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writes: on new years eve i had a wild fight with my wife and we both ended up in court. we have only spoken tywice since and she blames me for everything. Will we get back together ? Or should struggle against the pain and let her go.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (22 January 2006):
 Sorry to hear of your troubles, but fights can get out of hand and arguments can degenerate into violence. These things happen, especially if you have two volatile personalities involved.
If you are even considering getting back together you will need to go to relationship counselling, or even anger management if this is a regular thing between the two of you. For it to go to court there has been some preety bad behaviour on both your parts!
Trouble is these sort of volatile relationships often end up with one or both partners being badly physically or mentally hurt, sometimes they can end in murder or manslaughter. If you thnk I am being overly dramatic just read the statistics. More often a murdered person knows their assailant or is in a relationship with them.
Please if you do get back together, get professional help before one of you becomes physically or psychologically damaged by all the drama.
Good Luck both of you with your future. x
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reader, dream_lover +, writes (21 January 2006):
 We are not mind readers here,we work with what we have.I don't know what happened why you ended up in court.But if you want her and she wants you you will have to work on geting back together.GOOD LUCK AND HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR BOTH OF YOU.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006): hi,
something like this happened to me and my husband only it was on our wedding night, i was black and blue , i called the police in fear as he tryed to leave me in the hotel with all the mess to deal with and i was terrified i made a statement against him he spent a whole night in the cells when i went to the station the next day he was in bits so i decided to forgive him ...
but the police took matters into there own hands and proceeded with evidence they conned out of me by lying to me , we are still together nearly a year later as the whole incident changed our lives , nothing like that has came close to happening since ...and although we occasionally feel pain for what happened, it gets less and more bearable, and we concenmtrate on the future because we love each other
if you love each other then maybe you can overcome it too
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006): Wow, husband and wife in court against each other. That is very new to me. I take it she sued you? There's a lot of info missing here, like why you two are at court.
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