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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

How do I help my friend who has been drinking again and has started making unwanted sexual advances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

30 September 2013 (?) - Hello. I would appreciate advice on how to help my friend. I am a 26 year old female, and my friend is quite a bit older than me. He lives across the road from me, and I know he has struggled with alcohol issues in the past. He used to drink a ...

How can I make him understand that my life is not just an extension of his?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - I have been with my bf for about two years now when we met I had moved to the city and so didn't know anyone but my aunt here who's no help to me whatsoever. The problem is I haven't made any friends since we got together we do everything he wants ...

Need some advice regarding healthy food options to help with weight loss.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - Hi there, I wrote up last week about wanting to loose a stone quickly. Thanks for your advice I totally get where your all coming from. I just wondered if you could give me some advice on a controlled diet as, as usual people say eat salads but I ...

Does he really take Viagra just to masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I have been in Married 15 years. I love him very much. However, I found two times he took Viagra with him when he is a way for a long trip. First time I found he took about 2 pill, this time was half of the bill. Both times, I talked to him. I asked ...

Does a person show the "real" side of him or herself when drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - Just curious does anyone think that when a person is drunk they turn into the 'real' them?? not in a sense of sober they're nice and drunk they fight but in a sense where sober they're one way and drunk they flirt ALOT and say things that woul...

Yells, screams and is needlessly hostile to me. How do I deal with my BF when he is like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Needlessly hostile boyfriend, hard to deal with. I'm on my last nerve with my boyfriend, and I feel like I have no one else to turn to. We've been dating for over a year, and we're both 21. This weekend was supposed to be a good, fun couple of days ...

Feeling confused and upset. Was the unsuccessful sex, with my housemate and friend, his fault, my fault, the alcohol, or none of that, and why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - I'm 19 years old, my housemate (male) is the same age. I've never really been attracted to him really, he's always been "just a friend" Anyhow, we got REALLY drunk a few nights ago and ended up chatting until gone 4am when we went to his room. He...

How to overcome the lack of sex in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

28 September 2013 (M) - My spouse are both in our seventies and I still get the urge for sex, but because of her medical problems she's afraid to even try to have sex. She won't even let me touch her. We've been married for fifty years, it wouldn't make sense for me to ...

My home life is hell but I can't leave my mom. My life is not what I want it to be. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - This situation at home is making me so miserable I can't stand it anymore. Ok, I'm not a kid, but I can't move out of the house right now (I'll explain). I live in North Carolina with my mum and her adult son (who is a few years younger than me)...

My girlfriend is letting me go, while keeping her blood results secret. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

26 September 2013 (M) - So, I'm 30 and my girlfriend is 23, we live in different far countries, we've had plans of her coming over to stay with me on December, and getting married around next February, we've even managed her a job over here, and everything was working out ...

Boyfriend has become obsessed over his penis size and its ruining our sex lives!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - My partner has a real issue with the size of his penis to the point of obsession. I'm not innocent in this but I feel helpless as to how to sort it out, move on and heal our relationship if possible. We've been together 7 years and he's always ...

How can I lose 1 stone quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Whats the easiest way to loose roughly 1 stone quickly? I'm not majorly overweight or anything however I;ve put abit more on that I'd like to over this past month or so and would like to get back into the comfort zone. I'm not particualrly someone ...

Is it bad I stopped talking to my mom after my parents divorced?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - My parents are newly divorced, and I am still recovering from the hellish and nasty ordeal that it became. I tried to keep contact with my mother, but I am afraid of the depth of her emotion. My mom carries a lot of rage and pain inside, and it j...

Why do some people not have stretch marks?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - I have a question about stretch marks... How come some people don't have them? i've never seen the women in a porno have them, i know the pics are airbrushed but not the videos. Does anyone here not have them? I have them and it makes me feel li...

She had a breakdown when I was her advisor and now 6 years later, she's sending me very strange emails. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

24 September 2013 (M) - About six years ago I advised a graduate student from China who didn't do well in the lab and failed to complete her project. She left with a Master's degree but also went a little nuts when she was here. I had to take her to the Psych ward at the ...

I lost the love of my life and don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

24 September 2013 (M) - Hey Everyone, Where do I begin? I want to try to be as honest as I can so I'm trying to be fair to both the girl I love and myself. It's been almost a year since I lost the love of my life. And yet I simply can not move on. I have tried e...

Any tips on coping with body issues/insecurity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Any tips on coping with body issues/insecurity? In a couple months, I will be seeing a man I haven't seen in almost 20 years. We have been chatting a lot online, and I'm pretty sure his visit will be a romantic one. I'm anxious because I'm n...

How do I deal with an extremely moody boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - How do I deal with an extremely moody boyfriend? I've been with him for 4 years (he is 25, I'm 27) and he has always been moody but it's getting harder and harder to deal with these days. For example we have just returned from a trip abroad to s...

Contraception -- condoms and what else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - When having sex should i use one or two forms of contraception just to be on the safe side?? I know i should ask him to use a condom but what other contraception should i use???...

I am not lubricated enough and my boyfriend couldn't care less.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - hii..i have a problem with my boyfriends way of having sex with me the first day we could engage in foreplay first then then when am ready we get into the exact thing..just after that only one encounter he has turned to just wearing a condom and ...

My body issues are holding me back from losing my virginity.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

22 September 2013 (M) - Hi all, I'm in a bit of a difficult spot. I want to lose my virginity with my girlfriend but I also have intimacy issues (I am embarrassed about the way my chest looks) which is making this hard. She has mentioned making love before, but I so...

Boyfriend's mother is dying and says he is letting me go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4117 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - so my recent boyfriend of the last two months told me that he thinks i should move on because he has a lot going on right now with his mom's failing health. I don't mind being there for him regardless of how much he has going on. What should I do? ...

Keeping A Secret From This Guy... Not Sure What To Do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - I have a guy that I been talking to for over a year now. He is simply amazing: funny, sweet, caring, and easy on the eyes if I might add. *grins* We aren’t boyfriend or girlfriend but there is a definite mutual attraction there. We also live over a ...

Need more money making options after maternity leave.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - I have had a wonderful 9 month's off work with my beautiful baby and in 8 weeks my maternity leave ends and I have to go back to work. Before my daughter came along I enjoyed work but now I feel so depressed about it that every time I think about it ...

I have social anxiety and don't feel good about asking a guy out in person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - I have social anxiety. I really like this guy, and I want to ask him out. I always hear people saying that you should only ask people out in person, but I really struggle to talk to people who aren't my close friends. I've ALMOST asked him before ...

Would a penis pump work?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 September 2013 (M) - I've thought of getting a penis pump. I'm not big, between 4.5 and 5.5 and not very thick either. I wanted to know if i use a penis pump and pump it up say just a half inch bigger everyday over a long period of time would it grow to say 6.5/7 and ...

Girlfriend's depression: Am I handling it in the wrong way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

18 September 2013 (M) - My girlfriend suffers from depression. sometimes it's worse than others and right now it's really bad. I'm talking to the point where she can't fulfill her daily functions. She's sleeping through all of her classes and exams and missing work. ...

I know he loves,me he treats me like gold but I don't know how I can ever believe that he loves my physical appearance...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 8 months now. We take each other seriously and are exclusive. I sent a couple of sexy pics for him here and there to make him happy while at work and he wrote responses like "wow...dont be upset if I'm not ...

How to Deal with a Toxic Person

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18 September 2013 (M) - The Best Way To Deal With Toxic People By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Toxic people are defined in this article as people who lack the capacity to reason, or people have the capacity to reason but just do not want to reason with you. In t...

I'm worried about my drunk love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - My name is Ishita .i m 20 years old.i am in a relationship from last 3 years.earlier my boyfriend was alcoholic at all . But after his vacation to Bangalore with his brother he has started drinking in access.he takes in 5 beers a day.which leads to ...

Sisters expect me to act like their mum, but now I'm expecting a child of my own. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - I am 29 living with my two young sisters. They are 26 and 24 respectively. We lost our mother when we were young and since then I have grown up pretty fast.. I was 16 when she died. I have been there for them through thick and thin , however...

He doesn't want kids because he's afraid he could pass on his Aspergers

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3293 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - I'm 30, my boyfriend is 25, and we've been together for 4 years. He has Aspergers syndrome but doesnt show many of the stereotypes (well apart from "special interest" but that's also his job - ironically, he doesn't talk much about it, shifts the ...

I don't want to nag my boyfriend and keep asking if everything is ok but something seems wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's there for me when he is available, I can tell him anything and we are good at being level headed and not fighting with each other. I am concerned, he seems to be pulling away lately. ...

Am I being too cold about males or should I be free and wild?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - I am currently 19 years old and i am single. i am very attractive as i often attract all kinds of men. i 'put myself on pause'as a result of hurt from the past. i am afraid to love and to trust my male companions. I still talk to males but wh...

Do I go on doing my job without justifying? Or do I try confronting her? What's the best strategy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - Hi I started a new job and before we signed the contract, I asked my boss that I do not to wish to do particular tasks at work - which we have discussed at the interview but he forgot all about them once he handded out the tasks...I remind...

I'm having trouble coping with anxiety.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

17 September 2013 (M) - This isn't really a relationship problem but my complete lack of a love life is a big part of how I feel. I suffer from depression and anxiety... depression about my lack of a love life and anxiety about my work life. I was in a pretty shitty jo...

How do I bring myself to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I can't get up the courage to ask this guy out somewhere. I guess I'm just scared of rejection. He's a super nice guy and I don't think he would embarrass me or anything, I just can't bring myself to do it. I have social anxiety which I think might ...

Is it normal after first time sex to hurt when you urinate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - Last night I lost my virginity to my Boyfriend. I'm not in love but I felt ready and it felt right we didn't plan for it to happen, it just did. The thing is it didn't hurt as much and I didn't bleed and it lasted for an hour until he came. We then ...

I think my boyfriend may have adult ADHD. Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - Hi there. I have known my boyfriend for a year. He has a son of 7. The child was diagosed with ADHD. He told me he was very upset to hear that his ex wife, when asked about the family history, had replied yes to psychological disorders from his side ...

I love my best friend, but he causes me pain; is he mysterious or a psychopath?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - Hello everyone 3 Things are getting out of control here and I could really appreciate some help! I’m painfully in love with my best friend. He is fun and at the same time he’s conservative, he is sometimes gentle and some other times really cynic...

Can I climb out of this rut? And get my life back into some semblence of Progress?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - This might generate some flack because this isn't technically a relationship question, but I'm so deep in despair that I don't know where to turn!! Please, pretty please, can you help me? I'm in despair! It's that I have had all these high hopes...

I masturbate about my colleague every night and I'm tired of it! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - I have a crush on someone, a coworker. He has a girlfriend. I know I have no chance in hell with him. However, no matter how hard I try, I can't get him out of my head. I've felt like this about him for the past year, and the feeling is as strong as ...

How to become less needy in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I've dated a lot of guys but actually falling for a guy is rare for me. But I definitely fell for with my current boyfriend, hard. And it scares me. A long time ago I was in a sexually and emotiona...

My ex is taking time out to work on herself as she's severely depressed, should I wait for her or move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I'm super torn up about a break up. My ex girlfriend is having major mental illness issues and can't hold down a functioning relationship anymore. we had been together for over a year, and she'd always battled with severe anxiety and depression, but ...

Why is my son doing this, and is there any way I can help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - My son is 21 years old and gay (although this situation could apply to a straight person as well). He left home in the spring to move up to a resort about 2 hrs north of the city we live in. He decided mid-summer that he was going to take a year off ...

Is it too late to tell him about my miscarriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - when i was 14 i lost my virginity to my then boyfriend Johnny, the following year he dumped me in november a week later i found out i was pregnant around 5 weeks gone, NOONE knew i told noone i was soo scared and was not ready to be a mother i ...

I know I need to let her go because of how she treats me, but I'm in love with her and scared to be without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - This past week and a half my girlfriend hasn't been acting the same and shes done nothing more than push me away, she picks fights for no reason and no matter what i say i'm a monster, there is no making her happy anymore and when i ask her whats ...

How can I stop the leaking after sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now… Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especial...

I need techniques to keep calm when I go on this date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

12 September 2013 (M) - Greetings everyone, I have a big favour to ask... I am going on a date next week with a women that I think is perfect in every way, but I’m concerned that I will be to nervous; are there any techniques anyone can give me to make sure I am calm a...

Is it safe to assume he's infertile?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend had the snip nearly 3 years ago we have been together now for 6 months..he has said he is infertile but has admitted that he never went back for the test to confirm this..could he get me pregnant or is it safe to say I would have got ...