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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Should I start the healing process and move on from this LDR which doesn't seem to be working out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy I met in college for almost 4 years now. We have in a good, stable, loving relationship. I'm an international student, so I had to leave upon my graduation. We're half a world away now. I have plans to go ba...

Is this relationship worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I like this guy. He has stole my heart. I've met him twice but we've talked. I know you probably think only twice! This kid tried to kiss me the first day I met him. He lives an hour away and doesn't own a cell phone only has a Facebook (thats how ...

Need advice on this relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - seeing if any of who could give me some advice or your own opinions on my situation. ok, so ive dated this girl for 2 and a half years. Right before she went to college we got into a huge fight, which was my fault, but she broke up with me. a few ...

I just want another chance, but how do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm sorry if this is a little long, so for those who have time to read it and give me advice - many thanks in advance. So, it's been about 4 months since my ex bf broke up with me. We started dating the summer before I went back to school for my l...

My hearts in prison, but I'm with my ex and our baby, am I committing a worse crime??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I haven't been on this site in a while, but now i'm in desperate need of it again. My situation is very unique. I fell head over heals in love with someone I met in my past that i've always loved. The thing is, he's in prison for 1...

Feeling really insecure about my boyfriend...should I talk to him about this?

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27 February 2011 (F) - Hi i have a boyfriend who i've been with for about 3 months now. but recently because he's started working full time and we live about an hour away from each other i only really see him on weekends. i'm fine with this i guess, i would like to see h...

We are very compatible but there are many obstacles

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I need advice regarding a relationship. I meet this man on-line and we seem to hit it off very well. He is very nice and we seem to have so much in common. Now here is the hard part.. The one draw back is that we live in two different cities. About ...

I'm in a long-distance relationship, but I have a crush on a good friend of mine. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship with a guy (J) I met online. We have been dating for a year and a half and I have known him for around 3+ years. We have made plans to meet early next year and we are both very busy working tow...

We are both unfaithful and he asked me to marry him what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I am a gorgeous girl who never lacks male attention, however, one year ago I met a man who I started dating long distance. We are in love, or so we say. He has children, I also have 1 child. We both have been dating other people since about the 2nd ...

He said he has slept with his girlfriend and only likes me as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - hello frinds ..im a 22 year old girl.I will first let you all know about myself AM a nice girl or say the good girl have never dated any guy in my life cos we were taught that husbands gonna be the only person in girls life . i have been a topper in ...

I'm uncertain about a LDR!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Help! I'm really new to my relationship with my boyfriend... We've known each other for three years now and we became a couple about 9 months ago. My concern is that I'm afraid of letting him go. By that I mean him going off to a different school, ...

LDR I get very upset when I don't hear from him and send not nice messages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hello dear agony aunts, I'm really confused about what to do.... I and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now. He's 15 years older than me, I'm 21. We are in a LDR, we've had lots of ups and downs in the past but we love each other so ...

I have just had a miscarriage and he told me he cant deal with this right now, and wants a break! Should I fight for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy on and off for two and a half years. Its' a long distance relationship, we live at opposite ends of the country, but we see each other as often as we can. I recently (in the last week) had a miscarraige we didnt know I ...

Was he inconsiderate? Or should I not complain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year (a long distance relationship most of the time - he travels a lot for work and his home is in another town) came over for a weekend. He usually will contribute something towards food and drinks as I do when I visit but this ...

Am I not a priority for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My partner of 2 years was transferred to work in another city (far from where I live) by his company 2 months ago. Prior to that we were living together and planning to get married. Lately he has been calling less and less. He said he can't ...

Long Distance Relationship. Help?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I,We are 17,we've been together since 2008, We are so in Love with each others, But there are so many problems, that might not make us stay together, for example: I am from Jordan, and hes from a diffrent country .. my parents ...

Is she just stressed out or is something more serious wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - I am in a long-distance relationship for 3 years. For the past 6 months we have been living long-distance. Two weeks ago I told her that we hadn't been talking or visiting enough. Then, I visit her (we live about 150 miles away) and she is crying. ...

Should I block him on Facebook and move on...????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I really need some advice. I met a guy a couple of months back, we started seeing each other until a couple of weeks ago. He is in the military and based 400 miles away. He did not want to have a long distance relationship as he thought ...

Boyfriend at uni 200 miles away and I rarely see him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend moved to uni, 200 miles from me.. ever since his been down ther ive always asked him to come down or ill go down to him.. its been 5months since he left and in that time ive only seen him twice... ive spoken to him about this and h...

I really like him and don't want to give up on him, but he is 300 miles away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I know that you always hear people say the long distance relationships dont work but ive met a boy that is perfect for me but he lives in ireland, we met on saturday night on chatroulette(i know) and we havent stopped talking since, last night was ...

How do I keep my LD boyfriend interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I need some advice...i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. (before i start i dont want any comments about our age and the fact im only 14 and about the distance. I get it a lot, i just need help) well anyway......my boyfriend and i have bee...

Finding it difficult to cope with a LDR

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - am in love with this guy,but the problem is that it is a distant relationship..... finding it very difficult to cope, we trust ourselves... we don't see each other....is there anything that could eliminate these??...

How to pave the path to the U.S for love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I am ManUnderEarth, my situation is really lil typical. I am of 23, and I am in love with a women of 35. and I am in India, she is in US. So I am really mad in her love. My problem is my family will never except this relation. and I fe...

What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...

Boyfriend of two years breaks up with me, saying he only sees me as a friend now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend of two years couldn't get alone better. We have so much in common and being together is when we were at our happiest. Now, this was online dating but we had been good friends before he asked me. He lives about two hours away, ...

Have we broken up? Something is different this time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - i been in a long distance relationship for about two and a half years. i text him eight weeks ago but didn't reply so i gave him space and couple of days ago i text him again but he hasn't replied.i dont know wether to give him space or should i ask ...

Lack of trust has caused my boyfriend to have tight grip on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone I truly do care about. We talk about the future, and he makes it clear that the our bond is not about sex. Unfortunately, in the beginning of our relationship, when it began to bud from a friendship ...

Did I mess this up? Or is he afraid of being hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Here is the background: I met this guy who's different than anyone I've ever known. I feel lucky to have met him. We both really like each other. We appreciate each other's humor, interests, differences, etc. We also have amazing chemistry. We ...

Pretty sure she's cheating, but need to know for sure before I can move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - So i have a bit of a problem. my ex and i have been trying to get back together for about 2 months now. The thing is she is about to move away for college and we will not see each other anymore since shes moving all the way to the other side of the ...

Does he just have cold feet, or is the 'break' a huge red flag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - i and my fiace's been engaged since sept 2009.(been together since sept 2006). He's 27,soon to be 28. I am originally from japan and there were some time we were in the long distance in the past. I moved to australia to be with him about 3 years ...

He's so focussed on the sexual side of the relationship that I almost want out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - so im a pretty young woman with a boyfriend of almost a year now. he is funny and sweet but when we are together its all about sexual things. we don't get to see one another very often (long distance relationship) so i understand that he may want me ...

He sent me flowers on Valentine's day. Is it too much to think this means something? Is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I met this guy on a dating website almost a year now. We're talking as friends, nothing serious. He sent me flowers on Valentine's Day although we live in two different continents. Does this mean anything? I really like him, but I'm just worried to ...

He has moved away and already seems to not care as much about me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year, moved away to the province next to me two days ago for work. I asked him if he wanted to break up but he did not want to. But already I am feeling really insecure about our relationship. When we were together we were so close ...

He's pushing me to go out with others, but how can I get him to try to make 'us' work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - i'm sorry it's long but i really really need advice and help on this, so can you please help me, i would really appreciate it. my ex broke up with me through a text saying that i couldnt fix it and that he was sorry and he loved me to but that...

I don't want this guilt to be hanging over my head. How do I get rid of it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years and I am very much in love with her. She took a job in a different state 5 months ago but we both still wanted to stay together. Last night, at a local bar after having way too much to drink, I ...

Do you think it's my fault for them "breaking" their friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Dear all, I'm in need of some outside input! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years and 4 of them were long distance. I'm not talking city to city long distance, I'm talking halfway around the world long distance. I know...

The girl who meant more to me than anyone else is back in my life...but I don't know how to take it from here. Pursue her or let it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I am writing this because I am extremely confused and upset right now. It is now 6:15 AM, and I have been up due to the fact that I cannot get these thoughts out of my head. Basically I had some “occurrences” with a girl I used to talk to last year, ...

Now that my b/f has had sex I'm scared he'll want more and I'm not there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hey Guys....plzz i need some seriouse help! okay, so im dating this guy. He's realli sweet and perfect for me! I love him sooo much. We already had sex and all, and we're still together. But then somthing bad happened with my dad, and we had to mo...

My boy friend has proposed. What age can we marry in UK ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a bit now... He's 16 and i'm 14 :). He's going into the army soon and he has proposed to me. I said yes because i thought it was right :) . the only thing is i don't know how to tell my parents and ...

I am gutted. Is he fobbing me off, for doubting him? Or is he angry with me? Or is it over

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Been going out with my fella for 6 months now and we just had our first fall out - need to say sorry which i have done several times - don't know what else to do he sent me a today to say he can't come sunday - was gutted as i only see him once a we...

We talk a lot. He makes suggestive remarks. Is this guy's behavior weird? Or does he like ne?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I have bit of a dilemma and not totally sure how to move forward with it. I have become very close to a male friend, who I have known for years and currently lives at the opposite end of the country to me. We talk every day on the phone for ove...

Is it possible to break up because of distance and get back together after several years?

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18 February 2011 (F) - i met my bf online and we fell in love. but we live on opposite ends of the country, and we're going to stay physically apart for another 4-5 years definitely. so even tho we still love each other, we decided to break up on good terms because at ...

Long distance love??

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18 February 2011 (M) - Well here is my story...its a little long but please!! read! :) I met a girl back when i was 16, she was 15...We were instantly attracted to each other..for a whole month we would spend so much time together, whenever i was with her it felt surr...

He's moved to Europe and I don't know whether I like him any more...

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18 February 2011 (F) - Right im really confused my boyfriend and i live in different countries and i well were in the same time zone for now but i really dont know what to do because he is moving to europe which is really far away. I'm confused because i dont know whether ...

Do I let go of my b/f of seven years who cheats?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - hi, well am 25 and in a little dilemma...am sorry my email is going to be a little long so as for the one who answers it knows exactly what is happening.. i have been on and off with this guy for 7 years now. we were good until i had to go off to ...

My parents don't think he's good enough for me. How do I approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Ok - my b/f and I have been dating a little over 4 years, we met in college. We've already decided that we want to marry, but we're not ready yet because of our job situation. Since graduating, I have returned home and am living with my parents. I'm ...

Things aren't the same between us, do I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - hello I have a question and I feel so confused I've had this bf for 7 yrs; we do not live together I'm 30 hes 42 i loved him with all my heart and soul. He went away to another state for work and came back after almost 2 yrs while he was out of ...

Is it normal to need time to get used to my boyfriend after being apart for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I am in a LDR for over 2 years, we see each other every 4 months and when we are apart, we are constantly on Skype (we probably talk an avarage of 4 hours a day on week days and probably the double of that on weekends). We miss each other like crazy ...

We hardly see each other, and every time we do, he starts a fight! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we have been working faithfully at keeping our relationship together and it's been a success as we live so far apart. We see each other every two months and the day before he leaves, for no reason ...

My boyfriend is in the air force. How do I cope with the long distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is in the air force and lately I just don't feel happy. I feel stressed and I miss him and life just sucks here with out him. When ever we talk this last week it just seems like there is something that always goes wrong and it gets ...