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*eminaJackson321
writes:Hey Guys....plzz i need some seriouse help!okay, so im dating this guy. He's realli sweet and perfect for me! I love him sooo much. We already had sex and all, and we're still together. But then somthing bad happened with my dad, and we had to move. I used to live in west afirca...but now i live in america! Like the farthest place to live in from there! So we're still together and i kno he loves me...but i just dont kno if he can hold it and wait for me. He's a sixteen year old boy....and he used to be a virgin and so was i. But i feel that now tht he's had sex...he will be wanting more. I kno he's not the type of guy tht wud cheat on me...but my mom always told me that i should never ever trust a guy! So after like 3 weeks...him and his best friend go out to clubs and restuarants with these three girls. and theres thre of the guys. What do you guys think was happening ther?? and in the pics...it looks like the girl likes him! and hes like realli cute! cuter than the other guys! so what now! And like he goes clubbing every weekend...and when i was ther we never went clubbing!! just today he told me tht theyy went out dansing...and he said tht i was no fun without me ther!...nd blah blah blah1 and he's not having ani fun. But then i told him to just have fun...and that he should danse. And then he said...trust me i did...i dansed wth the finest chick in the house...bt it still wasnt fun! and then he added the most random part...he said his "thing" dint even go up when he was dansing with her...does that mean they were grinding!!??!! i kno grinding is not tht bad...but it still hurts!!...alott!!And like..he's always saying tht he's scared tht imma cheat on him becuz im in america...and tht he dsnt trust wat i do! and every time i go out...he says be carefull!! i heard tht when a guy does tht...its to cover up his own guilt!?! He's always saying tht he's sooo commited to this relationship...and i believe him...but not when he's always saying it! I devote my life to this guy! everything i do....i do for him! im always constantly thinking about him! and i cant look at my self with any other guys! i just cant! I think i might be thinkin bout him a lil too much...i might even be letting my grades slip for this guy! in class i dnt pay attetion...and i always put him b4 everything! sometimes i dont even eat becuz of him! Whe i get home i used to do my hw frst b4 anithing...bt now...i chat with him...i call him...i write letters for him! alll the time!! And another thing...is it fair tht im always the one who has to call him?? i call him like all the time...nd i waste my creadit...run up the phone bill...but i dnt care! my mom will kill me...but hey...id rather tlk to my bf!! Whenevr we txt...he's always the one to say goodbye! he says things like.."alryt well..you seem kinda tired...so ill ttyl" when im not even tired!!! or..."imma let you be...cuz you seem like u dnt wanna tlk to me" when the last thig i said to him was " awwn i love you too baby!" And i just dont kno man!!....it seems like ever since i left...he's been havning a lot more fun then when i was ther!So my main questions are:Do you thinks he's cheeting on meh?Should i be mad at him??Are long distances healthy? Should i just give up on this relationship and move on? And let him move on...for his sake...and health??Plzz plzz plzz!! i need help! am i just waystin ma life??
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reader, JeminaJackson321 +, writes (21 February 2011):
JeminaJackson321 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou really think soo!?!?aww...thanks soo much for the advice yo!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): Yes move on! this guy is not serious about you. Going clubbing every night, dancing close to females. Even saying he did not get an erection that time, meaning he has many times before when out clubbing. This guy bad news
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