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writes: what can I do.?..well my ex boyfriend and I were trying to fix everything out. However, when he talked to my parents everything changed, because he understood that my parents didn't want me near him, so we stopped hanging out(but they don't care if we go out because he is a chill guy). But I want to fight for him back again.The problem know is that he is in no humor for anything because he has just lost his grandmother(she passed away) and when I called him today he said he didn't want to hang out(he sounded so sad). what can I do to change his mind and make him feel better with out getting rejected and make my day go down.?
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reader, lysha +, writes (27 May 2011):
basically you need to be their as his mate before you try and be anything else, do you know where he lives? if he does then go to his house and ask to speak to him, give him a hug and tell him if he needs to talk to you then your always gonna be their, or ask him if he would like to take a walk to talk about things:)
what he needs at the moment is a friend before a relationship, you may then be in luck and he the two of you may become closer and in time you can progress from their, just be their as a friend, but dont get to friendly, you dont wanna get stuck in the friend zone:)
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