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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:If you're a guy and you masturbate between 3-5 times a day ever since you found the joy of self-pleasuring, will it eventually effect your sperm count or even fertility?The reason I ask is because when me and my boyfriend are together and I pleasure him, when he finishes, nothing comes out at all. The same is when we have sex and he finishes in me (I am on protection), there's nothing.I did ask him if he could stop for a week and as hard as that was for him, he did refrain. Then after one week of no sexual release, we got together and when he finished... about a teaspoon of sperm came out. Am I right to be worried? He doesn't seem to care much but like all men, he has problems admitting if there was something wrong with him. He said when he was younger he was using tonnes of tissues to clean up the mess but now it's like he's dry. I've told him to cut down on the masturbation and as far as I know he only does it once or twice a day, but it's still only about a teaspoon of sperm that comes out. If he stopped masturbating for a while, would that level him out or do you think there's an underlying problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2012): I've never heard of it having long term health effects on a person, but then again I've never done any extensive research into the subject.
Short term non health wise, I would imagine yes.
Obviously if he reduces the amount he masturbates, it will leave him with more sperm to release when the he does masturbate/have sex with you.
Its hard to say if he has an underlying issue health wise, if it concerns you, you could always try and persuade him to go to a doctor and arrange a sperm test.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (17 September 2012):
 Masturbating that much can have major effects on your sex life in the long run, and on your life in general. He's doing it so often he could end up addicted, which can be harmful in a lot of ways.
As for his orgasms... are you sure he's having them? Nothing coming out at all is very odd. Even if he's masturbating twice a day you'd expect something, albeit not very much. He may be pretending!
The good news is usually stopping masturbating corrects the problem, although it can take a while, and a huge amount of willpower.
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