriage was simply put was outstanding! This past yea...

Been married 25 years. Husband is a liar and a porn-guy, but I hate thought of my kids dealing with divorce...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I have been married 25 years and have had enough. I have put up with so much in my marriage, the first year he cheated on me. He says nothing happened but with all I have seen during the years I know he is a wonderful liar. He has a porn problem and ...

I feel traped but how do I leave him when he hasn't done anything wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I have been married for a little over 2 years. My husband is sweet, loyal, and there are things about him that I love, but I don't think I am in love with him. I have more fun out with the girls at the bar laughing, flirting,..etc. I am ashamed to ...

How can I change my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6916 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I am pregnant with my second child, in debt and away from my family. My husband is not happy and we live like roommates and have been for a long while. I am so tired of not having healthy love in my life, what am I to do? I have no where to go....

Feel let down that my husband has gotten lazy, fat and less attractive since we married! I haven't so why has he?

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 1084 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Short Version: If I am taking pride in my physical being-looking after my health and wellbeing as well as my sexual attractiveness for my husband then is it wrong to expect him to do the same? He disapproves of other women "letting themselves go" ...

As a married person should you feel guilt for being attracted to others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

14 January 2006 (M) - What is considered normal as far as being atracted to others while married? Should a person feel guilty about being married and still feeling drawn to somebody else from time to time. Not acting on the feeling, just enjoying it. Is it normal t...

Have kids. Had an affair. Split up with wife. Got back together. Had another affair: Resulted in baby... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 January 2006 (M) - I am in a dreadful state. 6 years ago I fell in love with a younger woman (14 years) and my marriage of 13 years nearly broke up. However, the affair ended and I returned home to make a go of it, with my wife and 2 kids (then 8 and 6). However, we ...

He doesn't want to give up on their friendship but its hurting our marriage...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6914 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - Hello, I have a problem. My husband has friend who is a married female. They call each other several times a day and when I was away at a conference they talked often and evenmet to discuss the fact that I did not like thir friendship. He ...

My husband and I are separated. I'm seeing my ex-boyfriend, who is engaged. I love my ex...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - hello. i need help. my husband and i separated in march (10 months ago), because he was talking to other females and lying to me about it. we argued all the time, finally i left. in april i started seeing an ex boyfriend, but the problem is he is ...

Married for 15 years but have a schoolgirl-like crush on a younger colleague... Is this cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

13 January 2006 (F) - I have been married for 15 years to my highschool sweetheart and have a great marriage and we have to small kids under 7. I love him with all my heart and could not imagine a life with out him. But, there is a guy who I work with alot and I had a ...

So I get friendly texts from a few women friends... I can't understand why my wife makes a big deal of it!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

13 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I just separated and I can't make sense of it. We had the best relationship but a couple of years ago I got close (not sexual) with someone else, mainly lots of sexy texts/e mails and a couple of dates- when my wife was pregnant and ...

Should I be trying harder with the (married) girl I met and fell in love with (online)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

13 January 2006 (M) - I met a girl online last January year that I quickly became good friends with. I thought she was very attractive, we shared the same sense of humor, but unfortunately, she has been married for 10 years and has 3 children. So I kept it strictly as ...