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writes: seeing if any of who could give me some advice or your own opinions on my situation. ok, so ive dated this girl for 2 and a half years. Right before she went to college we got into a huge fight, which was my fault, but she broke up with me. a few days later we were back to normal and acting like usual, but we didnt go out. anyway she goes away to school and it flipped upside down. she tore my heart out. we hung out often still, but ALOT of fighting. christmas break comes and we were inseprable. then we decided to date again. she went back up to school and everything was good. we talked everday and hung out on weekends. then a few weeks pass and she breaks up with me. she claims that shes just not in love with me anymore. but she still wants to be friends. its almost been a moth and we havent talked to each other. Ive been feeling horrible. all i want to do is talk to her, but im afraid if she doesnt respond or if she does, im afraid of what she will say. I really love her so much. but i dont know what i should do. PLEASE HELP!!!
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (1 March 2011):
Text her. Just see how she is feeling. But if she doesn't love you anymore you can't force her or change her feelings. Perhaps she ended it abruptly so she didn't wanna see that she hurt you.
Ask her if there is any future for you both, if she ignores you or says No, don't go chasing her. She has made up her mind. I'm sorry to say it but walk on. Find someone else.
Hope this helps =)
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