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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

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She is very down and I worry about her, should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi. I have a female friend who has recently separated from her husband. I have made it clear that I am here for her if she needs me to be but have tried not to smother her. She has other close friends. The problem is that she will send me a message ...

Will the man get the yeast infection too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - if a female has a yeast infection and has intercourse with a man, does the man gets it?!...

Do I keep it to myself or tell my sister? My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Yesterday was the worst day of my life. My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair,he trusted me enough to tell me, but I feel like I'm betraying my sister. Please help me what should I do????? My sister also has a life treat...

My first serious relationship. But many anxieties:( Did you go through anything like this? What helped? What didn't help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I'm currently in my first serious relationship, and have been finding it very hard to settle into things. I love my boyfriend very much but it has taken me a while to trust him, how to balance my relationship around my life appropriately, how to a...

I think I've found the one. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I think i have finally found my soulmate. I do a class at my gym, been doing it for about a year now. Our instructor arranged a fitness holiday in july to Turkey. On the holiday i got really friendly with girl from our class and we really hit it o...

After I posed nude for her, how can I be comfortable around my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2293 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - Ok this is really embarrassing, but a female friend of mine is this really awesome sketch artist. It's a little hobby of hers, but she's studying to be an interior designer. After sketching my face a couple of times, she asked me if she could draw ...

How can I help my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4475 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hey everybody. My boyfriend goes through periods of depression. I've experienced similar things in the past so to some extent I understand how it is. Sometimes I find it difficult to know what to do when he goes through these stages. Often we'l...

Why is he ignoring my requests to return my things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi there. I had been dating a man for just over a year. We had spoken of getting married ETC. He suffers from depression therefore it was not uncommon for him to be distant sometimes. A few months ago he told me that he would like to leave things ...

Really heavy menstrual bleeding. Is this normal for my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I'm fourteen, and I've had my period since I was 11. It's been on and off which I know is normal, but it's recently settled down, and this month I've had a really long, heavy period. It started on the 11th and hasn't stopped since. It started off ...

Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...

I feel depressed and lonely because I don't have a girlfriend to cuddle with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - Every day i try to look for some good girls to date and that im interested in,but every body is taken. Some girls just not attracted to me at all. All my friends have GFs but me. Last week i went to my friend house and his GF came over and they was ...

What kind of sexy lingerie should I buy? I feel fat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - i really need help, me and my partner are going away for the weekend to see his family and staying in a hotel. hes paying and the thing is he wants me to wear sumthing sexy well where in the hotel, i dont have a clue what to wear as have never do...

Why can't I get a girl anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - Before I was depressed people said I was cute and fun to be around. People would tell me I could get any girl I wanted. When I hit 15 I got acne and got depressed for NO reason. I think hormones screwed me up or something. Now I'm 18 and still no ...

What should I do about this resentment that he won't try to lose the weight he has gained?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - In March, I started dating a guy I've known for 4-5 years. In may, I decided that I wanted to lose weight and since then, I've lost about 25 pounds, but here's the problem. My boyfriend was about 20 pounds overweight when we made it official, but ...

Who can I show my boyfriend in a special way that I'm ready to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I have a very important query for you all. I'm 17, and have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. I have a feeling I will be with him for a great deal more. He was 18 yesterday, and I am 18 on Wednesday next week. When we first got together...

What should I do? My Boyfriend is SO Jealous. Made a scene at my work. Calls me a slag almost daily

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I feel really bad about what I did to my boyfriend. We have been arguing so much throughout our entire relationship, he always thinks I'm cheating. He calls me a slag almost daily when he has no reason to think it. He came to my work shouting at ...

I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...

Am I causing her trauma? I am a disabled man. How does a Prostitute feel when she has paid sex with a disabled man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I am a disabled person and I started visiting prostitute for paid sex. I am very nice to her and I always give her some extra money. She is also very kind to me, she helps me undress my self and later putting clothes back. She alway seems to be gl...

He says I am the problem, but doesn't want me to get help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Well now where do i begin.. I've been married for 4 for starters total of 4 kids (2 from previous 10 yr relationship) I've known my husband for a total of 12 years altho we've only been together 6 we were friends before. My problem.. when he gets ...

Trying to find the root of my fat fetish and get rid of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Ive been having this fat fetish since I was 11. I fantasize people getting fatter or myself getting morbidly obese,Having a feeder or me being my own feeder,letting myself go,fat humilation. Id be afraid to do it in real life because of medical ...

I'm ashamed of my sexual past and worried about STD's....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - When i was 11 years old i lost both my parents and i had to live with my granny. She waz very stingy and 2 much strict and she abused me and my little sister because she doesn't love our father's family. At the age of 15 i startf drinking alchohol ...

I'm very insecure about my size

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

21 September 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I feel very insecure now that I bought a girdle for football. I am a 19 year old male that is teenager cup size that is small. I feel very insecure about that. Am I under developed? My size is 4 inch erect and 2.5 soft. ...

I want to change but don't know how....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - I never thought that I'll be this depressed. Where to begin. I'm 29, which is too old to be single in my country. My family constantly putting pressure on me, I know they (my dad and sister) mean well, but sometimes I just felt that my da...

How can I tell if I've had a miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - so today i got my period well i think i was about 2 months late and didnt know if i was pregnant or not i took a at home pregnancy test and it came out negative but i still thought i was pregnant. so what if im having a miss carriage would i know? ...

My boyfriend's ex still has keys to his flat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I'm so stressed out, I really need to share this, I've been with this guy for 3 months, very much like him, but his ex is always coming round. She has like keys to the flat, comes and stays for weekends if she's in town. Plus not only that but she ...

Is my boyfriend using my negativity as a stalling tactic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our mid forties and we have each been married (and divorced) once. He for over 10 years...me for over 5 years. We have been dating for a year and a half. We talk about marriage. We talk about where we will live. W...

If I behave like them I might be accepted. I don't want to behave like that. What to do to be accepted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4480 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Hi to all, I don't have many friends at college. I think I am not well-appreciated also and I couldn't tell why. So many times, I just condemn myself when someone is not nice to me and I feel maybe it's my fault. Like for example, my classmat...

I think my friend might have an eating disorder and she won't listen to anyone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - My friend has just come back to university, but it's strange because she doesn't eat as much as she used to. We went for lunch the other day and she chucked more than half in the bin, then we bought food out at the end of our night out and she ...

Is this implantation cramp or normal cramps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

19 September 2012 (M) - A few days ago i fingered my girlfriend that might have traces of dry precum on my finger,4 days later she is feeling these cramps,she said that it feels like her period is coming earlier than usual. Our clothes and everything were on so there is ...

How can I fix this? My husband speaks badly about me and flirts with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - My husband talks bad about me with other people about me. At first, he would let his friends make disrespectful comments about me. Then it went to him telling his relatives bad stuff about me whenever we differed, and some of his relatives would also...

How do I climb out of this pit of despair? People claim I'm worthless. My Bf called me a whore. Others call me names. I feel lost and need help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - i am 15 and I feel all alone. my friends have abandoned me. i have to sell my horses which are my life. i'm told all the time i'm not worth anything. people call me a slut and i'm faithful. i'v lost everyone in my life who ever made me feel wan...

I need to stop! But how? I can't stop contacting an abusive ex boyfriend. Any tips on how to get stronger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I can't seem to stop contacting my ex! Any tips? I was with him for 3 years and he turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive that recently escalated into physical abuse on more than one occasion. We had a condo together and he stil...

Can anyone recommend a good dermatologist in the Manchester area?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I'd like some help and advice on my acne. I have had acne since I was 11 and I am now 17. I understand it is probably my teenage spots. I have tried every product and they just don't work, I have also tried cream and tablets prescribed by my doctor ...

I am reluctant to leave my four year old daughter in the care of my younger sister while I'm away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - Hallo guys. I dont know if i am worrying over nothing. My husband is outside the country. And i am going to be visiting him soon for a whole month. My worry is my daughter who is only 4 and is in nursery. I plan to leave her with my kid sister wh...

My girlfriend is having white discharge 2 days after I fingered her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - Alright so.. about 2 days, 16th September ago me and my girlfriend started to get a lil horny and after awhile i started fingering her, i think i could have precum on my fingers but i wiped it off and fingered her a few minutes after that. 18th S...

Should I break up with the love of my life?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. My relationship has gone in a downward spiral from the minute it started. We met while I was visiting the East Coast from the West Coast. He moved to the West Coast for a job, and for me. We lived together in a nice little ...

I feel too skinny - am I over-reacting to not having enough weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I know that I should not care about what others think but this is coming from my neighbors, boyfriend, and friends.. I lose and gain weight really quick. I am 120 pounds and im 5'5 and I feel like I am perfectly fine. Everyone thinks I look super ...

Does regular sex with a psuedo vagina have the same health benefits as any other form of sex? And is it OK to date while I am separated from my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - My wife has recently left me, so I have been using a fake vagina for release. I was wondering if having sex with a psuedo vagina has the same health benefits as having sex with a real person? Also I was wondering if it is acceptable to have sex with...

Now I am at University how do I make new friends? And how do I cope with lonliness at being so far from everyone I know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - So today was my first day of University and second night staying in student accommodation. I've had a really tough year and finally got out of my depression in time for Uni but now I feel like I am slowly sinking back there. I have never felt so ...

Will masturbating several times every day for nearly a decade affect your fertility?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - If you're a guy and you masturbate between 3-5 times a day ever since you found the joy of self-pleasuring, will it eventually effect your sperm count or even fertility? The reason I ask is because when me and my boyfriend are together and I p...

How do I stop myself from fearing that my girlfriend is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

16 September 2012 (M) - How can I deal with my insecurities and my constant fear that my girlfriend is cheating? I've previously been in three serious relationships, and in all three of them it either ended, or the relationship ended up damaged beyond repair, by the g...

I have no time to myself and I'm depressed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

16 September 2012 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have absolutely no time to myself. Zero. I wake up at 5 AM three times a week to walk my dogs and go to school and I stay there till 5 PM. It takes me about 25 minutes to drive there and about 35 back. Frequently there is traffic....

Boyfriend's penis red and chaffed after sex. Was it just from sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Yesterday after having sex with my boyfriend, he started to feel chafed around the head of his penis. He said it hurt a lot and I noticed it was very red. I couldn't really tell but it almost looked like he was bleeding??? We had sex even though I ...

Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am cur...

What can I do so that he wont know I am not a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Hi, m 21yr old indian girl..had been in a relationship wid a guy approx for 1yr,bt he ditched nd left me,as i trusted on him...i was in physical relationship wid him...but before 1 nd a half year... Nd now m going to marry wid anothr guy......

I scared her with my anger and now she won't take me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

16 September 2012 (M) - Dear Aunties / Uncles, Where do I begin? I've been seeing this AMAZING LADY for about 4 months. I won't lie. We totally fell for one another and I know I am in love with her! I have never ever felt like this before! Anyway, a few weeks a...

He makes constant demands for sex but due to my health and busy lifestyle we can't do it so often.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - I am generaly a happy go lucky kind of girl. In a great relationship with a man i love and cherish and have for near enough 7 years, our sex life is amazing but recently i have run into some problems with my health. Chronic fatigue and i also have ...

Husband is obsessed with his penis size. How can I help him to get over his obsession? I think he's perfect.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - My husband is obsessed with his penis. He thinks it's small, because he heard how big a man I slept with was. How can I tell him to knock it off, and that he is perfect for me? I do but he thinks I'm just trying to make him feel good. He doesn't...

My mother suffers. My Dad puts his own mother as first even ignoring his wife (my mother) if his mother or his sisters demand things. Should I confront family about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - Although this is not purely a love-relationship based question but I would like to hear your thoughts about this. This is about my family, my dad is a man who you call a mommy man, (I refer to my grandmother here) He is a man who loves his mo...

Masturbating hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - Hi to all, First a little intro:About a year ago I decided to lose my virginity just so I could see what the fuss was about(I was 19).Before that I was masturbating for years so I wasn't concerned about hurting or stuff like that.(Never with...