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*izzaguy
writes:Well here is my story...its a little long but please!! read! :)I met a girl back when i was 16, she was 15...We were instantly attracted to each other..for a whole month we would spend so much time together, whenever i was with her it felt surreal...i t was crazy how happy this girl made me... and i ended up asking her to be my girlfriend and she said yes. We dated for 9 months and we were truly in love...Everything was perfect until we both found out she was moving thousands and thousands of miles away. IT was terrible, we were SO in love, we did not want to let go of each others...the day before she left we cried...we cried all day..and sweared that we would be together forever.Ok now to present day, I have been with this girl since August 2008..about 2.5 years..most of that 2.5 years has been long distance..we still call everyday, i have visited her twice...we have had some fights, but what is a relationship without fights? We are currently still in love..but i dont know when we are going to be able to be together..Im about to turn 19 and she is about to turn 18.We have been talking about dating other people in the mean while, because we agreed that it wasnt healthy for us to just not see anyone for maybe another 3-5 years..We agreed last night that we are offically on a "break" and that we are aloud to see other people.But im honestly scared....i cant imagine her with anyone else..i really cant and the last thing i want is to lose her...i would never be able to get over that if it happens..She says she misses having a boyfriend and that she feels lonely...but she also tells me that she loves me with all her heart. here is one if the things she told me recently"were in love and everything will definitely work out, believe me. I really want you to see how the dating life is, maybe we'd appreciate each other more after we see how idiotic everyone else is. I cant wait until we are together, that is going to be the best day of my entire life, but in the mean time lets be our own selves for a while, because we will be a couple our entire lives"...this is what she told me recently..what do you guys think?? I know i will be with her one day..im just scared that if she meets someone nice that she might start to like him and blah blah..i dont want her to grow apart from me. So what do you guys think? You think that we will be togetheher in the future?? Will these other people affect our relationship??? Any advice will be awesome..thanks!
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