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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My boyfriend will be gone for a year and wants to be free to date while he is gone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Why does he want to see other people while he is away and should i agree to it? Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years, and are really close and hardly ever argue. However he has gone to study for a year in Australia and I live in En...

How do I know if he is in love with me? Is it worth giving up everything to be with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend does not love me enough. We are currently in a long distance relationship, and I am willing to change my whole life to move in with him, but he does not seem to be doing anything for me. I know love is all about giving, ...

I need more than a phone to hold at night, I need for HIM to be here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm really scared for no reason, I guess my fiance went through depression and we have an off and on long distance relationship and we were supposed to get married this month but he wanted to save up some more money but I know that's the level ...

Is it ok to carry on with the distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend but we are seperated by distance it is okay to continue...

Does he like me, or is it just him being friendly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - A guy I recently met through a friend is a super nice and caring guy. I spent a weekend out at the lake with a group of friends, he was there. I live pretty far away, so I don't get to see them often. When I got home I wanted to write him a note ...

Girlfriend going overseas, can I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a Girlfriend going overseas for 1 year she is 20 im 27 i told her i may visit her for a few weeks, she told me she wants to go overseas to be independant and work and visit friends. I have been going out with her for 3 mo...

I want him to sleep in my room, with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I need your help on how to tacticly approach a situation. I am 19 and my boyfriend is coming up (from the other end of the country, we met at uni) in a few weeks. Now my stepbrother has just moved back in with us so there is nowhere for my b...

He wants me to emigrate, but i'm not sure i want to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend emigrated about 4 months ago to Australia and I love him very much. I'm 36 and he wants me to live with him out there but I cannot imagine not living in the UK as there is a great deal about this country that is lovely - although I ...

I saw a suspicious message on my wife's phone but she swears there's nothing in it; how can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - hi i'm having trouble with my wife, she doesnt live in the states she lives with my son currently 2thousand miles away, i saw a message on her cell phone from a guy friend of hers saying love you horney. and since then i have trouble trusting her, ...

My daughter was seduced by her female college professor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - My 18 year old daughter has been seduced by a 33 year od female member of staff at her college. My daughter denied that anything had gone on between them until she was 18. I do not believe this is true. The college sacked the member of staff but the ...

My fiancee wants me to move to where he is and I want him to move to where I am

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - i am 21 in august. i am pregnant and due in oct. my problem is, my fiance wants me to move to where he stays which is a wee bit away from all my family and friends. i dont know what to do. i know we would be better off staying with my family ...

My fiancee keeps threatening to break up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - My fiancee keeps threatening to end the relationship if he doesnt have things his way. We have been together for 4 yrs. Recently, he found out about that his job has an opening in a diff country, and Im not in favor for this because just 6mt...

After a week of no contact she texted me! Now I feel I have a little control, but how do I handle it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - Hi, only me again. Just wanted to repost my recent update as a question, because there has been some development with my situation: (Also, quickly for those of you who don't know me: I was in a long distance relationship of 240 miles for 2 ...

She does not call me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - I'm not enjoyin my 1yr 5months relationship. Cos she does not call me and show care, and if i complain to her about it she said no call card also threaten not to pick my call if i complian again. I don't know maybe she love me or playin games on me, ...

She didnt tell me about being in contact with her ex's should I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - I'm 20, with a girlfriend (lets call her K). We've been dating for 7 months and a month ago began a long distance relationship. I love her to death and she acts the same way towards me. If anything I think she cares more. Never would I assume she ...

My Russian girlfriend is going away on holiday with another guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hi, I have a Russian girlfriend who is about to go away on holiday with a male long term friend! Do you think that I should be cool about this? ...

How far is considered long distance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hey all, Just curious to see what people class as a long distance relationship. In terms of travelling 1,2,3hrs.....away? ...

Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...

How can I stop hating my boyfriend when he's away? I love him to pieces when we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - when ever my bf is at home (we long distance) i start to hate him every small thing he does i hate him for. if he forgets to put xxx in his texts i hate him. when he tells me he be online when he knows im at work i hate him. when he takes 6 weeks to ...

I confided to someone on MySpace that my boyfriend and I weren't doing so well and he dumped me for telling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - hi, my boyfriend broke up with me because i wrote to a friend on myspace that were not doing so well he got upset that i put our business out like that, i understand it was wrong but not such a big deal he still calls to say i miss u and the other ...

We met up and became intimate, then a few months later, he called it off; what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I met a man a little more than half a year ago. We live very far from each others, but he was very keen on getting to know me and would call me every day. After a month he traveled to see me again for about a week. During this week we became closer ...

He always treated me different from other girls but we've never really dated; he moved away for a job and we now don't speak as often. I love him, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - hi all the guy im in love with is birthday today...but i aint wished him happy birthday he has never told me when his bday is and i've never told him when mine is. i only know because he sent his cv to me to check over about 6months ago and...

We are in a lond distance relationship, but i think he talks to others.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. But, I susspect that he talks to other girls on the phone when he is not talking to me. I also think that he is interchanging text, message too. Which I think is very disrespe...

Would it be a sin or illegal to be with my first cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - Ok, over the past few years me and my first cousin and i have gone really close and want to go further she lives kind of far and we talk time to time but i am afrain my family will not accept me. What should i do? and also is this a sin if we have ...

Tired Of Girlfriend Treating Me More Like A Mate Then A Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

22 July 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfrend of 8 months are going through a difficult time. I love her and I know she loves me. Its been difficult seeing each other recently, due to the fact that we are students on summer break and live 2 half hours from each other. Prior ...

Why is everyone so negative about long distance relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

22 July 2007 (F) - Hi! I wondered something while reading the questions and answers here...why do most answerers automatically say long distance relationships can't work and that the poster should go out and meet someone in there area. Thats not true,some LD's do work,...

How can i surprise my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

21 July 2007 (M) - Hey, I'm almost back from Portugal and I want to suprise my gf. We have been away from each other for a year when i get back, and I want to thank her for holding on. Anyone have any good ideas on how to suprise her when I get back? Or any good da...

My online romance doesn't love her husband but I feel like I don't compare

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

21 July 2007 (M) - I am 21, living with my parents, working full-time, and a college student. I only have a few friends to start off because I enjoy being alone most of the time. I love spending time online. Because of that, I met this girl from another state, she's ...

If she hasn't slept with anyone what does "having demons" mean???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) - Here's the situation. My ex broke up with me after 6 years. I was gutted. She then started a long-distance relationship with a guy 2500 miles away. Anyway, it ended between them, badly I suppose. Make a long story short, we have been hanging out ...

Is this just lust or could the guy from work really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I'm seeing a guy from work who has a busy work schedule and I only see him when he is in the area on business. There is a strong attraction but I cant help but think has this got a future. Sometimes I feel like im settling for the crumbs off the ...

How do I have phone sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - How do I 'make love' to my girlfriend on the telphone? We have kissed each other this way. Has any other boyfriend done this with their long distance girlfriend?...

I'm having trouble getting over my ex girlfriend, how can I move on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - I'm having trouble getting over my ex girlfriend. We broke up over 15 months ago. I've dated a only few (less than 3) girls, but no-one compares to her. She recently met a guy and I know she's dating him, but I can stand it. How could I let her ...

I want to end it with her, but I'm not sure I could forgive myself for breaking her heart!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years. She absolutely adores me and would do anything for me. I love her, she is such a wonderful person. However, over the last year I've found myself less attracted to her and wanting to see what its lik...

How can I find out if my online guy loves me? I love him despite the distance and difference of religion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i never had a special boyfriend although i have been approached by a few guys. But, recently i met a guy on line, we first got to know each other from a epal club, after one month than we started chatting. Little did i expect that our relationship ...

My ex keeps giving me mixed signals - I've not done anything to deserve this, and it's just torture!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - Since mine and my Girlfriends long distance realtionship of 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago today, I can't help but hate how little contact I can make with her. For the first 2 weeks or so, I couldn't contact her due to her being on holiday. But since ...

Is it possible she is jealous I got a housemate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

16 July 2007 (?) - Female vs Female relationship. I am in love with my best friend. We are seperated by about 1300 miles. She knows how I feel as I have told her. She is unhappily married (no lectures please) anyway I am convinced she feels the same way about me even ...

We're not exactly dating but I'm not sure if he really cares for me, he kissed another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i have been kinda seeing this lad for 3 years, we are not going out because of the distance! and when we are together we dont go on the pull and that...how ever the other night we went out, everything was fine, i came back fro the bar, and he was ...

The man I'm dating lives 320 miles away from me, can this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

15 July 2007 (F) - hi, it's me again. Long distance relationships can they work? The man I like lives about 320 miles away from me. He said it's not a problem but this concerns me ....

How do I know if my online friend likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

15 July 2007 (M) - how do i know if the girl i like likes me back. o ya, im in california and shes in michigan so we only talk online now but we met face to face. it makes it really difficult. she just broke up with her boyfriend....

He tells me he doesn't know what missing someone is, he is an only child and spent years in a boarding school so he tells me he's content to be alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

14 July 2007 (F) - Hi! I've been chatting on the phone and through emails with a guy from NZ.. I'm in the US.. we met on myspace, and we really hit it off... He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy, intelligent, sexy, sweet, funny, independant... the list goe...

Do you think she will eventually get out of control and this will cause us more problems in the long run?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

13 July 2007 (M) - Hey my name is Andrew.I am currently in a Long distance relationship my girlfreind is in Canada and I am in Portugal.We have been 9 months apart so far and i will be back Oct1st 2007.We were recently talking about fights that we were having because ...

We argue when she goes out with her friends; now she says she'll see them less but I don't want her to say that because of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

13 July 2007 (M) - Hey my name is Andrew. I am currently in a Long distance relationship my girlfreind is in Canada and I am in Portugal. We have been 9 months apart so far and i will be back Oct 1st 2007. We were recently talking about fights that we were having ...

I love my guy but when we are away from each other over summer break I feel its ok to have sex with other guys.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) - ok so been with my man for almost 3yrs and we have gone our seperate ways on holiday for the summer i am completely in love with him and would never wanna lose him but wen ppl go away im a believer in the theory that different rules apply!i met a ...

What do I do to get back her interest and for her to fall in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

12 July 2007 (M) - I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years and she is already married to a man. My girlfriend and her husband married due to family pressures when they were young and there have never been any kind of relationship between them. Me ...

I havent heard from him in a week, did he lose interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

12 July 2007 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for a few years now, and he gave me his email and told me to keep in touch with him as I was leaving school for the summer. I emailed him a very quick message, just so he knows my email address, and he responded with ...

I have kept in contact with my ex, but lately he has been rude. Is it time to discontinue contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

12 July 2007 (F) - My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago. He moved to a different city quite a distance away and he can only keep in phone contact. I may call two to three times a year. Lately when I have called I have found him being a little rude and ...

Is a year too long to wait before I go visit my long-distance girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

12 July 2007 (M) - I now have a girlfriend in Ghana and we have been corresponding for about nine months. We have become very close. She is not very wealthy, so I have helped her out a bit. We have tried for her to come over to the UK but was turned down. I think I ...

My boyfriend is studying overseas and we barely get to see each other, how do I handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

12 July 2007 (F) - I don't want to make this long so here's the deal. I met my bf in December of 2005. We have been dating since. In September of last year (2006) he went away to med school in Israel for 4 years. The first year is almost up and it has been one of the ...

After moving away, I flirted with other men. My bf saw photos of it and is now distraught! How can I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 14 months. We have had an extremely tough time of it- we spent the first 4 months together, fell madly in love, and then I moved away but we decided to stay together. As a result, over the last year ...

Does anyone think there is even a chance that I can sway things around? Is distance really to blame, or has she fallen out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6335 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) - Questions below: My relationship ended a couple of weeks back after 2 happy years despite a distance of 240 miles. I'm finding it hard to accept. She was my first love, and everything seemed to be okay and then she suddenly split with me. How do ...