New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2011, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (3), 2 (8), 3 (6), 4 (10), 5 (7), 6 (12), 7 (8), 8 (4), 9 (5), 10 (7),
11 (9), 12 (2), 13 (8), 14 (5), 15 (7), 16 (3), 17 (2), 18 (5), 19 (6), 20 (10),
21 (3), 22 (4), 24 (5), 25 (4), 26 (6), 27 (14), 28 (5), 29 (6), 30 (1), 31 (6),

Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

My sister wants to go back to this horrible man and I'm terrified for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My sister moved to the another country many months ago where she met her current boyfriend and I recently went to visit for a week. In my time spent there I quickly realised that she was in an abusive relationship. My sister is only seventeen and it ...

Has my masturbating taken full control of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - I'm a 26years old male from nigeria and havn't any sexual intercourse with any woman before, but i do masturbate and this year will make it 13years that i have been masturbating. I watch a lot of x-rated movies and read a lot of sex novels. but i'm ...

I don't have the money for a counselor. How can I get my self esteem back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I got cheated on in the past and it has left me massively insecure. I don't have the money to pay for counselling. Any ideas how I can go about getting my esteem back? I have lots of friends and do lots of exercise - I don't hate my looks or figure ...

I was hanging out with my friends, feeling happy, and then out of NOWHERE, my mood shifted and I was depressed. What could this be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Please please please any help will do! Can anyone make sense of this and tell me what the hell happened with me the other night and why this may of happened!?! I'd really appreciate it! I was out on a night with a big group of friends both guy...

I'm bigger to begin with, but now I'm having a baby! What can I expect in terms of my weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - im expecting my first baby. When i told my mum one of the first things she said to me after congratulations was oh no your going to put on more weight! Im a size 16 uk so not a little person, but now im worried that my antinatal apointments are ...

I'm only 18 and look like a middle aged woman!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Please, i have this problem that is bothering me so much. It may only be aesthetics but its really getting my down. I have always had big breasts, although they have always been in proportion to my frame. They have never been pert, nor have i ever ...

What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Question to the women out there on dear cupid... What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone? I only ask this for a little advice as I struggle quit...

How I got out of an abusive relationship!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

29 May 2011 (F) - I have noticed so many woman suffer abuse at the hands of there partners and as somone who has suffered a really abbusive realtionship and come out the oher side i want to say how i did it! Firstly if you have a freind that is in a abusive relation...

Any good health tips, anyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I am 14 and this summer my goal is to be fit. It's not so much as losing weight as it is about becoming healthy. I want to have nice skin and a nice, healthy body. I've been doing research about vitamins I can take such as fish oil, vitamin E, ...

My insecurity is starting to affect my way of living and my relationship with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - im a very insecure person, i dont like the way i look at all and unfortunately its started to effect my way of living. to make things slightly worse, i have a very good looking boyfriend. he knows it and so does everyone else. i always get 'you're ...

His mother treats him badly. How can I help my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 May 2011 (?) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost over 2 years not and he has a lot of problems with his mother. at the age of 12 she sent him to military school for no reason.. it ruined him. he still cries when he's alone. He is now forced to sleep ...

I need some tips. What is the best way too lose weight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Well i am 174cm tall and weigh 95 kg. Over the last three years I have put on five kilos. Most of the time I eat fairly good food but i think I definitely eat way too bigger portions. And I also do eat some bad food if I have the urge. I have bee...

I have a bad smile. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I am a pretty good-looking 20something male, with the exception that I have bad teeth. I don't mean just slightly crooked. They are not rotten, but really bad. They are stained, crooked, ground down, and overall I just feel awful about them. It...

How can I overcome being so very shy with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend loves me going on top,infact he more than loves it, but i get shy sometimes and at times i feel like i'm not doing anything good enough, has anyone got tips on how i can overcome being shy and how i can do anything special whilst on ...

Boyfriend's hygeine keeps me from doing more than handjobs

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - Hi this is kind of an embaressing subject and I wasnt sure where else to turn... it's less about the relationship and more about my boyfriend's hygiene... basically I always put off giving him more than a hand job because he always has a slight bit ...

I still have a bedwetting problem at my age. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 May 2011 (?) - HELLO AUNTS I have an issue of burns in my inner thighs, yesterday my girlfriend noticed the burns while have some oral fun with her, she asked me how did u get burns near your penis balls and inner thighs, I did not mention about it at firs...

Am I allowed to get waxed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Basically, I'm a sixteen year old girl and I want to have my vagina waxed because lots of the girls I am friends with in the sixth form have had it done and their boyfriends love it, I'd probably prefer getting a wax because I'm guessing it looks ...

Any tips on performing oral sex with a small tongue and a sensitive partner??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - so me and my gf had oral sex... i have a really short and small tongue... i can't seem to please her really well... she says her clitoris is too sensitive... when ever i try to lick it she cant take it... even if im being slow, soft , and gentle she ...

Little blood in urine - please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I'm 19. Today, I went down on my girlfriend and licked her vagina a little bit. I also rubbed my fingers outside of her vagina. Everything was alright. I didn't put any of my finger inside of her. And we didn't have sex. Then she got home and told...

After asking me if I had an STD he called me a ho and untrustworthy, but I still really like him. Should I talk to him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - i have always had bad luck with the dating thing, until i went to college i met the guy of my dreams, i wanted him so bad. So one day he hit me up and gave me his number and i was so happy, we started texting daily and hanging out and then we ...

How do I stop hating her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - I used to have a "thing" with a guy. That ended a while ago then he got a girlfriend who lives in the same town as him. He lives hours away from me. So, he's been with her nearly two years but for nearly a year and a half of that he's been coming on ...

After her miscarriage and being diagnosed with cancer, she somehow seems less interested in me. Why is that?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - hey agony aunts, im in a pickle and need some advice. Ive been with my girlfriend for a little over a month now, and the first few weeks went great, but then she started feeling sick and went to the doctor and found out she was 6 weeks pregnant f...

I feel like telling this older woman I work with that I like her, just to get it off my chest!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Hi Im 23 and have a girlfriend that I've had for the past 5 years. Now there is a new older woman (who is single) at work who i get along with great with, now i can't sleep at night or concentrate on anything because i keep thinking about t...

I need to stop feeling anxious and appear more confident and sociable! Tips, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm going to start a work placement next week, that i have to do for one month. If i don't go, my benefits will be stopped for a few months. I am on benefits while i look for work. The benefits i am on are called Jobseeker's Allowance. However, ...

I love pets but am very sad that I don't think I'm meant to have one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Lately I've been feeling blue and I'm not sure if there's a solution to my problem. It's not a relationship problem, but it's driving me crazy! I absolutely LONG to have a pet of my own, and I know that nothing else will fill that void. The ...

Why do I like getting attention from guys but then never following through on it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Is it bad that when i go on a night out i like the idea of meeting guys and getting the attention from them? I want to make out with them, but not so that it leads to sleeping together cause i couldn't do that with a stranger! But I don't understand ...

Why do I feel like I've been cursed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Why does this keep happening to me? what is wrong with me? I can't keep anything down:( I feel so depressed, frustrated and extremely stressed out. I've been looking for a job for 3years now no luck..I've been on numbers on interviews wh...

What is a good way to react to his high stress levels?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - Does anyone have any tips on how i can cheer up my bf, he is so down at the moment and stressed. We are planning to spend the weekend togther and just chill and do nothing, we both need it. Thing is he gets shouty when he is stressed and then i get ...

Heart spamming on facebook makes me sick. Normal, or am I jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - This is a mixed question, but I will try to explain what I mean best as possible. This is about how people choose to use facebook and the reactions people have to it. Im especially thinking about the couples who declare their undying love for...

His grandmother has just died. He's sad. Is it too soon to ask my ex to go hang out with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - what can I do.?.. well my ex boyfriend and I were trying to fix everything out. However, when he talked to my parents everything changed, because he understood that my parents didn't want me near him, so we stopped hanging out(but they don't care i...

Intense pain in the pelvic area whenever me and my fiancé are intimate. Any idea what this could be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - so lately ive been having some trouble sexually. The last couple of weeks ive been experiencing a deep pain in my pelvic area whenever me and my fiance are intimate. this has happened before and took several months to go away, and now its back with ...

Is it normal to bleed after not having sex for a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I hadn't had sex for 4 years. I've met someone, we did it, but it hurt so much and I'm still bleeding, not scary bleeding but still. Why is that? I'm not a virgin and I was pretty wild up until 4 years ago. He was long but not too wide. It was ...

Should I stop stretching and bending my fingers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Hi Cupid. This isn't about love but it's a small question. When im in class or just bored I start messing with my hands. I gently yank my fingers and then I bend them one at a time to each side. I was just wondering if this helps in any way to ge...

I have genital warts. How do I tell my b/f?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Hi I've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months and everything has been going amazingly, but I just found out I have genital warts. I know that HPV can be in the system for quite a long time before breakouts occur, so I'm not worried about hi...

How do I stop my compulsion to try to fix things for my boyfriend?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

26 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love some words of wisdom to help me change my pattern of behaviour in my relationship...if my bf seems down or has worries about work, etc, I always feel I need to cheer him up, and get really sad when I can't. I know these problems are ...

So why haven't I met someone who seems like a good match?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - So I'm 27, almost 28, and I've never had a real serious relationship. It frightens me, because I feel like there's something wrong with me! I date guys, but they never seem to stick around long (I'm not clingy, I'm actually pretty cool and funn...

Is she manipulating me? Does she want me back? Should I move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago but decided to stay friends. The first big torpedo for us was me catching her sexting her ex- from long ago and hurting my trust. She begged for forgiveness and for us to stay friends; I caved because I stil...

What inside of me makes me wanna be so attached?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - I'm 19 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half and things were going great. There was a time before during the relationship where i felt i needed her and when i didnt see her for a day i would feel awful and not want to ...

I'm not sure what is going on with my body but I'm too embarrassed to ask my doctor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - i've recently become active again with my current partner after splitting up with my ex 8 months ago. I haven't used a comdom because we were both checked before we started sleeping together and one morning i was in the shower and i noticed what ...

I cannot seem to win, there always seems to be something she wants to have a go at me about!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend has been having a go at me alot recently sometimes it's very small things, sometimes not so much. But when she realises that she's wrong about something, or that she took something the wrong way, or she overreacted about ...

Just how likely is my penis size going to be a problem when I do become sexually active?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - This will seem like it's verging on a question I've seen asked a hundred or more times across the net, but bear with. Does size matter? I've read up on it enough to have my own thoughts on this, but it's still playing on my mind a lot. I've rece...

I queef, therefore I blush. Make it stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Here's an embarassing question... So, when I get turned on, my vagina seems to open up and suck in some air. The result is queefing. This doesn't happen if something penis sized is inserted (except once with a very small penis), but if something...

My wife has gotten so fat, I can barely have sex with her!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - When I married my wife she was smoking hot. I would say an LA "8". Everywhere we went cars honked at her, I couldn't take a piss w/o a guy taking my barstool and taking his shot. Even women hit on her So we got married. As the years ticked by ...

I'm trying to conceive and my ob-gyn tells me that testing negative is "good." What gives?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I went to my ob/gyn for a check up and she did a pregnancy test. When the test came back neg she said the it was "good" that I was not pregnant. Why does she say that when we are actively "trying to conceive?"...

Worried and depressed and food is the only thing that makes me feel better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice. Im 5ft 4 and weigh 12 1/2 stone (175 pounds) Im at least 3 stone overweight and i feel really fat and ugly. I used to be a healthy weight and have now lost all my confidence, i dnt even bother making an effort...

Boyfriend's adhd is causing problems in our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend had adhd as a child and does affect him as an adult in our relationship in that he fidgits alot and i need to tap him to remind him to keep still i tolerate it when we are going sleep, that he moves alot before he gets comfortable...

I think I may have PCOS. Does this make me unattractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I think I may have PCOS. I seem to have many of the symptoms, including unwanted facial hair, hair on my nipples and I struggle to loose weight. I first noticed them when I came off the pill a few years ago. (The pill was making me crazy and tur...

What is cream pie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I'm 19 years old and i had my first intercourse at 17. I do not have a boyfriend but I have a partner. Whenever we cant meet up I use my toy and sometimes there's a white creamy liquid on the toy. I'm wondering if that is girl cum or what? I've seen ...

I feel I had an unnecessary abortion, how do I stop crying over this??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Im an emotional wreck after having a termination 3 months ago. My boyfriend and i planned the pregnancy and he promised me he would step upto the mark, move into my place and that we would get married as soon as i got pregnant. I had no reason to...

I want slim legs, which aren't toned... is this possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - My legs are quite well-toned as I do lots of trampolining and cycling. But I hate how they look, it makes my legs seem very curvy and I know that a lot of men like curvy women but I just hate how my legs look so much. Is there any way which I ...