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writes:Me and my girlfrend of 8 months are going through a difficult time. I love her and I know she loves me. Its been difficult seeing each other recently, due to the fact that we are students on summer break and live 2 half hours from each other. Prior to seeing her this weekend, we were sending each other loads of texts to be blunt about how much sex were going to have, as we havent been able to on my previous visits due to various things. However, when I got there, for the weekend she was not her usual self, really blunt with me, (obviously i didnt get any! lol, but thats not the point, just wanted to spend some quality time with her). Had 'headaches', and just generally treated me like her friend than her boyfriend. We havent done it for a few months now, and im beginning to get annoyed that every time we try, she just stops and then an excuse pops up at the last second. I know a relationship shouldnt be based on sex (so please no lectures), but it is still important to express love sexually. But the main point here is I dont understand how she always tells me she wants it when I'm away, I come see her, and shes just unresponsive to me and it. But she in general is just winding me up, just CONSTANTLY and I mean CONSTANTLY whining about something or another. Its just ridiculous. She is my 1st LT girlfriend, do girls get like this after a while? Because I'm getting really tired of it really quickly. I almost ended things before I left but thought better of it at the last second. Sorry for the novel peeps!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 I'm with YummyMummy
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reader, blaz£  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 she obviously confussed about what she really wants.if shes asking for sex one minute but then not giving it she isnt sure how she feels.like she wants you to stay with her, wich is why your apart shell say about having sex but when your actually there she is confussed.talk to her about it and get to know her feelings. it will help a lot trust me.if this is ur first lt relationship work out what her feeling are. and go from there, youll know what to do once you know how she feelsgood luck hope you two make it:)
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Not all girls get like that after a while. I would talk to her about this and get her feelings on why she is acting the way she is.
Sex IS a big part of a relationship so I can see why your are upset about not getting any for a while.
Sit with her and chat in a non-judgemental way and ask her what's going on.
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