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writes:Ok so my girlfriend has been having a go at me alot recently sometimes it's very small things, sometimes not so much. But when she realises that she's wrong about something, or that she took something the wrong way, or she overreacted about something small, she has a go at me for making her feel like a bitch or like a fool. Everyone lashes out when they're angry, it's what happens, but when she makes me angry and I say stuff like 'you don't try hard enough' or something along those line, she has a go at me for trying to do romantic stuff because then she 'can't match what I do', so when I back off the romantic stuff she has a go at me about not trying hard enough. I cannot seem to win, there always seems to be something she wants to have a go at me about, and it's starting to have a negative effect on my life, I haven't slept properly in 3 weeks and I just feel nervous all the time.RegardsD Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 May 2011):
You have yourself a Drama Queen on your hands, my friend. And most men at some point have been through this. What counts now is whether you remain or whether you go.
If this was a man doing this to a woman, we'd tell her to leave because he was emotionally abusive. And that's the advice I have to give to you. Someone in your life shouldn't be causing you sleep loss and causing you to feel nervous.
What she does is classic attention seeking, Drama Queen behaviour.
She complains that when you forgive her, she feels like a bitch.
She complains about small things.
She doesn't try hard enough.
She complains that you don't try hard enough.
She then complains that you try too hard.
And do you know why she does it? It's because she has you right under the thumb, pinned, doing what she wants all the time. This girl is exactly as she described herself - a bitch and a fool.
And that's why you should leave her. There are thousands of better girls than this. Don't be her doormat anymore. Get rid of the cow and move on.
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