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writes:HiIm 23 and have a girlfriend that I've had for the past 5 years. Now there is a new older woman (who is single) at work who i get along with great with, now i can't sleep at night or concentrate on anything because i keep thinking about this woman, its driving me crazy, last night i only managed to get about 4 hours sleep because i kept thinking of her. Now its the weekend im actually abit depressed that i won't be able to see her tomorrow. I've been like this the past 4 weeks and getting less and less sleep.I feel like just telling her i like her, so its off my chest and so i can clear my head. I really don't know what to do.
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reader, a-g55 +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Ok you need to ask her if she wants to go and see her fave comedian live. or book tickets for you and a guy friend. but before you ask him to go. mention to her tht you have these tickets and see if she wants to come.
then message me for instructions on how to escalate into kissing her!
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reader, Manny +, writes (28 May 2011):
Manny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe calls be babe, when ever i email her she always puts in a little funny comment. She asked to borrow some comedy dvd as she "trusts my comedy taste". She always compliments my work and says "im very talented"
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reader, Manny +, writes (28 May 2011):
Manny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer personality is great, she is very easy going, and she looks amazing in my eyes.
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reader, burberrypie +, writes (27 May 2011):
What is it you want, her looks, experience, another woman in general, or a mother figure?
I have dealt with this before, just had to be honest with myself.
Good luck :)
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reader, a-g55 +, writes (27 May 2011):
You need to build attraction. if you tell her how you feel your putting yourself on the line and you stand to lose. You need to start building attraction. First gather me some situations that you think indicate that she likes you. you must have some. then read my article on this site about how to tell if a girl is attracted to you.then you need to think if she is touchy feely or likes to touch people as she is talking.how is her body language.. open or closed?im trying to see if i can tell what her needs are then i can advice how to get her to open up to you so you can be let in. girls are all fundementally wired the same psycologicly and no matter what age you can break through the barriers.
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