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writes:A guy I recently met through a friend is a super nice and caring guy. I spent a weekend out at the lake with a group of friends, he was there. I live pretty far away, so I don't get to see them often. When I got home I wanted to write him a note thanking him for being so nice to me and making me feel welcome with a bunch of new people. To my surprise he wrote back:"haha um i dont know bout me being super nice but u are like for sure the nicest person i've ever met and i hope u come back sometime...the lake was awesome but it wouldnt have been as fun if u wouldnt have been there but i guess take care and maybe i'll see again sometime"What is that supposed to mean? Does he like me, or is it just him being friendly? I wrote him a message back on Wed saying thanks and that I might be back in the area soon, but I haven't gotten any reply back which makes me think he is just being friendly and nothing more.What do you think of the situation?! I am confused! Thanks - AW Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): Ok, another by the poster, I have no idea if any of you check back on here or not, however, I sent him a friendly message as follows:Hey, how are ya? I figured I'd drop ya a line and see how you were and to tell you I am gracing your state with my presence as we speak! You are so lucky! I am gonna be in the area again for my cousins program. What kind of hell are you gonna be raising this weekend?But anyway, I don't know if you got my last message cause I never got anything back from you, thanks a lot! Haha, just kidding, but you're email was messed up or something last night, I was gonna send you a message then.Is that bad? I sent him that and all i got back was:what do u mean my email was messed up...but thats cool that your in nd again..anyways dont get in to much troubleSo... I am assuming that he is just being friendly... do you agree? Thanks! :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 Poster, go for him. Since you're going back to the area, that is the perfect excuse. Go, go go; take your chances on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): This is the question asker, and thank you so much to those who replied I really appreciate it! I didn't really think about liking him as more than a friend until I got his message. But, taking Lisa's advice, do you think it would be "too much" to write him a message? I want to avoid coming on too strong and desperate altogether!!! I don't want him to think I am that way. I would like to send him one though because I am going to be back in the area this weekend. Any other thoughts on this? Thank you so much who answer and have already! - AW
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (30 July 2007):
I think LisaXXXG has it just right. You obviously fancy him and your confusion comes from your hope that he fancies you, too. You need to know for sure early on, before you get too involved. My experience also is that you should always be bold to know, instead of agonizing over what might or might not be.
That said, I also think the signs are there, and I wish you all the luck in the world.
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reader, LISAXXXG  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 i think he does like you all the signs are there but maybe he is a bt embaressed about telling you how he felt and didn't think you wold reply why not write him another message just asking how he is and how things are going that way its a straight forward question that he should reply to if he does not write back then i think its time to move on and fnd some one else hun good luck
lisaxx
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reader, angel-kate +, writes (30 July 2007):
 you could ask your friends who were there with you, what they think. maybe he is a naturally nice person, but i think he took a liking to you!
like i said, ask your friends what they think, they proberly know him better then you do.
good luck xx
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