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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Can we make this work? Is it a healthy or a toxic relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - This relationship has me so confused that I can no longer think straight as the reality of what’s going on. I met my boyfriend about 3 years ago on an online dating website. We are both in our mid 20’s. We met each other after a week and he moved in ...

I'm ten weeks pregnant and now my Bf tells me he ''isn't sure'' about our relationship. How do I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has just told me he doesn't know if he loves me or wants to be with me. We have always known that we need to make more effort with each other, however which his lazy attitude he just never has. So I ...

When we travel my wife of 21 years changes and becomes easily offended when on vacations. What's the solution to this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

30 September 2015 (M) - I'm tired of traveling with my wife of 21 years who will ruin a trip by becoming over sensitive and easily offended by any little thing. Otherwise, she is a rough and tumble type that jokes around a lot and a lot of fun to be with. But on vacat...

How do I build myself to become someone likeable yet tough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Hello. Growing up, ive been rejected by many people, my peers, strangers, some teacherz because i was fat and shy. Now im older and some people still make me feel like i did when i was young. They still treat me like i cant think on my own ...

I am finally getting on with my life after a bad relatsionhip, but have concerns about the change in myself in increased low tolerance levels.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Dear all, this is not a relationship question, but it kind of is as it is to do with freinds and people. Please can you help me get some insight into this. Thank you in advance. I have recently come out of a bad relationship with a guy,( well abou...

My husband has started wetting the bed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

29 September 2015 (?) - My husband is 34 years old, for the past two months he has started bed wetting, he couldn't realize in sleep that his bladder is loosing control, at first i supported him, i told him its OK and all but in 2 months yesterday was the third time in ...

I'm not happy and his dog also causes me problems. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone Hope someone could give me some good advice me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 4 years we have a 2 year old and a 1 year old and he Has a dog a rottweiler that he had when we met we moved in together. He is at work all day ...

I've fallen in love with him, but I'm afraid I'm reading too much into things! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

28 September 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, I met an alcoholic guy back in May when I was in hospital with complications from my Diabetes and he was in for Liver problems. We were there together for about a week and, when we got out, we started hanging out together. Within...

I'm concerned that men my online 17 year old FWB meets will use her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

28 September 2015 (M) - hi so i have met a girl online, she is from another country and we became friends, she suffers from mild depression, but she is very nice and beautiful and i really like her, i wont say i love her because i know its not possible to fall in love onl...

Is it possible for someone to sleep 12 hours a day for weeks at a time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - Is it possible for someone to sleep 12 hours a day consistently for weeks??? He sleeps at 3am every night and doesn't wake up until 3pm or later in the afternoon! Then he takes his time to get up, shower, and go get food to eat. Then he rests a bit ...

I'm still dealing with the emotional trauma from a past rape but my boyfriend hasn't been understanding. Should I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - 2 years ago I was raped and recently I received a lot of compensation for what happened to me. I left my job I was in after I was raped as I worked in a Pawnbrokers and I had a lot of regular customers who were men, lots of them would try flirting ...

My siblings are attacking me for moving back home for 6 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and earn 100 euro a week and i suffer from severe stress anxiety and depression. I moved out from home one year ago to live with my fiance but our rent increased massively causing us to leave the home we made together, the rent rise was a ...

He dumped me and then died suddenly a week later, I'm hurting badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - He was my first love. He broke my heart and then he died one week later very suddenly. He ended things with me and I was crushed. He wanted to get back with his ex. I had moved to his city 3 months before our break up so I was especially hurt ...

Been divorced for ten years and happy now. But now my emotionally abusive ex wants to come back and live with me since the death of her partner. How do I refuse my ex-wife's request?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I have an ex wife who was continuously unfaithful to me and was abusive, she divorced me about 10 years ago. I have been much happier since our divorce. We have a daughter together who is now 17. She moved in with me about a year ago after confid...

My mother has many issues, but despite this I don't want her to live with me, due to her chosen lifestyle. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - About a week ago I came on here to ask a question. I apologize that I can't find it but I will explain it again. I have an emotionally abusive mother on drugs who unfortunately does not work or take care of herself. She had 2 weeks to move ou...

To love? Or to live? Or to leave? That is the question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years is seriously ill and this alone brings heartache because his life is inevitably shortened. I have offered him to move in with me but he likes to keep his own place and it does make financial matters easier to handle. H...

How can I learn to really stand up for myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I often let people run over me and talk to me any kind of way. Especially ones that are not my family. It's like my mind goes blank and I don't know what to say. It's like my mind runs scared. But I get disrespected to the point to where I want ...

In public I'm different. In private I'm unhappy and take it out on my elderly parents. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3350 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - Why do I get so irritable and shout at my parents? My life has really taken a turn for the worse. I was made redundant and running short of cash, I lost my boyfriend to another woman which I've never really got over and I have been diagnosed w...

Is it normal to still be so angry and hurt? Why can't I forget?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Well nearly a year after the split I'm still angry and hurt that my friend went off with my ex behind my back. I have tried to do all the things I should do - like no contact and blocking off social media - but it still hurts and I still ha...

How do I show my boyfriend my way is the best option? I want to clear my debts before we live together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - hi everyone. no 'attacking' please . ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have discussed future plans what we both want i already have a teen son and my boyf has no kids . at the beginning i was all up for having another baby but...

He talks about getting me pregnant, but is it just all talk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hi,(long story) im 23 and my guy is 19 yrs older. He uses the pull-out method. A few times he's came inside me. He askes about when im gonna have his baby. He says i hope you're ready to have a baby. But sometimes he says you better not get preg...

My insurance does not help with skin removal surgery after weight loss! I'm upset and unhappy with my body! Anyone have advice for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - I'm hoping someone has been through something like this and can help me out. I am a 28 y/o woman who has been severely obese since early teenage years. It wasn't until I was 25 that I had gastric bypass and have lost 250 pounds putting me now a...

It feels like he's distancing himself from me. How can I improve my relationship with my bf who has PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has PTSD from the war and he is hard to deal with. He gets mad at dumb things and always thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not I'm just chill or quiet or relaxing or thinking. If I talk too much he gets irrational especially in fr...

Problems with relationships in my family and not sure about my life decisions. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3353 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My life is a mess and i would like for things to change. I dont have a good relationship with my mother. My mother is against my father but i can communicate with my father even though sometimes i dont agree with his life choices. My father make...

My father is dying and his partner of 20 years is unsupportive! How do I help my dad?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - This is not a LOVE relationship issue but it is a relationship issue. I normally am the one to give advice but this is something I am willing to hear all sides on. Background: My dad is nearly 81 and he is dying. He has non-treatable meta...

Should I try to understand where he is coming from? Returning to my religion is important to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - I've been with my fiancé for 5years. Being financially stable is very important to him. This keeps him from wanting to wait to get married. We attempted to get married 2-3 years ago, but I didn't have any income cause my disability got cut off....

How do I stop obsessing over a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts. I've been talking to this guy online for the past couple of months. We get along great. Him and I message and call each other. I can tell he likes me. We live really far from each other. But talk on a daily basis. I've star...

I have developed this really bad phobia of marriage and relationships! Help me see reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hi! I had a very bad experience of my first marriage of 1 week! I asked for divorce and am still a virgin, that's how bad my experience was. Anyways my problem is that now I can't seem to trust anyone! Everyone says that not everyone is like your ...

Monday through Friday, he's the man I fell for. But Friday to Sunday, I don't recognise him! How do I get through to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - I'm worried about my boyfriend's drinking buy I have no idea how to get it through to him that he may have a problem. He is 13 years older, making him 37 and myself 24. We have been together for two years and although both families had an ...

I know asking him to move for us to be together is a Big Ask. He wants me to move. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3354 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a long distance relationship with a guy for the past year. It's been going great but we have reached the point where we are both missing each other and seeing each other weekends is not enough. We are looking to move ...

I don't want my bipolar and depressed mother to live with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - I have a 50 year old mother who has bipolar and depression. For the last 4 years she has stopped working and has really not been herself. She is a completely different person from when I was a young girl. My mother has asked me if she can move...

Should my Gf and I wait until we are married before we have sex? Don't want any unplanned pregnancy or any STD

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

20 September 2015 (M) - Hi, Im a 22yr old guy, looking for answers whether should I wait until marriage to have sex. Well, my 21yr old girlfriend and I are together for 3yrs already. We always maintained a platonic relationship until recently, where we had become more ...

I need some dating advice and some clues to help me decipher body language. Can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Hi guys and girls I am a female aspie (mildly autistic). I am hoping to get some dating advice here. Here's the thing, there's this cute guy at work, I totally have a crush on him. But having Aspergers, I am pretty bad at deciphering body language. ...

How can I stop feeling so needy, insecure and anxious, when I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

19 September 2015 (M) - Dear everyone Basically, i feel sad easily if the girl i like doesn't contact me. Since my last girlfriend broke up with me (and cheated on me) i've felt quite insecure. Whenever i feel something for a girl, i get upset and feel sad, unwanted et...

How can I make friends when I have no friends? I suffer from social anxiety.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

19 September 2015 (M) - I dropped out of university a few years ago, I feel it was the right decision and am going back as a mature student in a few years. I was suffering with social anxiety/depression at the time (have not seen a GP about this) and still have it today. ...

Porn is ruining our relationship. When we do have sex he cannot climax. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - Porn is ruining our relationship My problem is lack of sex. I crave sex all the time and so does my partner however he now has a smart phone with access to the internet. Im lucky if I get it once a month. Every morning he goes to the bathr...

He wants to break up so is saying I was not a virgin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3356 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - I m 21 year old...i have lost my virginity to one i loved...he was my first but even then he feels that my vagina was bit loose and he could penetrate easily(but i was virgin and had a lot of pain n even he couldnt penetrate so easily)..now he has ...

Can you face the thought of your partner dying without being upset?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - My partner will die unless he has an operation for his heart which he doesnt want to undergo.If i mention it he just dismisses it out of hand and as i know time is short i find it very stressful.It also feels rather like being permanently and ...

My body is "flat" and I feel a woman should look more womanly

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - I am a 25 year old woman. I have very small A cup breasts and absolutely no butt. I have a very 'flat' appearance to my body. I hate to say that I'm somewhat insecure and quite unhappy with my body. I find myself comparing myself to curvy women w...

I'm having trouble dealing with being an idiot after something horrific happened to me. How can I get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) - I'm having a bit of a problem with confidence at the moment and I don't know how to stop feeling so bad about myself. About two years ago I was raped and I started drinking quite a lot after it, even took drugs which I'm really ashamed of. Befo...

My boyfriend doesn't think I try hard enough. I'm afraid he'll leave me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I get in arguments that I don't try hard enough in life. I'm 24, I go to school, take 18 credits, have a part time job and in my free time do things like homework, draw and watch TV. Sometimes, I get lazy. I have clinical de...

I'm wondering why it is so hard for me to enjoy an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (?) - I apologize if this is TMI. I have been dating a wonderful man for several months now. I lost my virginity to him (and I was fairly old to be losing my virginity). I grew up with a significant amount of sexual shame and guilt. I masturbated mayb...

Am I stretching it too much by not taking recommendations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - Hello dear cupids, I am 24 yr old girl. I have completed my masters degree in life sciences. But after many trials and interviews I am still unemployed for 2 years. I don't want to take references and recommendations as I believe in my own ability. ...

Guy does lots of eye contact, but never start a conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - Hello, recently I've been thinking about this guy a lot, nonstop. I've liked this guy for years, but finally I decided to try to give him signs that I do like him. So a year ago, after I've worked on my confidence issues and tried to be more open ...

I love my partner but this is driving me away from him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

13 September 2015 (F) - Hi Can someone please give me some advice. I was in hospital a few months ago due to a breakdown from extreme stress, since then my partner has treated me differently. Before I had this breakdown my partner treated me as his equal and respected me...

How can I overcome, or at least manage, being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

12 September 2015 (F) - Dear cupid How do you overcome or at least manage being quite emotionally sensitive? I find every comment people make that could be interpreted badly plays on my mind for days afterwards. I even find relatively fickle things such as being dele...

He said the only thing that works for him is porn and now I don't want to have sex with him either! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I(both 22) started dating a year ago. I think that we both have a rather high sex drive and at the beginning sex was great. Unfortunately we had to go LDR for a few months and he started using antidepressant medication. W...

Who should I go to for mental health treatment, counselors or psychologists?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - Hello , First thanks for reading my post. I am interested to know about mental issue treatment. I cant go over my past. One of my family member hurt me badly in past I cant get over this. I cant move on. Which doctor I have to go to help me t...

Any input on contraceptives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - Which is the best contraception to take? I've tried a few and they either make me bleed forever on end or be physically sick. I need to start taking something that will help with my acne and very painful periods and to also make them lighter? Any ...

How do I encourage him to not just give up on us after the hell we've been through, and talk to me about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years recently ended our relationship really suddenly. I suspect he is extremely depressed with his job that he hates and consequently it affects other aspects of his life. He said that he ended it on the basis of some problems...